I dont know if i should dump my b/f becuz he likes another girl but whenvever i ask him who he likes more he always says yes to me that he likes me more....should i dump him???¿¿¿
yes dump him.. guys will lie about anything just to get a girl, and he is obviously lying to you. Why would you want to go out with a guy who likes another girl??
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My boyf & I have been together 4 2 months ... yet he has a problem communicating his feelings openly and honestly. W e have both had a rough and not so nice upbrining, we have both been put down numerous times by our step-parent's.
Whenever he does it's because he has consumed alcohol and he has a tendensy to use unneccessary 'ugly' descriptions of what I am to him. For example he has called me 1 of the most dis-interested lover's he has ever had ... and then as always the next morning he is very sorry and asks for forgiveness ... it's the same old story over & over and it's getting too much 4 me to handle ...
He is obviously not doing any good for your life, and since he is screwed up, he isn't going to fix your life. I say dump him, you don't need someone who treats you that way. Since you have had a rough upbringing, you need someone who will love you, and tell you over and over again how great you are. So dump this guy so you will be open to new guys.
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Well you see I have dated this kid many times and the last time we broke up was because we were going to schools different from eachother, but then he asked me back out after he realized we talked and saw eachother alot more then expected... and i think i love him and we tell eachother that we do, but I have a crush on a boy that goes to my school who I think flirts with me. And i had a dream last night that the kid I like picked me up and swung me around in a hug and kissed me on the cheek.. and he chose me out of alot of different girls. i don't know what to do?
How long has this guy been flirting with you? If he's been flirting with you for a while and he hasn't asked you out yet, then forget about him and stick with your current boyfriend. But if he has just recently started flirting with you, then maybe you could try flirting back and see if he will ask you out. But if you really love your current boyfriend, then stay with him. You just have to do what YOU want to do. No one else can tell you what your heart wants. Sry I wasn't much help.. Good luck!!
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I just moved to this new school. The problem is I still like this other boy from my old school. i know i may never see him again... but i still like him and i'm the only one who knows it. What should i do?
That happened to me too!!! But then when I got to my new school, I starting liking some of the guys there, but at the same time I still liked the guy from my old school. Just try to move on, but if you can't, I know how you feel. Try to get his sn. Or look his number up, and if you were good friends with him, call him. Or you can "accidently" call him, or call him and make up an excuse like "do you know ____'s number" or something like that, and then just start talking to him. But just remember that whatever happens is meant to be and everything will fall into place in the end!
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Okay, well i am 13 years old, and of course i'm a girl. i go out with this boy who is 16 years old, but we really do like each other. it may sound weird ; 3 year difference, but we really do care about each other. He changed my " havent made out yet " thing, cuz now we have like so many times. We care alot about each other, but him and his friend think that i should do more stuff with him. like fingering and all that. i mean i want to, but i dont want to have sex yet and shit. and im kinda scared and all to give him like a blow job and all. they also want me to smoke weed with them . IDK. and then my friends hate the fact that i go out with him, but i really do like him. what should i do ? thanks =]
Honestly, if he is pressuring into that kind of stuff, it sounds like he is only with you for sex. Guys can be pretty decieving sometimes. They can make you feel like the most beautiful, special, best person in the world. They can convince you that they are in love with you and lift you off your feet. Guys are pretty good at making you think all this, even when they don't REALLY mean it. If you don't feel comfortable doing something, DON'T LET HIM PRESSURE YOU INTO ANYTHING!!! If I were you, I would break it off with this guy because he could only mean trouble. I know you may care for him, but in the long run, it will be for the better, and you will be glad you ended it.
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I like this guy who likes me too, but the thing is I'm so scared to fall in love because i dont wanna get hurt! My friend thinks i've already fallin for him but i'm hoping that It's not true! It's weird because when i'm not around him I feel so empty! But then when he's with me I fell like my feet won't ever touch the ground again. How can I not fall in Love?!
sorry but you can't control falling in love
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there was this girl that was pretty attractive sitting by me at the movies the other day and she goes to my school and i dont really know but ne way every time something scary popped up during she would grab my arm. So what do you think i should do. Do you think i should try to get to know her better or was it just nothing and i should forget about?
yea sounds like she was flirting with you so try to get to know her better!
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I like this guy I'll call him Brian, when he had a girlfriend he always flirted with me, but Friday his girlfriend broke up with him then he was at a dance I went to and we barely spoke. I kept trying to talk to him but he barely said a word. I'm wondering why he didn't talk to me. Also there's a rumor that he likes me, do you think he does. (Sorry that its long)
Just a guess.. maybe his girlfriend heard the rumor about him liking you, and that's why she broke up with him. So maybe now, he feels uncomfortable talking to you, especially in public. This may not be true, but it's just what it sounds like happened.
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OK, my name is Alex and I am 13 and in 7th grade. I have a boyfriend named Matt who is 13 and in 8th grade and he is the best! But i want to get a little more intimate with him, ya know? He isn't really into the whole kissing in public thing, and I kind of want to do some other "personal things" with him. But how do I tell him that I want to do all of this with him? I can't just go up to him and be like, "Hey Matt, I want to give you a handjob." Can you pleaseeee give me some help!?!?
Hmm.. 7th grade is a little young, but if you really want to, here's what you should do.. Ask him over to your house, or go over to his house, and go somewhere private where there are no adults around and watch a movie, in the dark. Then start kissing/making out with him, I guess to get him a little turned on? Then just let slowly make your move!
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hi there i have a problem i fell for a guy online but im married and i think it was a thing i was going throw when i fell for the guy online now ive tryed to give him hints that i dont want to be with him just friends is what i want now but i even left this guy a e-mail telling him not to wait for me it could be years before i ever leave my husband but i dont want to leave him now we worked things out but the guy i fell for online said he will wait for me how do i tell him that i dont want to be with him please help
He sounds like a desperate freak.. just stop talking to him alltogether and he will eventually move on.
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To get down to it, I'm a 15 year old girl and a 22 year old guy likes me. I've known this guy for a few months and have become really good friends with him. I didn't know he actually had a crush on me till a few weeks ago. This guy is really nice, very sweet, he always cares about me. He always wants to know how I feel and how he can make it any better. He calls me practically every night. He trusts me and I trust him. We've talked about our feelings for eachother... I used to not think of him as anything more than a friend, but now I think I am starting to like him more. We see eachother at least once a week, usually with groups of other friends but I have been alone with him a couple times, once to his house. He has never tried to pull anything on me... he respects my boundaries, yet he shows he still cares. My parents don't like that I even talk to a 22 year old guy on the phone. If they ever knew I wanted to go out with him, they'd freak. I'd like to give him a chance, but I don't know if it's worth hiding from my parents and the fact that he's so much older than me makes the possibility chances of it working slimmer. Any advice on what I should do?
Yea he is a little old for you. And even if you did start a relationship with him, it would be very stressful because you would always be trying to hide it from your parents. This guy is much more experienced than you are and may expect more than you are willing to give. But if you really care about this guy, I would suggest you wait until you are 18 years old. That way, it wouldn't be illegal to "do anything." And since you will be 18 and he will be 25, and the age gap won't seem so big anymore. And people wouldn't look down to you for being in an unusual relationship. And it's only 3 years, you can tough it out! For now, just stick to being really good friends with him. Keep your relationship strong. Good luck! :-)
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I have this friend(a guy)who i really like...yesterday he came over to hang out wth me and my other friend...me and him wrestled for like an hour and he kept hugging me...he also held my hand but we were playin around so after a second of owkward silence he pushed me and we started playin mercy...im not sure if he likes me or not...Please Help!
sounds like he likes you... cuz he's flirting with you a lot.. either that or he's just teasing you
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my boyfriend of 7 months and i just broke up a couple of a days ago, and i broke up with him because he was rude, we fight all the time its just like were abusive to eachother, but i love him so much and we both want eachother back but we said we will take a break, but i am dieng without him you have no idea i miss him so much, i wanna kiss a diffrent guy (ive had him in mind for a while) but im so scared if my ex finds out and never wants to get back with me what should i do i love my ex but im lonely and want someone for now so i wanna kiss the diffrent guy should i?
You say you love your ex.. yet at the same time you are dying to kiss some other guy? I say, you're not REALLY attatched to your ex.. let him go, move on, in time, you will get over him. So go ahead, kiss this other guy, and forget about getting back with your ex.. it may be hard now, but you can do it.
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been having some trouble lately and we haven't been talking that much. Well the other day this boy pranked my friend and he got her number off our friend and they called me on 3 way and I started talkin to this boy. I talk to him like every day now and I am falling for him! He's so great. But i dont even know what he looks like but i don't think it would matter to me because he's just the greatest person in the world to talk to. But theres just one thing I HAVE A BOY FRIEND. I don't know what to do I like both of them so much! What should I do??
HELP
Start talking to this boy on AIM. And ask him for a pic so you can see what he looks like and you can decide if you like him or not. Maybe hang out with him in person..with a group of friends so your bf doesnt get jealous. Then decide who you like better.
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well, there was this girl i was going out with, and we recently broke up and i miss her alot! but now shes going out with another guy, and she just likes me "as a rli rli good friend" wat do i do, please, i miss this girl so bad!!!
Sry, but you can't change someone else's feelings. I know it will be tough at first, but you have to get over this girl. Look for another girl (one who you see often) and set your mind on her. That way, you will be thinking about her, and not so much about your ex. But remain being good friends with your ex.. show her that you care about her.. and who knows? Maybe sooner or later she will realize how good you are to her and she will take you back. Anyway I know this isn't what you wanted to hear.. but time heals all wounds. ;-)
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ok this may be long.
theres the boy hes in 12th grade. Im in 10th and i knew him since 9th grade. well this year he found out that i kind of liked him. and he didnt stop talking to me or acting different. untill he knew for sure i liked him. and now that ive had people go up to him and see if he has a girlfriend and stuff, when he sees me he smiles so big. and he used to hide it and now he lets it show. he always talks to me and messes with me and when i dont say hi to him he askes me why and stuff and he thinks sometimes im mad at him and when i tell him im not he goes oh good because i wouldn't want you mad at me. and he talks to me no matter whose around. and it doesnt matter who hes talking to he'll always say hi to me or something. with a smile. and i jus want to know if he likes me or what? and i had my friend that ask if he had a girlfriend and he said no then she asked him "well do u like amanda? would u ever go with her?" she said he just got the biggest smile on his face. he didnt say nothing but just smiled really big. would you people say he likes me? and what should i do?
thanks.
yea it sounds like he likes u :-)
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OK here it goes. I go out with this girl and we used to spend time with each other all the time until i moved. So right now we r having a long distance relationship. Now everytime I talk to a certain girl she thinks I am cheating on her even when I tell her time to time again that I love her and I would never ever do nothing like that. She writes things about my friends that i don't like and that really gets on my nerves. Basically she doesnt trust me at all. Should I dump her or should I just talk to her. 13/m
Since you're only 13, a long-distance relationship is going to be VERY hard. Sooner or later, you're going to be looking at other girls, girls that are actually THERE. You don't want to spend your whole school life being tied down to someone who lives far away, and who you most likely won't even end up with later (no offense but you're only 13 so I don't think she's going to be THE ONE But who knows?) Definately dump her, but explain why so you don't hurt her. And definately stay being friends, GOOD FRIENDS. Talk A LOT, over the phone, on AIM, e-mail, etc. Good luck! Let me know how it works out.
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this guy and i are in all of the same classes and everyone says that we flirt and that we need to go out! lately he has always been hanging around me a lot! like there was a chair near some girl but i was sitting somewhere else so he was lying down on the table that was next to me! what should i do? and i was wondering how can i get him to give me a hug?
wear one of those t-shirts that say 'i need a hug' :-)
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Ok there is this guy we have been friends now for like 2 months well the other day he asked me out and i said yes but like now i dont want to be with him i have no interest he annooys the crap out of me and i think im falling for his best friend and he is obssesed with making out with me and im not like that but like i dont know what to tell him please help me!!!
Well obviously if you're not happy with him then YES, break up with him! You can't go on with him if you don't want to. Just tell him the feelings aren't mutual and so it wouldn't be fair to either one of you. You'd just be wasting your time. Good luck!
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ok welll i am like in love with this kidd but he doesnt like me i do everything he says like wear whath he says but this one girl likes him and i was joking and said he is mine soo she gott madd at himm and hess mad at me when i was joking what do i doo!
Sounds to me like you've got some immature friends. Just tell them you were joking, and they should believe you! If not, then that kid that ur in love with isn't worth it.. and neither is your friend (if she's even your friend in the first place?) Just don't worry about it.. move on. And the kid probably doesn't like you BECAUSE you do everything he says.. Guys like INDEPENDENT, CONFIDENT girls. So just be yourself.. Don't change yourself just for a guy. And if he still doesn't like you, then there's just nothing you can do, you'll have to find another guy. :-( I know that's not what you wanted to hear but its the truth.
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