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Question Posted Thursday December 23 2004, 5:18 pm

my boyfriend of 7 months and i just broke up a couple of a days ago, and i broke up with him because he was rude, we fight all the time its just like were abusive to eachother, but i love him so much and we both want eachother back but we said we will take a break, but i am dieng without him you have no idea i miss him so much, i wanna kiss a diffrent guy (ive had him in mind for a while) but im so scared if my ex finds out and never wants to get back with me what should i do i love my ex but im lonely and want someone for now so i wanna kiss the diffrent guy should i?

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tish answered Thursday December 23 2004, 8:08 pm:
well,i think you should talk to your boy friend and tel him how you feel that way you wont feel lonely anymore .as for kissing this other guy i think that would be a bad idea because if you do you might never get your ex back. hope this helps.-tish

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xyrufartingx answered Thursday December 23 2004, 7:19 pm:
haha.. go ahead and kiss him all you want.. no im just kidding..
maybe if you feel like that then something inside you is telling you that is wrong.. maybe you should just go back to your ex and tell him how you still feel about him.. you two probaly need to get back together.. then you could kiss him all you want!

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xluvinux answered Thursday December 23 2004, 6:40 pm:
Well you're taking a break so you can kiss the other guy. If your ex finds out he might not want to get back with you, unless he's chosen to see someone else too. Personally I don't think you should get back with your ex if you want to kiss another guy. You should only get back with your ex if he's the only one you want. Think about what you want to do for this situation. =)

♥ lAuRa

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ICE11BLUE answered Thursday December 23 2004, 6:37 pm:
Don't kiss the other guy until you've decided to move on. You are on a "break" from a stressful relationship, give that time to yourself to regroup and stuff. Also, you're confusing yourself, you are missing your ex so much but want to kiss someone else? Take some time to think about what you're doing first. If I could tell you what to do, I would tell you to keep working on getting over the ex, take some time out for yourself and concentrate on your life's priorities and/or on things you like to do. Then go ahead and kiss that other guy when you feel ready. You would feel new, refreshed, and like a girl with a healthy self-esteem.

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AdInA answered Thursday December 23 2004, 6:34 pm:
you shouldn't kiss the other guy if you want your ex back, but i don't see anything wrong with it since you both are taking a break. breaks are for couples to be able to see other people.. but it may effect the way he thinks of you.

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AsKmE135 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 5:54 pm:
You say you love your ex.. yet at the same time you are dying to kiss some other guy? I say, you're not REALLY attatched to your ex.. let him go, move on, in time, you will get over him. So go ahead, kiss this other guy, and forget about getting back with your ex.. it may be hard now, but you can do it.

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Shortie8959 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 5:43 pm:
Remember that you broke up with him. Remember why that happened. You don't want it to happen again, do you? I say go out with the other guy. Good luck1
Hope I helped!
Happy Holidays!
~*Erin*~

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Magenta answered Thursday December 23 2004, 5:42 pm:
You broke up for a reason. Now you're out of the relationship it's easy only to see the good things, but just remember why you two finished. It will probably never be the same if you get back together. I say, go find this other guy and start afresh.

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NikNik answered Thursday December 23 2004, 5:39 pm:
if you and your ex are takeing a break then i dont see why it would be a problem for you to kiss another guy, because yall are takeing a break from eachother and that means that your free...your single and you can kiss another guy do what your heart tells you...if you think that it wouldnt be a big deal then go for it...if i were you and i were takeing a break from my boyfriend and kissed another guy it wouldnt matter because its not considered cheating if yall are not together, i hope my advice helps-Nikki

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