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what do i get my boyfriend for christmas?? we've been together for about a year, and i want to get him something nice not just a shirt or something like that.
a little about him: he's a total goof.. likes hunting, racing, comedy.. he's really sweet but not super sappy... he is not a prep.. just a normal, average guy
anyone have any CREATIVE ideas? please help!!

Well you can just sit around with him next to the fireplace and just hang out with eachother and have a nice dinner...and maybe make a CD of like all his favorite song and write a little about what maybe some of the songs remind you of him and maybe even write a song for him or just a poem or even just a list of things that you love about him and what makes him special just to read to him..

hope I helped...need anymore ideas just drop one in my inbox.. : )

xoleahh

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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much

I think and it sounds to me like he really does have feelings for you....maybe he just is scared or embaressed or doesnt know what to say to you after what happend that night. It might of felt a little awkward to him(because you two were broken up) even though he may have liked it.Just lay back a little but not completely.... and give him his space so he can figure things out...but also try and talk to him and be like..we have to talk about what happend that night....I hope everything works out!!!...if you have any more questions just drop another one in my inbox!!


xoxox leah

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What do you do if you want to kiss your girlfriend. But you dont know if you are ready

Think about it....do you really want to kiss her?...do you think she is ready to kiss you?....do you picture it this way?...anymre questions just ask and drop one in my inbox...


xoxox leah

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mmk so me and this guy have been dating for about a month now and just recently he told me he loved me and i had just gotten over my ex (which he doesn't know) and i didn't say it back because in my opinion its a bit too soon to be loving someone else. but i feel bad b/c i didn't say it. what should i do? i really like this guy but i'm not sure that i love him. help!

Tell him that...he might of felt a little awkward that he said it and you didnt you didn't say it back...but just tell him that you feel and you really like him and just want to get to know him more before you tell him that you love him...and honestly if he really loves you he will stick around and wait till you are ready and not just be like its over...hope i helped..anymore questions just ask..

xoxo leah

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well me and my boyfriend broke up 4 or 5 days ago, and I talked to him today and I mentioned that I am talking to a x bf of mine,and he didnt sound very happy, I asked him if he was ok he said yea....but he didnt sound like he wanted me to date another guy, when he broke up with me he told me from his heart that I was the hardest girl to break up with cause he really cared for me, and he barely has emotional feelings for girls but he was CRYING on the phone when he told me that he just wanted to be close friends.... can ya please give me some advice on if he still cares for me...

I DEFINATLY think he still cares about you...and that is probably why it was hard for him to break up with you and it is hard for him to think of you with another guy. The reason he broke up with you is because maybe he just needs time apart or doesnt see you as being his girlfrined anymore...but he definatly still cares about you!! Anymore questions just drop one in my inbox....good luck


xoxo leah

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ok so me and this guy have liked eachother for a while no, we hung out every weekend during the summer, and during the first couple weeks at school, and he would always give me hugs, but then we started to become a little distant, and then today, he said " i dont like you anymore", but in kind of a funni way i guess..i think..but he is a joker type person, and then right after he saud that he gave me a hug...i dont know if he ment it..or what....im confused

I dont think he ment it.....a lot of my friends do the same thing we always fool around with eachother and were always like i hate you but we never meen it and we laugh about it.....i dont think that he really meant it..

xoxo leah

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(FOR THE LADIES)
What could a guy do to get your attention and make you feel like the most special girl in the world?

Dont neccesaraly buy us gifts all the time...ya once and a while there nice and like special things...but if you keep giveng us them over and over and over it kind of gets annoying....but anyways take us special places....i personally love walking on the beach at night and dinners...just spending alone time with your man is always awsome....tell us you love us all the time and give us compliments =)

xo leah

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i really like this boy and he knows i like him but im afraid to ask him wat he thinks of me,but i dont want to get rejected wat should i do.

have someone else for you ask him

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ok there is this guy on myspace thats wants me to hang out with him. i don't know if i should. i know my mother wouldn't agree with it, so what should i do?? is it good to meet someone from online??

Well im just going to tell you that your mother may not agree with it and my mother didnt either...i am saying this because i know...i met this guy online and we started talking and i started to really like him and now hes my boyfreind....i have never met him though and i wont for a while because as much as I love him I still dont feel safe or comfortable meeting him...so what i suggest you do is talk to this myspace guy over e-mail or aim and use the phone too...but dont plan on meeting him just yet....first you must really trust him completly but if you really want to meet him dont go alone..ok??...go with a group of friends or sumthing..
hope i helped and good luck!

xo leah

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why is my ex trying to ruin the relationship im in with my new boyfriend robby?? i mean i dont like my ex and he has a girlfriend so why is he doing this to me??

idk y hes probably a jerk and is jealous of you and robby...if this is really bothering you talk to your ex

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I am an 18 year old girl who has been with the same boyfriend for 2 years and things haven't been great from the start.Now things are really boring and we do the same things week after week and we have no sex life at all.A couple of months ago I met a guy that works at the local pub and sing with him all the time and we get on really well.He is leaving the job now to free up his weekends and agreed to come out on a night out with me and swapped numbers.Now I can get him out of my head and don't know whether to make a go with my current boyfriend or try and get to know this other guy. What should I do?

Well me personaly would try doing some new stuff with your current boyffreind..things that you 2 will have fun doing (maybe even an amusement park or sumthing)....you both obviously still love eachother and stuff because you have been together for 2 years....After trying to make it work and it fails go for it with the other guy but STILL stay friends with your current b/f just incase it wldnt work out with the other guy. But like I said i suggest trying to have more fun and excitment with your current b/f to make it work.
hope I helped
Leah
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okay well my boyfriend loves me and im not sure if i lvooe him like sometimes i reallly do and sometimes its iffy! we barely ever see eachother because we both play for select teams! or im with my family in branson or illinois! well tell me what to do pleeeaaassee!!!

ok, welll you cant always control your feelings.....but maybe your feeling this way because you two cant always get alone time a ton or watever....but talk on the phone at least whenever u cam or AIM.... but i hate to say his but maybe you were just ment to be friends because maybe y your feeling this way (iffy sumtimes) is because you dont have the same feelings you did when you first met and they are not as strong...but i say try the first solution I gave you and see if seeing or talking to him more wld help change those feelings to stronger ones......
hope I helped

Leah

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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on???

omg its a definate absolute turn on...I meen what girl wouldn like that

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Im 14 and i really love my boyfriend. We haven't kissed yet but i really wanna kiss him. I'm this memorial day party soon and im hoping maybe it'll happen there. I want it to be really special and i know i shouldn't like plan our first kiss but, i want it to be really special and i wanted to know if there's anything we can do or place to go to make it better.. let me know!
Thanks! xoxo

Theres not much you can do about making it better and stuff...your first kiss should be special and to me I think it will just happen when the time is right...dont rush!!

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OK my boyfriend just dumped me yesterday and eh used the line, "I love you, but i don't want a girlfriend right now." Has anyone gotten that one before? If any boys see this what does it actually mean? is it just a nice way to dump me becuase how can you *love* someone but not wanan go out with them?

No one has used that line but hes a jerk and your right he cant love someone and not want to go out with them

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Hi,what i want to tell you is that I have a boy friend and I have feelings for this other guy and this other guy is a guy that I can really connect with but this guy is getting in the way of my boyfriend and the feelings I'm supposed to have for my boyfriend,so what should I do?My friends say the other guy is a real hotty but my boyfriend looks at me as the gurl he really likes.updte me under the name Phxgurl.Please give me the best advice possible.The other guy goes to my games and supports me and the others but he theat guy that always makes me smile and I'm comfortable around him.

I say go with your gut do you want a guy that supports you and goes to your games or someone that you are comfortable around and makes you smile. Trust me think hard and you will make the right decision

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i have a boyfriend of 3 years but lately i have been talking to this other guy, who is 23. i am 17 years old. i really am starting to like this other guy and i feel as if i dont have strong feelings for my boyfriend anymore. i ended up having sex with the 24 year old..and we talked even after that. he says he cares about me and likes me and isnt messing with anyone else. he knows i have a boyfriend and has told me to choose before but i just changed the subject. i want to know your opinions on this.

Stick with the one you love more but I think this other guy is to old

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alright, well today on january 3rd,2005, i called this kid named pat that i really really really like and hes 18, but he has a girlfriend and i asked if he wanted to chill and he said yeah and that he'll call me sometime cause he has my number..but i was really jealous when he said he was chillen with his girlfriend when i called him, and i really like him and i dont know if hes really gonna call me back. i think its a crock of shit but hes wicked nice and mature ..what do you think? is he gonna call me back or no? and do you think i should be jealous of that girlfriend?

SIgned - heartbroken&confused

Dont be jealous

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well heres the deal i dont know what 2 get my boyfriend and i dont want him to get me something and me not get him something. So what should i get for him for Valentines day????????
oxoxoxox,
Confused

What he likes
cd's things with hearts on them

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I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 weeks and I really like him. My only problem is that I'm afraid to trust him because I don't want to get hurt emotionally. I've heard that he cheats on his girlfriends, and he lies, and he's dirty, and he's just using me, but when I'm with him, he tells me and shows me that he's not like that at all. I really want to be able to love him, but will I regret it? Should I let down my guard? He's 3 years older than me if it helps. Thanks in advance.

Let down your guard if you really love him but who knows

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