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okay well i met this guy and i've know him for a while now. I talk to him everyday. About 2 weeks ago he finally came out and told me that he liked me and he already knew i liked him. But like last week he got a girlfriend. I was fine with it because we aren' able to see each a lot because he live a decent drive away so i understood. But the thing is even though he has a girlfriend he still say the same things to me but as "friends" it's driving me nuts he tells e how much he cares about me and all that junk but yet he has a girl. He still flirts and does all that junk but yet he does the friend thing. He did tht once before with me and this other girl but when he dumped her he was all about me again...It is driving me crazy what do i do?
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He has feelings for you, yes, but he is basically a man whore. And he doesn't want to just break it to you. Just don't get to attached because once you do, he'll break it to you, AGAIN, that he cares about you, but you're just friends, blah blah. Sorry to tell you that, but it's true. Just stay friends with him. You can still flirt with him and stuff, but he is basically just leading you on.
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I personally would ask him to please stop. He is playing mind games with you. I've been in your situation so I do actually know. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. He has a girl but he wants you on the side, and if for any reason he breaks up with the girl, he feels that if he talks to you the way he is that he'll have you to fall back on. I'm not trying to be rude, I've just been in your exact situation so, I'm trying to save you the heartache and stuff that comes along with it so, please don't take any of this the wrong way... I think if you want to be just friends with him then that's perfectly fine, but he needs to speak to you like a friend, and not a back-up or a side line girl. Because your not one and you deserve better than that. And the only reason I'm saying this is, because you said yourself, he knows you like him a lot, so he knows that he can get away with this. I'm wondering if his girlfriend woul be okay with how he talks to you? My guess is, probably not. Let him know that it's not fair to you and that you'd like to be friends but he is playing mind games and messing with your head because it's obviously clear you like him to both of you. I would just talk to him about it, and see what he does with it. If he freaks out and turns into a jerk because of it, then your way better off with out him anyway if he can't handle like a big boy. Guys normally only get upset about things like that when they can't respect you for it and don't want to hear what your telling them. (No offense guys, girls can do it too.) So, that's just my sugguestion. Talk to him and communicate with him and if he respects you and you 2 can be friends, that awesome, and if he can't and he's going to be childish, then your better off without that stress. You don't need drama or stress in your life. I hope I could help at least a little. Hope I didn't upset you. Good luck! =)
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