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alright, well today on january 3rd,2005, i called this kid named pat that i really really really like and hes 18, but he has a girlfriend and i asked if he wanted to chill and he said yeah and that he'll call me sometime cause he has my number..but i was really jealous when he said he was chillen with his girlfriend when i called him, and i really like him and i dont know if hes really gonna call me back. i think its a crock of shit but hes wicked nice and mature ..what do you think? is he gonna call me back or no? and do you think i should be jealous of that girlfriend?
SIgned - heartbroken&confused
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no.1 if he calls you back.. its not coz he likes you.. he may just wanna be friends.. and no.2 id stop liking him its a waste of time if he already has a girlfriend.. he is 18 which means there is a very huge chance he may end up marrying her and having kids with her.. so yeah.. get over him and find someone who is free.. not taken
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First off Pat is 18 and HAS a girlfriend. This should hint to you that he has a life and might get pretty busy. I know when I'm caught up in alot I forget to call people. But on the good side, he has your number. Here are some things that you need to know:
1) Age is BIG - An 18 yr. old guy doesn't want to hang out with a 13-14 yr. old girl. That would be like he's hanging out with his sister. If you are near is age, You ahve a chance with him.
2) Looks are big too - If his girlfriend is ugly those are big bonus points for you (if you are pretty). But there are some guys that don;t care about looks.
3) There have to be sparks - If Pat is not interested in you, then probably he might not call. But if you are considered one of his buddies, he just might.
I don't think you should be jealous of his girlfiend because they come and go. And hey, if he doesn't call, but you still want to talk to him and hang out, call him! And if he's busy ask him when would he have some free time. I hope I helped.
**[Ania]**
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Well, he may or may not call back, I don't know the guy, but he sounds like the type that may either take a long while, wait for you to call him, or he wont call you. It's understandable that you would be jealous of his girlfriend, but it's not HER you're jealous of, it's her relationship with this guy. Remember that. He may be a "wicked nice and mature" 18 year old guy that wont call you because he has a girlfriend. But you should call him and talk to him, tell him how you feel. good luck, hope I helped. -Angel
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