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Should i Dump Him?
Ok there is this guy we have been friends now for like 2 months well the other day he asked me out and i said yes but like now i dont want to be with him i have no interest he annooys the crap out of me and i think im falling for his best friend and he is obssesed with making out with me and im not like that but like i dont know what to tell him please help me!!!
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Tell him the truth and don't sugar coat it too much because then he'll think he has a chance with you later on. Explain to him that you aren't as interested in him as you thought you were and his obsession is creepy. Wait awhile until you make a move on his best friend so it doesn't hurt the other guy too much.
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I think you should slowly start avoiding him. If he asks you about anything, tell him your sorry but you just realy dont like him anymore, if you dont want to hurt his feelings (thats inevitable) maybe you should help him get another girlfriend.
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be honest with him! tell him you cant see him as your boyfriend and that you would rather have him as your friend. if you decide to stay with him, tell him that you dont like making out all the time!! and if he doesnt stop, then he isnt worth it.
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Just tell him how you feel, and tell him that you think you'd be better off as just friends. That happened to me a couple times, but the guy always understood. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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hey! be honest with him and with yourself. if you dont like him that much, then you shouldnt be going out with him cause you're leading him on. if you want to give it another shot, then just talk to him about the things that annoy you and the making out thing. if hes the right guy for you he'll understand, otherwise, hes not worht it. about his best friend, figure out if you do like him, and if you do, then figure out if you like him more than your bf. if you do, then go for him. hope this helped, peace and love!
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Well obviously if you're not happy with him then YES, break up with him! You can't go on with him if you don't want to. Just tell him the feelings aren't mutual and so it wouldn't be fair to either one of you. You'd just be wasting your time. Good luck!
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You aren't his girlfriend after one date. Set him straight. Tell him that you went out and that was it. Going out does not mean he can now hang all over you and claim you as his. Going on a date or even two does not mean he has any right to expect you to let him hang all over you. He needs to get a grip on reality. There is no reason you shouldn't like his friend or go out if his friend asks. The guy has no hold on you and you need to take him down a notch. Flat tell him up front, "Hell, no I am not your girlfriend and stop touching me!" This is called a verbal slap in the face and this guy is long over due for one. Luck and Love!
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i think that you should dump him and say we were better off as friends i just do noot she you as my boyfriend!
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umm yeah break up with him don't lead him on to thinking you like him..and if u don't like him don't waste your time
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You no i wonder if they do? hum...
14/f
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I would just talk to them, if were in your position and the opposite sex, or meaning you, then I would just explain why you've chose to break up with him and or maybe you can just talk to him about how he is annoying you and maybe try to work things out if you want to stay with him and give him another chance. On the other guy, the besfriend, even though he wants that 'tounge on tounge' action I don't think you should just fall for that, he could lead you into more trouble. If you talk to him about that, you know taking it slowly then it could work out, but if he doesn't agree, i'd suggest don't go for it. Just talk to both of them and express your feelings and how you want to be treated, if they both don't or can't agree or begin a new path with you, then I'd suggest just be friends.
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