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breaking up
I'm really just not into this guy at all any more... we've been dating for like six months or something and I can't stand him. He likes me way more than I like him. But he recently moved like an hour and a half away and we're still dating i guess and I have a car but I really don't want to drive an hour and a half there just to break up with him and then drive back so is it completely cruel if i just text him? I'm just so done with him UGH
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It would be better if you called him. You should have kicked him to the curb a while ago, though. So this situation is what you get for being a wimp. Be more decisive in the future. It will be good both for you and the guy you're dumping.
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I agree that you should break up. You don't sound at all like you are in this relation ship. You should go into a relation ship where you actually enjoy your self. I think that it is quite cruel to text him. So what I suggest is that you should meat some where close b your neighborhood and have some coffee or tea. Be gentle with him because you said that he is quite into him. Tell him that you like him as a friend, but it is not working out because he lives so far away now.
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You should break up, cause you said you were not in love with him anymore, plus you live far away.
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Well you have been going out for 6 months. I think to be respectful to both him and you I would break up with him face to face. Texting is not the best way to break up with someone. I feel the more mature approach would be to do it face to face. Now if the guy was a jerk to you I would say call him and break up. By your description though I would say you should go hang out with and tell him how you feel. Good luck!
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if your really not into this guy breaking up with him is the best thing to do even if you have to drive an hour and a half just to do it.you have to end it personally, don't just text him or call him just to break up.it would be polite if you tell him face to face and tell him the reason why and that your sorry it have to end that way.so that he can move on with his life and so are you.
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Even though it is a long drive just to break up with him it would be better to see him one last time before it all ends that way everything gets out in the open. It would make moving on easier for the both of you. If i can't convince you to go see him then the least you should do is call him, a text is just too mean of a way to end it.
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Deffinatly do not break up with him throw text. is it really going to kill to drive an hour and a half!?! trust me if you end up breaking up with him over text it could end up alot worse for you. so just please be nice and drive to him to give him the bad news.
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If you break up by text, you may end up making it worse for yourself. The reason being, he will be calling and calling to find out "what he did wrong. " Eventhough it isn't pleasant, you would be doing. both of you a favor by at least calling him to break up.
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