hello my name is seanicka and im 18. Im in a long distance relationship and I was wondering do you think seeing my boyfriend every three months or two is bad? we love each other dearly and willing to make it work.
You're 18, so long distance might work better for you than it did for me when I was about 14/15.
They usually are hard to work with. But seeing them every two or three months? I'm sorry but that's not right. You say you're willing to make it work, but you're going to want to see each other more than that.
But that's just my opinion.
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So my fiance sometimes mentions the "Lab girls" at work and one time I asked him if they or one of them was pretty, & he got all flustered and stuff... I dont know what they are all about but it annoys me. Then at his work christmas party this girl kept looking over across the room at us alot, trying not to be obvious though, but I am a female and I catch on to that stuff quick. So I mentioned something to my fiance and he said she was one of the "lab girls" I KNEW IT! So i was really annoyed then..could something be going on or maybe they are crushing or something high school like that?? Or am I overreacting? Could you email me an answer? hamrick42@htomail.com
I e-mailed you my response too
I may be ten times younger than you, but I've had experience, so here I go.
If you asked him about it and he got flustered, he was embarrassed by you asking that question, obviously. That could hint he thinks they're attractive, but there probably is nothing going on. Here's signs of cheating, if he shows any of these, I suggest checking more into the situation to make sure he has eyes for you, and only you.
Signs of cheating:
1. He's been away a lot more, or he's been a lot busier than he was before. If that's the case, keep reading.
2. A study in the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy found that those people who earned more money were more likely to cheat than those who earned less.
3. While yelling and anger may not seem to be all that connected to cheating, a recent Australian study found that unfaithful partners show many of the same personality characteristics as abusive ones. Those who are more likely to be abusive (verbally or physically) are simply more likely to be unfaithful. What's already bad has the potential of getting even worse.
For more signs of cheating, check out this website: http://www.jamaica-gleaner.com/gleaner/20080503/features/features7.html
Otherwise, the girls kept looking over? They could just be jealous. I don't know anything major about your finance' but if he overreacts the NEXT time you ask him about them, I would start worrying.
You asked if you could just be spazzing out, that's a possibility also. You could be, but you shouldn't be to safe. You never know. The thing that makes me consider he is cheating or has thoughts of cheating, is that he got flustered; that's a major sign.
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okay well i met this guy and i've know him for a while now. I talk to him everyday. About 2 weeks ago he finally came out and told me that he liked me and he already knew i liked him. But like last week he got a girlfriend. I was fine with it because we aren' able to see each a lot because he live a decent drive away so i understood. But the thing is even though he has a girlfriend he still say the same things to me but as "friends" it's driving me nuts he tells e how much he cares about me and all that junk but yet he has a girl. He still flirts and does all that junk but yet he does the friend thing. He did tht once before with me and this other girl but when he dumped her he was all about me again...It is driving me crazy what do i do?
He has feelings for you, yes, but he is basically a man whore. And he doesn't want to just break it to you. Just don't get to attached because once you do, he'll break it to you, AGAIN, that he cares about you, but you're just friends, blah blah. Sorry to tell you that, but it's true. Just stay friends with him. You can still flirt with him and stuff, but he is basically just leading you on.
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is it ok to have like online realationships as long as you have a defined like between your online life and real life?
Yes but in my personal opinion, long distance relationships never work. They work out for awhile but then the girl usually starts getting fed up about trust issues, and it all goes downhill from there.
But good luck to you.
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Is it normal to bleed after having sex the second time?
Yes, but not a lot of blood.
It's normal though, don't worry.
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My boyfriend and I have only been going out for a week or two. We're pretty good friends, though. He's straight edge. I, however, am not; I drink casually and smoke from time to time. He doesn't know this. I'm pretty sure he'd be mad at me if he ever knew I had tried it. I really enjoy his company and talking to him, so I don't want to break up over something like this, but I don't want to start off our relationships with secrets. What should I do?
He should love you no matter what, but you probably should have told him from the beginning that you weren't straight edge.
Just sit him down when he is relaxed and not stressed out about anything.
Tell him that you didn't intend on keeping this a secret from him and that you really don't want to lose him, but just tell him. Tell him you won't pressure him or do it around him.
He should be okay with it. If he isn't, he isn't that good of a boyfriend then.
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Heyah I am a 13 year old girl from Ireland. I was talking on the phone to my crush. He asked me to phone him so I did and when i did he didnt talk much. When we where sayin goodbye he said I have to go now see you later sexy. I don't know if he was being serious because he was with his friend. But he doesnt seem like that type of person. He did hang up really quickly. Any Advice?
I don't know much else about the guy, but be probably was just showing off. If he doesn't SEEM like that type of guy, and he was around his friend, he's probably the type that just says and does stupid stuff when they're around different people.
So next time just act like nothing happened, and he probably does think you're attractive, he was just being crazy. =]
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Okay! I have been going out with this guy for about 8 months now and he lives In New york..and i live In Michigan. And he ALWAYS talks to me about Other girls. Also when he is with his friends or on Xbox live he doesnt talk to me. Then yells at me when i say "Can i call you back?." And i've thought about breaking up with him, but my heart wont let me. I do love him, But i just dont know what to do. Can someone help?
Sorry hun, but you really do have to break-up with him.
I've been in a long distance relationship with someone exactly like this before, and he treated me the exact same way.
Then I found out he'd been cheating on me. Long distance is hard.
What I advise you to do is to try talking to him about it when he isn't playing Xbox. Be like, "Why do you always talk about other girls? Am I not good enough or something?"
If he then tells you that you're being clingy or some stupid remark that guys could come up with, just tell him that you don't want to be with him. You're going to have to make your heart let you because otherwise, in the end you will get hurt twice as bad. :/
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okay. I just got back from out of town and I haven't seen my boyfriend in a while. Then when I see him he don't say nothing to me. Then the next time I see him he is not talking to me and he is talking and laughing with this girl thats trying to go out with him. Can you tell me if its a sign of cheating?
Shante'
Age:14
He COULD be cheating, but he could also just be giving you a sign that he's over you.
Your best bet is to talk to him, and just accept it if he's moved on.
That makes him really shallow, but eh, he's missing out. =]
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me and my boyfriend live in differnt states
and hes coming to visit me in a couple of weeks
and i live in illinois and im about 20 minutes from chicago.
i was wondering what are some stuff we can do so we dont get bored.
were already going to the skatepark cuase hes big on skating and he wants to hit some of them upp
also im pretty sure were going to six flags
but like what is some other stuff we can do?
Go see a movie, goto a cute dinner, goto a local beach, if you have one, or a local park.
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btw. you two probably won't be bored since you guys will be seeing each other. =]
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hey im 13/f and i have a boyfriend of 1 year. i love him so much! And we got talkin about sex, and he said that since ima virgine, he would be super carefull with me. and then i told him im scared of ending up pregnat, he said we wont have sex untill i'm ready but i really want to, we were going too hang out tonight at ten so whom ever reads this please give me some advice, cuz i need it. P.s I really wanna wiff him i just dont knoe what ta dp.
Love,
Lil Ms. Cunfuzzled
Make sure he wears a condom, and tell him to go slow at first so he'll be careful with you.
And don't let him try any weird positions with you the first time, just take it slow and you should probably just do missionary position.
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i have my boyfriends camera and he leaving for college in september but im sure ill have to return the camera to him in a couple days. i want to take pictures of myself for him and NOT dirty no nudity at all. but i want him to enjoy looking at them and i want him to think of me when he thinks about his camera :) any ideas. NO NO NO naked pictures.
thanks
Try taking a picture of you with a sign saying his name or holding up something he gave you, or went with you to buy.
Or if he likes your hair, eyes, or smile best, try taking pictures outside smiling, so your eyes and smile stand out most. =]
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. He likes to watch pornos and jerk off to them every once in a while ..he says it will enhance our sex life because he can last longer in bed if he jerks off in between us having sex. I understand that, however, I am highly uncomfortable with him watching pornos. I have never liked it, and even though he does, the fact that hes cumming to another girl basically really just rubs me the wrong way. We've been arguing about it lately. Am I wrong??
NO, you are not wrong.
That's him basically saying you aren't even close to being as attractive as the girls he jerks off to.
If he says him jerking off between your sex will "enhance it" why doesn't he JERK OFF TO YOU?
So, you need to have a talk with him, and if he's still going to not pay attention to your feelings and watch porn, no offense, but you need to dump him. That's rude to you.
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This past march my ex boyfriends mom decided that she didnt want us to be together so she told him that we need to break up we still stayed together but in the end we ended up breaking up. His mom also told him and his sister who i was really close to that they couldnt talk to me anymore. I really liked him and i still do and everyone says that there is always going to be that one guy that you never get over but i dont want it to be like that i want to be together with him again. What should i do?
Try calling his mom. Ask what her big deal is. Tell her you really care about her son and that you just want to be with him. & ask what the big deal is.
If she's rude, which she shouldn't be, talk to YOUR parents. Tell them what his mom is saying about you, and what she made her son do.
Just keep talking to your ex. If he really wants to be with you, he will try to talk to her too. If he doesn't, then there isn't much you can do. =/
They can have a talk with her also.
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Heyy, me and my boyfriend have been together for over four months and he's amazing, he treats me like a princess and is anything i could ever ask for but he can be very clingy. Like i have to say ok tonight like you cant hold my hand or something for him to leave me alone but if like i maybe put my arm around him he's all over me and my friends get upset. His friends are mad and mean to him b/c of it and he feels weird being around them so he just sticks to me but i dont want to loose my friends, its like he doesnt know how to socialize. I really need help like he needs to win his friends back in order to back off of me but he feels like he cant do that b/c they are mad [which they are extremly upset about the whole thing they say he spends too much time with me] :/
I've been in your boat before, trust me.
Tell him one night, soon probably, that you're having a girls night out.
Tell him to go hang with your friends because you just want some girl talk or something along those lines.
If he gets upset or makes a big deal out of it, you just need to tell him no, tell him you want to spend some fun time with your friends, and only your friends, you're not trying to be rude.
good luck. =] & i hope i helped. let me know.
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so theres this guy named bobby that i've been talking to. at first he initiated it and we always talked he would text me in the morning then when he was on lunch at work and then when he got off work. we hung out a couple times and the second time he kissed me and everything seemed good. he got a new car but he had to do a lot of work on it so hes been pretty busy lately. one thursday we were supposed to hang out but then he couldn't because he had a lot to do on his car. then he was going away for the weekend and he didn't talk to me all weekend. now hes back but he's been so different and he barely talks to me at all. i'm so confused here i don't know what to do. does anyone know how i can figure out whats going on?
Just text him and tell him that you miss him and for him to let you know when he wants to hang.
Then don't text him for like another 2-3 weeks.
If he doesn't initiate a hang-out time by then, he's stressed and just needs a break from things for awhile.
And you'll just need to let him have that break, otherwise it could make things between you worse, you know?
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my boyfriend and me broke up like 3 months ago but im still not over him!=[ whats a good way to get over him?!
Get rid of mainly everything you have that you got when you were with him or that he gave to you. Try and avoid people that would talk about him a lot. Keep yourself busy- read a book, keep a journal of your moods and such, clean the house, clean your room, myspace, hanging out with friends, etc.
Just keep yourself busy and try looking for someone else. That's the best medicine I can think of.
Or you could always take a picture of him and throw darts at it. Haha.
Just do your best to keep your mind off of him & you'll get over him before you know it.
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I have a serious problem with flirting. Everytime I flirt with a guy,they seem totally turned off. I don't say mean things to them or bore them with stupid one liners. What is the best way to get a guy's attention?
First, look confident. Look like you're bored and then casually flirt with them. Joke around with them, make fun of them in a nice way. Roll your eyes, flip your hair, start talking to other people but casually smile at them.
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Okay wow
major wake up call
I had never even though about this
until I read the lyrics to
Girls Just Want To Have Fun
Some boys take a beautiful girl
And hide her away from the rest of the world
I want to be the one to walk in the sun
Oh girls they want to have fun
My boyfriend NEVER takes me out anywhere
We just go to his house, my house
And occasionally the park which is
right by his house
I was starting to think I was a freak
And he didnt want to be seen with me
But hmm why else could he be hiding me?
Is he ashamed of me? :/
Try talking to him about it, or when you're hanging out with him try offering to go different places.
He might just be more comfortable at his house or your house.
I doubt he's HIDING you.
just try talking to him.
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so today my boyfriend he fingered me and ate me out but when he fingered me we were in the water so he kept asking me if i was getting wet i g uess he just wanted to know.. idk if i was maybe i was but i feel bad because what if next time were out of the water and i dont get wet? is it not normal if a girl orgasms and doesnt get wet?
and also when he ate me out.. it felt like nice but for some reason it didnt do much to me and everyone always says its the best.. can someone explain this to me so i feel normal lol
If you're attracted to him, you should be wet. If it's not wet, even a little all the time, there might be a problem.
Well. Some girls only like when guys eat them out if they finger them at the same time or if they use their tongue more on the inside instead of the outside. So try that, if not, it doesn't mean you're not normal haha.
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