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I am an 18 year old girl who has been with the same boyfriend for 2 years and things haven't been great from the start.Now things are really boring and we do the same things week after week and we have no sex life at all.A couple of months ago I met a guy that works at the local pub and sing with him all the time and we get on really well.He is leaving the job now to free up his weekends and agreed to come out on a night out with me and swapped numbers.Now I can get him out of my head and don't know whether to make a go with my current boyfriend or try and get to know this other guy. What should I do?
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well you said that you and your boyfirend arebt getting along well..so why stay with him if you dont even want to??? you couil be free and not worrying what your boyfriends going to say or do when you tell him..maybe its for the best of you to to break up with him!!!well you shouild also give that other dude a chance!!!you never no it might be a future for yall..lol...well you do what your heart tells you to...
hope i helped..
love always,
ilovepink101
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ok, to speak the truth, if you break up with you current, it will be better for both of you. since if you are not having fun, neither will he. so tell him that it will be good for both of you because it WILL. and go out with the new guy.
hope i helped =)
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well, we don't really know the other guy or your current boyfriend but fom what i can tell you need to do wat you want to do your young and have time to find the right guy that you want to be with you obviously know that you won't be with your current bf for the rest of your life so i say go for this other guy
much love
x3 mari
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You know I hate to say it but if your relationship hasn't been earth shattering from the beginning you are basically wasting your time with the current boyfriend. I think its time for a change. I think the current relationship is more of a habit than anything else. Break the habit and try the new guy out. But, you knew that already didn't you. :)
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Well to years with your current boyfriend has got to take a toll on the relationship.
try spicing things up (wow that sounded corny) with your boyfriend but if things don't improve maybe there is just nothing left there.
I know it sounds like bad advice but really try telling your boyfriend that your not getting much from the relationship.
Does he feel the same way?
work it out. You have been with him for two years you should be able to talk to him.
Don't rule the other guy out as a friend. He seems like some one fun. I wouldn't make any move towards him though. No matter how tempting.
love
~kooka
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try to do some more romantic kinds of things with your current b/f. and just be close friends with the other guy. just go out as friends.
"don't know whether to make a go with my current boyfriend or try and get to know this other guy." why can't you do both? i wouldnt see a problem with that.
hope this helps & good luck- :)
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Well me personaly would try doing some new stuff with your current boyffreind..things that you 2 will have fun doing (maybe even an amusement park or sumthing)....you both obviously still love eachother and stuff because you have been together for 2 years....After trying to make it work and it fails go for it with the other guy but STILL stay friends with your current b/f just incase it wldnt work out with the other guy. But like I said i suggest trying to have more fun and excitment with your current b/f to make it work.
hope I helped
Leah
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