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We aren't on the same level
(long distance) I am a junior and my boyfriend is a sophomore, he is homeschooled I am not.
Sometime it feels like he has his life going in this great path. He is already taking college courses got a major picked. Yet I am just starting my junior year and I really don't know. It just seems like his life is great right now and I love him but I don't know if he will have time for me anymore, we hardly have time now. I know things will just get busier over the next few years, and I guess I am worried whether or not we should be together, because I don't want to slow him down. Why can't this be easier, why do things have to be so complicated? It also feels like sometimes I am more in this relationship then he is, idk. I'm confused and I am not really sure what I am asking at this point. Advice would help a ton though.
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High school is tough its where you start figuring things out and thinking about what you might want in the future. I remember when I was a junior in high school I had no clue what I wanted heck I've been out of high school for 5 years and I still don't. Thats okay no need to beat yourself up over it! As for your boyfriend there are just people in the world who know what they want and just because he does doesn't mean you need to. Just because he knows what he wants doesn't make you less of a person...don't put yourself down. A relationship is tough its never meant to be easy. Although a lot of people think they are the truth is they aren't. Its a lot of work and its got to be both people working together. I've been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 and a half years. Its been a struggle but I feel this time around we have really gotten close and figured out what we wanted. Sometimes does my boyfriend not have a clue? Of course. Does he sometimes get way to busy with things? Of course! Heck he's in school still and I'm working trying to think about how I want to finish getting my bachelor's degree. That doesn't make me less then him. We're all people and we're all human. We all do things differently and that makes us who we are as individuals. Take it easy on yourself! Good luck!
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okay so it sounds to me that you two are on different levels. my advice is talk to him if feel you are more in this relationship then him then let him know. the best thing in a relationship is communacation. but also understand that he may be just worried about his future. so talk to him and if you feel like its not working then break it off, but not before trying to work it out.
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