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Guys I had a guy just break my heart.:(
Hey guys well I had a guy that's known me all my life I'm 19 years old and a girl btw.
He was always making up excuses for why he would have to do something with me another day or when he wanted my help with something the he would be like I'm sorry but I'm busy maybe another time.
But anyways I need to know how to distance myself from him because he was supposed to be there for me but I'm feel like I'm done being his friend.
What should I do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Yup it happens, not everyone stays friends forever. People change and grow apart, thats not really a bad thing its just part of life.
Youll make new friends and people will come and go through your life over the years, and the ones who really care will always stay and or be there for you when you really need it. Some people lose perspective on whats important in life or what kind of impact they are making on the people around them because their so caught up in their own shit that they cant see past anything but the little world of their own that their living in at that moment in time. He may wake up and realize what he did and come around again, he may not but thats not your concern. You need to continue to live your life for you and not worry about what hes (or others) are doing.
They will be held accountable for themselves and their own actions when the time comes and so will you so make sure youve done good and youll have nothing to worry about. ; )
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ok so your 19 and your basically an adult
at this age you come to realize that most of your friends are not really friends and most of them will turn away not for the worst but for the better,
you saying "I'm not going to be your friend anymore" will sound very childish, am i right? so what you do is minimize contact you could still be cool with that person but you know that he is not going to have your back when you need it. so make a choice whether you want to have his back or not,
treat him as if you guys are just associates. it would be better than just ending a friendship because one incident
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