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my ex who went to jail
hi my name is alyssa im 16 female and when i was dating this guy i was 14 and he was 18. and of course we met on myspace kind of and on my myspave it says im 18 and im not. wel to make this short he thought i really was and he asked and well i didnt know him that good and i told him i was 17 about to be 18. well we were dating for a good 11 months and then something terrible happend. i used to go over to his house spend the night with him and i would go home the next day and my parents didnt know i would lie so not only did i lie to him but i lied to them as well. i began to love this guy i mean love and we would spend every weekend together talk on the phone all the time and text so he started to grow on me well we had sex and i felt guilty i mean like i knew i was doing something wrong. well we ept having sex and when my mom found out she told him i was 15 and i think he knew but he didnt want to get caught by the police well they sure did get invovled i ran away to his house and i promised him he wouldnt get into trouble but he did they handcuffed him and i fell instently to my knees i hurt so bad. and cried and pleaded for them not to take him. well he told me he never wanted to see me again and that he could do fine without me and he started crying cause i lied he was in jail for a month in a half and i called and checked up on him everyday. he got off with 6 months of probation and thats it. well he is off of probation and i want to be with him still idk about him though im in love with this guy help me please i just want him back and i want to let him know im terribaly sorry guys tell me what u think and girls you too
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Hey,
It looks like your guy could use some time away from you, or even girls in general. He went through something so terrible and I doubt he's ready to face the source or maybe he's just scared to go through it again. At this point, no one can really tell how he feels about you, but how about you give him some time alone? If you insist on wanting him back right now, just take it slowly, avoid apologizing excessively but be sincere and honest with your explanation - let him know how much he means to you, and that you're willing to do everything to make him feel better. Nothing can be done to change what happened, but you can work on easing the pain for him, and if you truly love him, you will know how to do that. Best of luck, stay safe.
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