Member Since: December 21, 2004
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I have this friend who used to be my best friend ever. We still talk alot and she is still a good friend but we have been spreading apart. We always talk about how we dont hang out enough but every time I try to hang out with her she is out with other friends or wont call me back or just doesnt pick up. Its making me really frustrated because she is awesome but I am to the point where I just want to stop trying because she never trys to hang out with me Im always trying to hang out with her. Should I just give up? And is she just trying to tell me she dosent care anymore?
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Well, here it goes, I can't tell you if she doesn't care anymore, but, what you can do to find out is that try to get her at a time when shes not busy, pull her aside and look at her right in the eye and talk to her about it. If she doesn't want to then bring up some situations from the past like you said shes always with her friends and is never picking up your calls or never calling you back, and show her how much you really care about her and your friendship it self. The key here is to take action, don't just sit there and let it all happen to you...Hope I helped..
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i havent had a girlfriend in a while im a 15 year old guy. im in my first year of high school. im not ugly in fact almost everyday the upper class men girls always telling me how cute i am i hate it though the only thing is im short im like 5'3 and at my school thats short i dont know why i cant get a girlfriend i dont know what im doing wrong thanks i need advice!! (link)
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Well, here it is, your going to have to be more social around the women, try to get to know them or just talk to them to get into a good friendship and maybe even a relationship depending on the woman you think is right for you. Communicating is the key to seeking that certain person thats just right for you...Hope it works out with you!
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Someone told me that dieting wont help you lose weight. IF i eat a salad for lunch everyday, will i lose weight? OR do i have to do other stuff too? (link)
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It really depends on what you eat in your other daily basis meals. Just a salad for lunch everyday isn't going to cut it. Their's breakfast, dinner, no dessert what so ever, if it has fruits or anything with a good nutrition facts, then that'll be healthy also. No ice-cream though, that just kicks up the sugar and etc. And whoever told you dieting won't help you lose weight, there partially wrong and right...If you are under the influence of being 'fat' or obese, then might I sudjest you to exercise and eat less. Eat food with very low carbs and very low calories, that should help you if you keep it up for about a month...
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YA i know this is weird since i have an advice colum (lilcutie1212) But i really dont know what to do. Im in middle school in 8th grade and my boyfriend is in 10th grade I dont see him alot becuase he is like at terravilla and i am at westglades. I love him alot and everything but i dont know if I should trust him like if he would cheat on me. But i dont know what to do because I dont want to dump him because he is the best thing that ever happened to me. I love him sooo much! Please Please Help me! Ok?
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One of my friends had this same problem, and I gave them the same advice, and they worked out great! Here it is, you, should take action, okay, if you want to keep your relationship high and successful, then i'd suggest you to have more contact with him, to call him often to get together and hang out, get to talk to him more and he'll know that being with you means hands and mouth off other women. If you have gatherings, with other people, that'll just make it worse between you two, you two will be mostly distracted by the others and won't be able to do anything with everyone around you, just try to find time with only you two together...Hope it works out!
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Ok there is this guy we have been friends now for like 2 months well the other day he asked me out and i said yes but like now i dont want to be with him i have no interest he annooys the crap out of me and i think im falling for his best friend and he is obssesed with making out with me and im not like that but like i dont know what to tell him please help me!!! (link)
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I would just talk to them, if were in your position and the opposite sex, or meaning you, then I would just explain why you've chose to break up with him and or maybe you can just talk to him about how he is annoying you and maybe try to work things out if you want to stay with him and give him another chance. On the other guy, the besfriend, even though he wants that 'tounge on tounge' action I don't think you should just fall for that, he could lead you into more trouble. If you talk to him about that, you know taking it slowly then it could work out, but if he doesn't agree, i'd suggest don't go for it. Just talk to both of them and express your feelings and how you want to be treated, if they both don't or can't agree or begin a new path with you, then I'd suggest just be friends.
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ok if their is a girl that likes you but oyu dont like her back do you still think about her ????? (link)
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Well, it depends, does this girl always talk about you, or you know she always thinks about you and stays or hangs around you, then you might as well think about her, but if your not someone who would just fall into someone's hands if they like you.. Although you didn't give enough info. on her so Im not sure. But if she likes you, then just let it be, but if its making you feel uncomfortable, then do something about it, don't hurt her feelings, just talk to her...Hope that helps you!
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