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My Crush
I have a crush on this HOTTIE! I think he might like me but i'n not sure. What if he doesn't like me? How do i tel him i love him?
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Like it's been said, a crush and love are two separate things. Most likely, you're just confusing love with infatuation, which is normal.
Here's how to tell if he likes you:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!
Here's how to ask him out, according to my friend Laura, if you're interested:
Well, there are 2 major options you can go about to solve this problem:
1. Be blunt about it.
2. Be shy about it.
I highly suggest being blunt about it, and either asking him if he's into you too, or simply asking him out yourself. Guys like when girls show confidence, and there's no better way to show you're confident than walking up to a guy and asking him out!
Or, you can go the other route and be shy about it, possibly doing nothing to show him you're interested in him. Sometimes, people who use this method drop subtle hints such as smiling [which is common in girls and doesn't always show you're into a guy] or having a friend ask if he's into you [this only shows that you're too shy to do it yourself]. This option is really kind of stupid, and is used all too much...
As I always say:
Life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling a boy how you really feel about him?
--Jack
(16/m)
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First off, whatever you do don't tell the kid you love him. That will just scare him. Having a crush and loving someone is two completely different things. Now, the only way to find out if he likes you is to try and talk to him. OR you could just talk to his friends and see what they know about him. Befriend him first, then see where that takes you. Just be yourself & get to know him. ♥
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Hi!!!
whoa sounds like you really like him!
anyways be yourself first of all, make an effort to be with him, and when the time is right tell him that you like him, if you feel he likes you then he probably does (women instinct) and if he doesn't then it's his loss hehe
hope everything turns out well
take care
toodles
Aly~
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WHOA WHOA WHOA! Slow down! How do you know you love him?
It could be infatuation. A major crush. Get to know each other first and when things start to get comfortable, tell him how you feel (not tell him you love him but rather tell him you really like him).
cheers,
stargirl
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