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So, I'm in love with this guy I've known for a year, he's 15... he's in highschool. He makes me smile! He's the sweetest, anyways I'm 13 female I will be finishing my last year of middle school this year. He claims he's in love with me as well, but I feel bad because of the fact that I can't just make plans with him because my dad doesnt know about him & also there is females out there that are his age & can have a boyfriend. I'm not sure if I can have a boyfriend or not.. But I'm just scared to ask my dad. So how should I tell him? HELP! (link)
THis isn't a really big age difference since some people have 5 years difference and you have only 2. The best thing to do is to just ask your dad.

Don't ask him directly, start a conversation with him, for example talk to him and say "when did you and mom meet?" And then ask him questions such as "did you have girlfriends before mom?" And "how old where you?" Then you dad might see that you taking intrest in his love life might mean that you met some one, this will get him interested and give yiu and opertunity to ask the question.

This is the simplest way to do this without alarming your dad too much.

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Hi, I'm 14/f and there's a boy in my grade that I have a massive crush on. The problem is, I don't know him all that well. I have talked to him a few times, and he laughed a lot when I told a funny story to the class. The problem is, my psychotic ex boyfriend TOLD him that I like him, to his face, with me standing right there. Most mortifying moment of my life. But anyway, he knows that I like him from that incident and like half of my friends have asked him if he knows me ( which he does.) Will he think I am a complete stalker? Does he think I'm creepy, or is he flattered? I guess I'm kind of pretty, nice, and I have friends... I'm not like a freak. Also, how do I talk to him now?? Won't it seem obvious that the only reason I'm talking to him is because I like him? I only have one class with him (and lunch as well) and I sit across the room from him. How do I talk to him? I get butterflies whenever I'm near him, and I always get scared to talk to him. He's really nice, funny, and a genius! Please help me! I really like him! (link)
What I think you should do is go to him and say "sorry for my ex's behavior"
He will understand and if he already knows you like him, he probably likes you too.
since he didn't say anything to you like "sorry but I don't like you back.
"
In my opinion he likes you and you should take a risk.

-Ask Alice


Idk if i should be uncomfortable about stuff that I do with my boyfriend. It feels so good and I love it but is it right now he is great at it so idk someone tell me please is it bad? (link)
You should decently feel comfortable with stuff you do with your boyfriend.
If it isn't then it is obviously to wrong time and you shouldn't be doing it.
It is not bad to like what you and your boyfriend do.
That is what we where made to do.
Other wise relationships would be really boring.
Don't feel guilty just for loving him and having a good time doing stuff with him.
This is normal.

-Ask Alice

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so theres this girl in my school. Firsts time we met iwas a ta in the class and i had to help the students so i offered help and she asked for it. So i went over there everyone in the group was koo and we were all just talkin about random stuff. Then she really seemed to like me kinda laughing and touching. Then she suggested we txt but didnt have my phone at the time. So that was it tthen we talked a couple of days in the same class. But then stopped going to the group cuzz i kinda felt sketched out. She always seemed to ignore me outside of class not even lookin at me. So i was like fuck it. Nut then i just keep ignoring it. Then im comin outa my zero period and she was there and waved and said hi. And came up to me during lunch to cut and asked why i was hanging out with the other girls in the class. I was kinda like just doin my work.then i was like ill add her fb and never got accepted so i was like wtf am i missin somethin.does she like me or not. So the question is from kinda what i told you although not exactly thurough would it seem like she does or not. Im a male 17. Any suggestions of what i should do cuzz i do want to get to know this girl? Also shes 16.also shes a freshmen and ima senior which also kinda makes me just forget about it. (link)
I see what is going on here.
She is trying to make you jealous or to be desperate for her.
What she is basically doing is trying to make it look like she isn't interested.
This can get really annoying and out of hand sometimes.
The best thing to do is to not be shy and just ask her what is going on.
Ask her out, do something that is brave.
What she wants is for you to come after her.
You could just leave it and treat her like she does to you.
The reason she was flirting with you in the beginning was because she didn't have a game plan yet.
Then she figured out that you knew she liked you.
Then she decided to play it cool and make you come after her.
Trust me the girl world is cruel out there, watch your step.
BElieve me I know all about it.
Ask her out, if you think she is cool, take a chance, you have noting to loose.

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hi ya, my boyfriend seems bit jealous because whenever he sees me being on a msn chatting with my mates he asks, who you talking to, or is that your other boyfriend? i'm like, what? and yet he says he's not bothered AT ALL. NOT AT ALL. what does he mean? i've heard that if a guy is jealous or possessive that means he loves you or does he being jealous means he loves me more or is he just being a typical jealous man? help guys. cheers! (link)
This is typical jealousy.
Guys have it all the time.
I remember in high school i had lots of guy friends.
And my boyfriend would always say, do you like like them.
It is a typical survival of the human male species.
Don't worry it means he loves you allot and that he cares about you.
Just talk to him and tell him you love no one but him

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Ok, so I'm taking the guy that I like to a dance in February. I really like this guy and I'm seriously considering kissing him. Should I wait, or should I make the move? If you have anything that's related to my question, please tell me. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks! (link)
Well good luck at the dance firstly.
It really depends on what type of guy her is.
If he is a flirt and girls seem to like him, make the first move.
Those kind of guys like that sort of stuff.
If he is shy there are two ways to go.
There are some shy guys that will never make a move so you should.
If he is the shy kind that wants to take it slow don't.
It really depends on what you think, do you think it is right?
If you truly do, then make the move.
Also there is quite a while until is is February and allot of things can happen between that time.
So don't worry about it now.

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Hi i went out with a guy and i dont know if he likes me. when we broke up i acted cool and collected but inside i died. ws it the right move to act like that? Also i need a way to make me his girlfriend? PLEASE HELP IM DYING WITHOUT THE HELP ive asked friens but they dont know!!!! (link)
I don't know allot about you, so I can't answer this accurately.
I think you shouldn't have acted cool, you should have told him how you really felt.
This is the problem with us women we try to never express our selves.
Don't try and be his girlfriend, after he hurt you so much.
If he care about you he wouldn't have done that to you.
Forget him, forget the past move on to the future and start seeing new people.
It is best for you, you don't want to get hurt again.

-Ask Alice


ok, me and this guy have been talking for about a month and we have kissed a couple of times. He sometimes calls me and we talk a lot on facebook. One day i told him that i liked him but he said he is not ready to be in a relationship because of the things that he sees happening to people, and he doesnt knw when he will be ready. I want to convince him and re-assure him that i will make him happy and i would never hurt him or anythng like that.
Im 17 and he is 21. (link)
You have to give him time. You can't convince someone to be your boyfriend.
He will know that you love him over time, and he will start yo know you won't hurt him.
Remember don't wait on him. If he love you he will ask you out.
But if you wait you will become more upset and other guys won't like you anymore.
You are almost the same as this one case I had. She has the same problem.
And she kept on waiting and now she is sad.
Don't wait, let time take you where you have to be.

-Ask Alice


I guess it's not much of a question but a request. I'm single been single along time. I still love my ex,. and he still loves me. But he his very far away. We don't really talk much anymore. But i still have thought of him. I'm not sure if it's because i'm so lonely.. I know I'm ready for a relationship for a new guy. But it seems there is no one that really iterests me,
I guess what i'm asking for is some words of advice. some quatable quotes about holding on. having hope. Something like that. I get up everyday encuraging myself to have hope that the right guy is out there but if i could just hold on longer.

Anyy words of wisdom is greatly appreciated.
Thank you everyone! (link)
Darling what you need to do Is TO KNOW that you will find your love someday.
Love will find you if you search for it.
Go on dates with other guys, you don't have to like them.
Sweet, the reason no one finds yo attractive is because you think that.
I mean no harm, but to be LOVED you first need to LOVE yourself.
It is the basic law of attraction. I suggest you read "The secret" It can really help.
What is keeping you back from a relationship is that probably you are still in love with your ex.
You need to find a way to move on, once you did people will notice a change in you.
They will notice that you are happier.
Don't live in the past but live in the present. Don't think about what happened yesterday when it was raining, think about today when the sun was shining.
Yesterday was history, Tomorrow is the future, and TODAY is a gift thats why its called the present.


A few months ago, my best friend and I confessed our feelings for each other, and decided that we could try this out and see where it goes. We weren't that serious, and just had our "first date" 2 months ago. We were fine for a while, acting like we always do, when all of a sudden, he stops talking to me. For 5 weeks, he has been ignoring my texts and seems to be avoiding me. I have asked him a few times if I did something to upset him, but he's not telling me anything. What should I do? (link)
I am sorry, but I really do not agree with what every one else wrote as an answer to your question. If it is not too late already, i say:

Dont; dump him, if you where so good friends before, this should be able to last, just give him more time. Something really serious could have happened in his life, so don;t be scared, he s probably not feeling well at the moment, try to talk to him, and tell him that if he has a poblem to tell it to you. He probably is scred to tell you since you are going out now and that you are not his bff any more but his girlfriend and that things changed. Tell him that you can be both. Hope this helps!

-Ask Alice

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I just got asked out by one of the most popular kids in my grade. You could tell he really wanted to go out with me. I don't like him, but practically all of the girls do. They keep telling me that I should of said "yes" to him. They also say, "You were so dumb for not saying yes! Any girl would want to be asked out by him!!!!"
BUT I DON'T LIKE HIM!!!!!! Should I go back and say "yes"? Or say "no" and be real? I'm only 11! Help! (link)
I think that everyone is just jealous of you.

But I think you answered your own question, YOU DON"T LIKE HIM. I know that all the people that are saying you should say yes might get on your nerves, but i think that if you don't like him, you shouldn't go out with him. Don't go in to a relation ship that you will not enjoy, no matter what age you are.

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what does snm mean (link)
It means fun but in harsh, like role-play and chains and stripping, etc. If you are asking this because of Rihanna song, it is a really nice song!

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k, so i really like this guy, and i think he might like me too...like the closest thing we ever say is hi to each other whenever we pass by each other, but just a few days ago we had a quick chat, and i want to return that by talking to him first.
what are some things i should talk to this guy (link)
It really depends on what type of guy he is! So I made this list especially for you!

Shy: You should defiantly talk to him first. These type of guys are afraid to make a first move and they will probably not ask you out first!
Talk to him about: Start with school stuff, you are at school so it is only normal (you can start with "did you do that homework?") After that, you will get used to talking to him. It will become only natural to talk to him. IF you still struggle, always have a prop with you. For example have a paper plane with you and show it to him, tell him that you totally messed it up by drawing smiley faces on it. Something like that. It will start a conversation naturally.

Out going/cool guys type: He usually likes it when you blend in with the surrounding conversations. For example: If they are talking about motorbikes, blend in and say, cool, I saw one in a store the other day. Talk about stuff that guys like.

Funny and friendly type: Say some jokes to him in the hall when you pass him. You should not be shy, and if he ever teases you, it is probably because he likes you! Don't be afraid to embarrass yourself, if you make a really bad joke, pretend it was supposed to be bad and start laughing at it, which is funny!

If he is a different type of guy, please email me the details and how he behaves with his friends. I will reply as soon as I can.

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im 18/f hes 19/m :)


so me and my best friend like each other (yes haha i have posted earlier on today! haha) the thing is, for the last 5 months that we've been insanely close for we haven't done anything sexual with each other at all, we did kiss once but he doesn't remember it cause we were both ridiculously drunk haha. We have sent pictures before, and sexted but thats about it. so tonight things started getting a bit heated between us, we were sexting pretty much and he was telling me how much he wants to have sex with me. and how he really is looking forward to the prospect of having sex with me when he comes back from tour.

the thing is, he didnt even want to kiss me a couple of weeks back because he doesnt want to move to quickly with me, that im special and he really doesnt want to ruin things. He even told one of our mutual friends how insanely beautiful i am, that he feels something extremely real between us and he doesnt want anything to move to fast so it doesnt get ruined. but tonight he confessed that he does really want me sexually too. and how we should get together when he comes home.

i do want to have sex with him, but in my head i imagined it being when we were official or something, if we ever dated. Im still a virgin, and i DO want to lose my virginity to him, hes my best friend and i trust him alot. I also confessed that i want him in that way too. and i agreed that maybe we should heat things up a bit...but what i dont understand...is why hes suddenly rushing to wanting to have sex with me? what happened to his fear of ruining things with me so much so that he was the one saying we should take things slow? (link)
There are many reasons why he might actually suddenly be rushing things, look at my answers and see which one you think he might do:

1) He might be under the influence of his friends while he was on tour. When he was on tour he might have been talking to his friends about how you and him have never had sex and they might have said how lame it is (It is actually not, but you know what guys think). He might have been thinking about it allot and changed his mind. Friends influence can be a powerful thing.
2) He might think that you don't like that things are going really slow between you guys. He might think that you are the one that wants more. Since you are best friends, I think it is very likely for him to think something like that. Also since all of the sudden, right after he said that he doesn't want to rush things, I think he has thought about things over. Maybe he thinks that you might dump him because there is not enough heat in your relationship.
3) (mostly unlikely) He might have been drunk while sexting you. Also he could have gotten so much in the mood while sexting you that he thought it would be harmless if he said such a thing to you since you where sexting any way.

Please do let me know which one you think is more likely. Just email me.

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I am going to the beach soon with my mom and her friend. my gf seems to be upset because if i dont call her text her she gets mad. i am not doing nothing wrong but cant keep my phone on me non stop. how can i get her to be ok with this? (link)
Girls tend to get worried when their partner goes away. It is normal, and you should thank her for this. There are many reasons, but the main one is that if you are going far away, she is worried that you might cheat on her with another girl.

You should talk the her about this by confronting her and telling her that she is the only one you love and that you would never cheat on her. She will be reassured then.

If you are wondering how this has to do with calling her. It is that if she calls you and you don't pick up, she might think that you are with some one else on the phone or worse with some one else in your room.

Just reassure her!

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I'm really just not into this guy at all any more... we've been dating for like six months or something and I can't stand him. He likes me way more than I like him. But he recently moved like an hour and a half away and we're still dating i guess and I have a car but I really don't want to drive an hour and a half there just to break up with him and then drive back so is it completely cruel if i just text him? I'm just so done with him UGH (link)
I agree that you should break up. You don't sound at all like you are in this relation ship. You should go into a relation ship where you actually enjoy your self. I think that it is quite cruel to text him. So what I suggest is that you should meat some where close b your neighborhood and have some coffee or tea. Be gentle with him because you said that he is quite into him. Tell him that you like him as a friend, but it is not working out because he lives so far away now.

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I am twelve years old and I'm very confused about my guy friend's and my relationship. He always talks to me before class, joking around and so. Sometimes when I look towards him I catch him looking at me, and other times out of the corner of my eye i see him glance at me. Though in the hallway when he's with his friends, he doesn't even acknowledge me! Are these signs he likes me? (link)
This could defiantly be a sign that he likes you.

Here is how I see it:
He stares at you in class because he thinks you are good looking (he likes you)
Jokes around you, always a good quality for a guy friend, this means he is not afraid to open up to you (he likes you)
Talks to you, good, since there is no such thing as a friend ship without conversation (he likes you)

I think that the only reason you are asking wether her likes you is because he doesn't acknowledge you in the hall when he talks to his friends. There are two simple explanations behind this:
1) He likes you, but he doesn't want his friends to know because they might force him into asking you out when he is not ready yet.
2) He told his friends and he ignores you in the hall way because if he would look at you, his friends would start to tease him, and he doesn't want you to know that he likes you because he is shy.

Thrust me, guys can be pretty strange.

I could give you a more exact answer if you tell me exactly how he behaves with his friends, and what type of person he is (shy, funny, cool, stupid, etc.) Please email this info to me.

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I am a nigerian.. My boyfriend suddenly changed, he doesn't call to tell me his plans like he used to before, he is always in a hurry to diconnect the call each time he tries to call and he always promise to call back which he doesn't. The bad thing is that he doesn't see any big deal in it. (link)
Like I told another person that asked something similar: Guys change! They change for these reasons:
1) They are hanging out with other friends and are being influenced by them and start behaving like that.
2) (Sorry, might be a bit harsh but true) He might do it on purpose so you would dump him so he would not have to put you through the pain of him dumping you.
3) It is simply his hormones. Teenage guys all the way up to 20 have a change in mood all the time. Sometimes they are nice, some times they are bad ass.

I think that it is really up to you what you do. You should dump him if you feel like you don't need him. If you still feel for him, tell him that you love him and tell him how you feel and that you think he has changed. If he truly loves you he will understand.

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-Ask Alice


I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday. I just didn't feel happy anymore. He barely made time for me like he did when we first started dating. He ignored all my calls and texts, and I just felt so doubtful that he liked me. I couldn't take it anymore. He just changed. He was so sweet and caring and loving and funny, everything to me. I kept pushing my doubts aside, fighting with myself not to break it off. And finally, I did. He didn't make any attempts to talk about what was the problem, because he's lazy. He had the time to, he just wouldn't pick up the phone. He always made up excuses as to why we couldn't hang out. His bike tire was broken. He had to do yard work. He didn't feel good. All those excuses. And when I could give him a ride somewhere, he still made excuses. I really fell for him pretty fast. I thought he did too. But I guess it was all just a lie.


so now I regret my decision. Mainly because I didn't give him another chance to try and fix things. I miss him like crazy. But he won't get back with me. He has this thing where he has rules for relationships. And getting back with someone isn't one of those rules. He's rejecting me when I promised him I'd fix whatever was breaking us apart. He said he had feelings for me but they just dwindled over time. I'm so crushed he didn't tell me. He says he's sorry and when I tell him to prove it, he's like: bye. I don't even think he ever did like me. I thought we had an amazing thing going. I shouldn't be so depressed. Yesterday was my sixteenth birthday, and even though I had so much fun, that feeling of emptiness was there. And now it's Easter. I've slept the pain away but I know it will return. He's just turned into a jerk. He's turned into a selfish arrogant jerk that thinks he's too good for me. If he really liked me, he'd give me another chance. I just want him back. I miss him so much. And I know he won't take me back. But I still long for him... (link)
I think that your ex changed maybe because of the people he was hanging out with. Usually when a guy gets new friends or hang out with different people they tend to change their character pretty fast. Maybe he made up excuses because his parents did not allow him to see you. I think that whatever it was, in the begging he loved you, but he changed pretty fast according to what you said.

I am sorry to say this (please don't take it the wrong way, I only want to help) that you don't really miss him. I think you miss the old him, the one that used to make you laugh. But I think that it will be hard to get that back. No offense to any one but guys are pretty hard to change. I think that you miss having someone around.

You should defiantly not regret dumping him. He was really mean to you and you are way to good for him. If he is lazy and cannot go out with his girlfriend, I don't think he is worth dating. You might feel empty and sad because you don't feel like you used to before. Before he was around to say he loved you and now all you have is your friends. But don't worry, you dumped him yesterday. It takes pretty long to get over a guy. Like a week or two. But take my advice, you are way to good for him, you deserve a guy that is nice to you all the time and that has time for you.

Think about it: If you had not dumped him, you would have been more heart broken because of his excuses and him not having time for you. Thrust me honey, you did the correct thing. Don't feel sorry, there are plenty of other guys out there lucky enough to go out with a girl like you.

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-Ask Alice


20/F and 22/M

Okay. So I have a friend, call him Steve. I've known him for YEARS and I know his family well. During high school, we hung out with different crowds so we went our ways and now we're really close friends again.
And of course, NOW I like him more than a friend since we've been hanging out and going out for almost a year now.
Problem is... he has a girlfriend that he's been dating on-and-off for about 8 months. The girlfriend is not exactly a friend but more than an acquaintance. The girlfriend is a strong believer in abstinence and Steve is definitely NOT a virgin (Kudos to her but that's not my style).

So Steve and I have gone out a lot lately(without his girlfriend). I don't consider them dates. SO, we were going out this past Friday night. Well my mom and her two friends wanted to talk to him while I finished getting ready. So I walked out and who knows what all those crazy women said to him. Haha.

So, we go out, had a blast. On the way home I asked him what my mom and her friends were saying. Well they said 'that he should dump his girlfriend and sweep me off of my feet because that's what I want.' Which is true in a way. So I then asked him what he had said back to it and he said "Well, I kinda asked your mom for permission to date you."

Well, I text my mom and asked her if she remembered that (they were all drinking at the time) and she said she didn't remember it.

I asked him if he was serious about that and he said yeah he was serious. And that he was definitely breaking up with his girlfriend.

Well, of course, Facebook sucks in some ways. The girl that he is currently dating always tags them wherever they go. So last night, they were having dinner together. And I haven't heard much of him since Friday night. Does this mean that he's not interested or something? He's still in a relationship on his FB (and he has an iPhone if it makes a difference).

UGH. Tips? I'm a very impatient person. I'm VERY independent. I don't need him, I just want him more than friends. But like I said, I don't NEED him.

I don't want to be pushy/clingy/crazy. That's definitely not me. So, should I just ignore him until he messages/calls/texts me first? Btw, I hate waiting too. Been there, done that and I absolutely hate it.

Tips, suggestions, ANYTHING at all would be a great help. :)
Thanks in advance!!
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The way I see it is that you are not sure weather to answer his question to go out with him or not.

I think that you and your friend are pretty close together and deserve to be more than friends. In my opinion Steve has an on an off girl friend for 2 reasons: 1. He likes you and doesn't want you to think he is not available, but at the same time not a single loner. 2. He just wants to have a girlfriend. I think that you should not rely on Facebook because some people forget to update. I think that the reason he hasn't called you yet is because he feels sort of shy about asking your mom and then telling you what she said. I say that he is probably waiting for you to make a move and say that you want to go out with him. At the moment that you say you want to go out with him, he will dump her. Guys don't like to be considered as someone desperately waiting for an answer, but usually they are waiting for girls to make the first move. So I say call him, or text him, and ask him again if he really meant it. If he answers yes, say that you like him too. You guys should be together!

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