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i need help!!! please?!
Okay! I have been going out with this guy for about 8 months now and he lives In New york..and i live In Michigan. And he ALWAYS talks to me about Other girls. Also when he is with his friends or on Xbox live he doesnt talk to me. Then yells at me when i say "Can i call you back?." And i've thought about breaking up with him, but my heart wont let me. I do love him, But i just dont know what to do. Can someone help?
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Boys are really like that, my boyfriend talks about girls too...but not deeply...just act like your makin a hot ignore look i do that and he runs to me and says he doesnt want me to get mad at him....cuz ofcourse your boyfriend loves you very much...thats the reason he courted you......?so theres nothing to worry about.....just try to make him like you alot....!even you guys are like together.... GuD Luck!
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If he isn't making an effort to talk to you, and you've addressed this with him, and he continues with what he does, well then I would say break up with him.
Long-distance relationships can work, and I've seen plenty work, but then again I've seen plenty NOT work. If it isn't working out, don't feel bad about ending it.
I know you may love him, but there are plenty of other guys out there who won't do what this guy is doing to you.
--Jack
(16/m)
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Sorry hun, but you really do have to break-up with him.
I've been in a long distance relationship with someone exactly like this before, and he treated me the exact same way.
Then I found out he'd been cheating on me. Long distance is hard.
What I advise you to do is to try talking to him about it when he isn't playing Xbox. Be like, "Why do you always talk about other girls? Am I not good enough or something?"
If he then tells you that you're being clingy or some stupid remark that guys could come up with, just tell him that you don't want to be with him. You're going to have to make your heart let you because otherwise, in the end you will get hurt twice as bad. :/
hope i helped, let me know.
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