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how to tell if a girl like you or not?
how to tell if a girl like you or not?
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age wise is what you should add but il do this
14-16 they would talk to you whenever say hi smile make eye contact wave, and even sometimes make you seem like your awkward depending on what type of girl she is
17-20 they will instantly answer text phone calls and not have you on hold for too long, ask you wyd a lot not to be nosy but to have a conversation with you
21-25 they will try to pretend they are not so desperate but continue to hold a conversation but at any given chance they will be openly willing to hang out, drinks clubs or just movies at home
but al girls that like someone will try to put that i don't like you face on unless you show them that you like them other then that they may be here asking the same question about you
HOW TO TELL IF A GUY LIKES YOU OR NOT?
so the best thing to do is, make it know that your interested, i prefer one on one when you say, so that she can be more conformable by making it clear that its just you and her
whats the worst that could happen?
only one answer out of two YES or NO
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I am going to first play semantics and explain how I interpret the meaning of the word,"like; in this situation before i give my answer.
It is hard to know if you like an odd flavor of icecream, like licorice or coconut until you are more familiar with it, from trying it out.
Same for relationships. THE stage you are talking about is one where you really know very little about the person, not enough to know in the long term if you will actually really like the person once you get to know more about them and experience spending time with them.
So rather, I call this stage, "Attraction". So what you really want to know is if a girl is attracted to you. Does she like your looks? Does she like some surface level things she can pick up from observing you at school for example like, does she like how you smile, your laugh, your self confidence, how you carry yourself. Beyond that, there isn't enough to know if two people will really get along until they hang out together or date. I also call initial dating the info gathering stage, same as hanging out. Once sure you want to be with this person, then comes the commitment of asking each other to be bf/gf.
So now, how to know if she is attracted to you:
She can be caught looking in your direction often, ending up staring at you.
She smiles at you alot. She may even say at least Hi when she sees you but not greet other guys with a Hi or stare at them. Maybe she's more brave and approaches you to talk to you. Think about it, why would she risk approaching often a guy whom she doesnt find attractive only to give him the impression that she likes him so he starts pursueing her? She won't do that. Neither do guys. So if they are willing to seek you out to talk to you on a constant basis, it's guaranteed they find you attractive.
If she's not making a move towards you, how does she respond when you approach her first? A good thing to look for is subconscious body reacions, body language. If you approach to stand close enough that you could lift your hand and be able to touch her arm or shoulder, you are in her personal space. When its someone welcome a person remains in place or may move a little closer to you. If its a person someone doesnt like or isnt attracted to, they will subconsciously back away a step or two to recreate that space between them selves and the other person. Another positive body language is when a person leans towards you when speaking in conversation. A person is really comfortable if able to use their hands as they talk, perhaps touching in innocent way. Or another thing people do but aren't aware they are doing is if comfortable with and really interested in the other person, they will begin to ape, mimic the other persons movements to some extent. If you reach up to scratch your head, she'll reach up to scratch, pat her hair in place or tuck a strand behind her ear. If you move the position of your legs while sitting, she'll do the same and move her legs, sometimes to the exact position you put yours in.
Flirting is also important in gauging the other persons response is they will accept your approach and conversation. read the posted link for teen help on how to flirt.
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