I am twelve years old and I'm very confused about my guy friend's and my relationship. He always talks to me before class, joking around and so. Sometimes when I look towards him I catch him looking at me, and other times out of the corner of my eye i see him glance at me. Though in the hallway when he's with his friends, he doesn't even acknowledge me! Are these signs he likes me?
Here is how I see it:
He stares at you in class because he thinks you are good looking (he likes you)
Jokes around you, always a good quality for a guy friend, this means he is not afraid to open up to you (he likes you)
Talks to you, good, since there is no such thing as a friend ship without conversation (he likes you)
I think that the only reason you are asking wether her likes you is because he doesn't acknowledge you in the hall when he talks to his friends. There are two simple explanations behind this:
1) He likes you, but he doesn't want his friends to know because they might force him into asking you out when he is not ready yet.
2) He told his friends and he ignores you in the hall way because if he would look at you, his friends would start to tease him, and he doesn't want you to know that he likes you because he is shy.
Thrust me, guys can be pretty strange.
I could give you a more exact answer if you tell me exactly how he behaves with his friends, and what type of person he is (shy, funny, cool, stupid, etc.) Please email this info to me.
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kittenlover2000 answered Saturday April 30 2011, 12:07 pm: I'm 15 and i've been put in this position myself :/
There was this guy at school and i thought he liked me-he was doing exactly the things you mention. He went quiet then for about a few months, and asked me out :) so i'd say yeh this guy does like you.
If he stares at you for more than five seconds he definatley 'likes' you-it's not just a casual stare. He might not ackknowledge you in the hallway because otherwise his friends will start to tease him. And then he'll think he'll drive you away.
If you like this guy then don't give up. Play hard to get, because men want what they can not have. Lastly, you are twelve years old. Although this definatley does sound like the foundations of a relationship, make sure you don't rush. enjoy your child years while you can! hope this helps :) [ kittenlover2000's advice column | Ask kittenlover2000 A Question ]
Punkett answered Saturday April 30 2011, 3:40 am: I guess it could be. He seems to like you, but more in a friend kind of way. But it wouldn't hurt to ask. Or maybe get one of your other friends to ask. If he doesn't act like he knows you... that's just being rude. I think you should ask him and get the facts. This is only my opinion. Hope I could help(:
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