Heyy Everyone! My Name is Samantha Lynn. I'm 13 years old. I wouyld like to be a Physcologist in the fiture so I can help people out with their problems so I'm starting with Advicenators! Ask me a question and you can garentee it will be answered! You can IM me on GaudQueen490 or email me at Batontwirlers_26@yahoo.com if you don't want it to appear in my coulum....Heres a little bit about me...I LOVE Music! I'm absolutly obsessed with Elvis Presley! I love Green Day, All American Rejects, Simple Plan, Fallout Boy, and many others! My favorite type of music is rock but i also enjoy rap, rock n' roll, a little country, a little gospel (( only Elvis Presley gospel )), and that's all. I'm in seventh grade and I do pretty well in school... I'm in gifted but I have no common sense haha...I LOVE my friends! theyre so frickin awesome... Kori, Jordan (( H )), Chelsey, Acacia, Taylor, Rachel, Karissa, Holly, Meghan, Emily, Domenique, Chelsea, Jordan (( B )), Ian, Eric, Joanna, Allyson, Erika, Joe, Tyler, Mike, Destinie, Rachel, Lindsay, Sabrina, Shelby, Maria, Courtney, Miranda, Jessika, Jessica, and many others
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okay, i like one guy, Gabe, who i don't know if they like me. i like Alex, who i went out with, and now regret breaking up with him, and he still loves me, but is going out with my best friend. and i like another guy, Diontrae, who also likes me back, but is going out with smeone else. my friends say that i need to pick one of them, but i like them all. i really need help!!!
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well in this situation, the best thing to do would be to decide who you love more and who loves you back. Try not to make a bad choice in this because you might regret not picking that person. Take as while to think about which one you love more and also the consequences of going out with them since some arent single. I hope I helped!
- Samantha Lynn
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ok so what are some really cute love quotes.. or sweet ones...pllllllease. kthx. (link)
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heres a lot...
eres a lot...
1. to the world you\'re just one person but to just one person you mean the world.
2. true love doesn’t have a happy ending. true love doesn’t have an ending.
3. trust that he doesn\'t cheat on you. trust that he doesn\'t lie to you. trust that he really likes you. trust that hell always be there for you. trust that you don\'t have to worry about him breaking up with you the second you wake up. trust that he\'ll stick up for you. trust that he\'ll never fall in love with another girl. trust that he won\'t get sick of you and trust that he wants you like you want him.
4. what\'s meant to be will find a way.
5. when it comes to loving someone you have three options: give up, give in, or give your all.
6. when one look from him is all it takes to brighten your day then that’s when you know that you’re in love.
7. when someone loves you for sure you just remember to never let them go.
8. when you fall in love everything else falls into place.
9. when you fall in love everything sort of passes by and you’re still there, looking at the most beautiful person you’ve ever seen in your life.
10. when you love him he\'ll drive you crazy because he knows he can.
11. when you love someone it\'s something. when someone loves you it\'s another thing. when the person you love loves you back it\'s everything.
12. when you tell someone something bad about yourself you\'re scared they won\'t love you anymore but then you get surprised because not only do they still love you but they love you even more.
13. when you\'re hopelessly in love and you think it\'s true, when he\'s all you\'re thinking of when there\'s nothing else to do, do yourself a favor and think the whole thing through. ask yourself a question - is he thinking of you too?
14. when you\'re in love with someone you can\'t control your heart; it controls you.
15. when you\'re sixteen logic and experience don\'t matter. all that matters is the way you feel and the way you felt the first time you knew it was love.
16. you aren\'t going to be his first, his last, or his only. he\'s cared about someone else before you and he will again but if he cares for you now, what else matters? he\'s not perfect. you aren\'t either. the two of you will never be perfect but if he can make you laugh at least once hold onto him and give him the most you can. he isn\'t going to quote poetry. he\'s not gonna be thinking about you every moment but he\'ll give you part of him that he knows you can break so don\'t hurt him, don\'t change him, and don’t expect more than he can give you. don\'t analyze. smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he\'s not there.
17. you can always have a new love but it\'s good to have your true love.
18. you can’t help who it is that you fall in love with whether they’re older or younger, taller or shorter, completely opposite or just like you.
19. you can’t help who you love. you’re not supposed to. when you love someone you love them.
20. you know he\'s someone special when no matter what kinda mood you\'re in he can always manage to make you smile.
21. you know how much someone means to you by how big your smile gets just by thinking about them.
22. you know you love someone when the mere thought of hurting them is enough to break your own heart.
23. you know you’re in love when nobody else is even worth looking at.
24. you know you’re in love when the hardest thing to say is goodbye.
25. you know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is better than your dreams.
26. you know you’re in love when you wanna tell everyone about it even when they haven’t asked.
27. you know you’re in love when you’re having the worst day ever and just talking to him makes everything so much better.
28. you know you\'re in love when you look back at all the pain and hurt he put you through and still you smile.
29. you know you\'re in love when you see that someone and your heart flutters, your stomach gets butterflies, and the rest of the world disappears.
30. you know you\'re in love when your life is better than your dreams.
31. you should never be afraid to be a little crazy because in the end the sweetest kind of love is the one that made you lose control.
32. you shouldn’t say i love you if you don’t mean it but if you do you should say it a lot because sometimes people forget.
33. you’ve never really lived until you’ve found someone worth dying for.
1. it\'s a feeling you get inside of you when you wanna be with a person, hug them, kiss them, and even just hold hands with them that makes you feel so good.
2. it\'s a surprise people fall in love. it\'s everything you were taught to run from.
3. it\'s funny how we set standards for the one we love while deep down we know the one we truly love will always be an exception.
4. it\'s impossible to find someone who will never hurt you so go for the one who\'s worth all the pain.
5. just a casual fall.
6. let\'s get these teen hearts beating faster, faster.
7. life is too short so love the one you got.
8. love leaves a memory that no one can steal but it also leaves a heartache that no one can heal.
9. love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
10. make sure that you\'re really in love, not just in love with the idea of love.
11. maybe he\'s the one you want but maybe he\'s not the one you need.
12. never frown when you\'re sad because you never know who may be falling in love with your smile.
13. never give up on love because there\'s always someone who loves you even if it\'s not the person you were hoping for.
14. never leave the one you love for the one you like. they\'ll leave you for the one they love and you\'ll be left alone. so do yourself a favor and stick with the one you love and not the one you just like.
15. never take the one you love for granted because you never know when they’ll be gone.
16. no matter how many times you see a shooting star, how many times you make a wish at 11:11, no matter how many coins you throw into a fountain, or the number of fingers you cross if it’s not meant to be, it’s never going to happen.
17. no one ever said that love was gonna be easy. you gotta take the ups and the downs, the in-betweens. if you take this journey you gotta give yourself completely. never let anyone step on your dreams.
18. people fall in love not knowing why or how. it\'s so special, a feeling that it doesn\'t require much answers. you just love no matter how stupid you become.
19. really loving someone means that their happiness is the most important thing to you even if you’re not part of it.
20. remember you can love anyone in the entire world. don\'t let anyone or anything stop you from doing so but you have to remember he can do the same as you can.
21. saying you’ll never fall in love again is like saying you’ll never smile again. as much as you might not want to, someone’s just going to come along and make you.
22. she read the entire dictionary and not one word describes how she feels about him.
23. sometime you meet somebody and you know that whatever you did before must have been right because nothing you’ve done could have been too bad or have gone too far wrong because it led you to this person.
24. sometimes just holding hands is holding onto everything.
25. sometimes no matter how long or how hard you’ve loved someone they\'ll never love you back and no matter how much it hurts you\'ll have to be okay with that.
26. sometimes you just feel everything and nothing all at once. sometimes you\'ll find yourself smiling while missing something at the same time. at times you can absolutely love a person, all the while wanting to hate them. life comes without guarantees, except that smiling will brighten your face, laughing will enhance your eyes, and falling in love will change your life.
27. sometimes you just know when something was meant to happen.
28. sometimes your mind doesn\'t want you to be in love but deep down you know you are.
29. that\'s why it\'s called falling in love because you don\'t force yourself to fall. you just do.
30. the best feeling in the world is listening to someone’s heartbeat and knowing it’s beating like that because of you.
31. the difference between friendship and love is how much you can hurt each other.
32. the only guy that deserves you is the one that thinks he doesn\'t.
33. the sad thing is you can still love someone and be wrong for them.
34. the spaces between our fingers were created so that another person\'s fingers could them in.
35. there are millions of people out there but in the end it all comes down to one.
36. there are three things a guy can never hide; that he’s drunk, that he’s horny, that he’s in love.
37. think how different it would be if you never met the one person who changed everything.
38. to continue loving somebody even though there\'s no chance of that love ever thriving - that\'s romance.
39. to fall in love is easy. even to remain in it isn\'t difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. but it\'s a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be.
40. to fall in love you have to be in the state of mind for it to take like a disease.
. a priceless moment is when the person you’ve fallen in love with looks you right in the eyes and tells you that they’ve fallen in love with you too.
for more go to www.quotemania.2ya.com =]
Hope I Helped!
- Samantha Lynn x33
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I'm 14/f and latly I've been wanting a boyfrined soooooo freaking much, I just want someone to make me laugh, hold me, like me for me, protect me, just a guy to be there for me. It's not like my whole school has a boyfriend or girlfriend there only like err...4 mabye 6 couples that have been dating for a while. Also I'll be attracted to this guy and I can't stop thinking about them then like one day I'm like ew wtf was i thinking liking him. I just don't get why I like a guy one momment and then the next not so much and I want a boyfriend soo bad and it seems like my friends are quite as obsesed as I am with guys and wanting a boyfriend so is this normal? Is there any way I can um.. like try to not have my emotions so strong, not wanting a guy soooo much??
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What your going through is completly narmal in fact i just went through the same thing. Love isn't just about getting a boyfriend because you just "want" one its about falling in love with one person and loving them forever. When you find the right one your not going to say "eww" after so i guess you just haven't found him yet...you will some day though. I Hope I Helped.
♥ Samantha Lynn ♥
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I just got a new boyfriend the other day, and when we talk our convos usually start and end at "Hey you, how are ya?" ... What are somethings I could say to get the conversation to move on? (link)
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Try stuff like hey how was your day? and wanna hear a joke!? or stuff like omg did you hear what so and so said!
Hope I Helped! =)
-Samantha Lynn ♥
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Ok so here is the problem I have a serious crush on this boy let's call him Kyle. I am 14 so it's not just some stupid little kid thing, and no he isn't super popular. He's just there. He's always teasing me he likes to call me a turuturu. (they are cute little made up creatures) The main problem is I know he doesn't like me as more than a friend because he's gay. I keep telling myself I don't have a chance with him because he's gay but I can't get over him. What should I do? (link)
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wow this is a pretty hard thing to deal with. In your case, I would have to try to get over him. I know that can be VERYY hard to do but you really have to try. Think about someone else and just be friends with Kyle. You may want to not spend so much time with Kyle anymore though because then you'll grow even more attached...Hope I Helped!!
- Samantha Lynn ♥
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I really like this guy and well he liked me a couple of weeks ago and i liked him but neither one of us knew it! Now i like him and he doesnt like anyone...He knows I like him but what do I do!? Would he have asked me out already if he liked me also? I mean he knows i really like and i just dont know! Im so confuzzed! Please Help
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If you arent sure then you should wait for him to make the first move...just so you don't get your heart broken
Hope I Helped! =)
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okay well i was going to ask this boy out on the computer...i RLY like him and ppl say he rly likes me and it looks like it because all he does is flirt with me and only me but when i ask someone to ask him if he likes me...he'll say no! the other day i asked my friend chelsey at my other friends party to tell him he should go out with me and he said no!!! and then on the computer a few weeks ago chelsey asked him if he would ever go out with me and he said he didnt know...now is he just doing this because he doesnt want to admit that he'll like me? i rly like him and EVERYONE says he likes me and some of his friends even told me he said he liked me but why is he doing this if he does!? should i just ask him out and get on with my life if he doesnt!? please help...ill rate 5's for any advice unless its mean (link)
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don't ask him out cause he's about to break your heart...let him make the first move if your not sure
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what is flirting exactly? how do you do it? dont you think its rather obvious when your flirting? (link)
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Dating would not be dating if there were no flirting. Flirting is a fabulously fun thing. It is a way to give out signals of interest in a person, or it may be a way for you to pretending to.
Many of us at times will flirt but don’t even know we are doing it. It can be as simple as chatting and standing in the same position of a woman you are interested in, playing with your hair while chatting, or laughing and catching someone while gazing. It is all about body language and signals.
It doesn't take an expert to know how to flirt; you too can flirt like a professional. Flirting is a sexy thing that people like. It is a mean of giving another person attention. Flirting with as little as a smile, a touch, or a whisper at the right time can be a powerful tool, especially against the unwary.
Here are some key indicators of flirting that can prove someone is interested in you:
Eye Contact
Maintaining eye contact including the dilating of pupils or arching of eye brows.
Rapid eye movement including any form of winking or blinking.
Eye contact where the gaze is held longer than usual.
Hair and Mouth
Stroking or toying with hair while maintain eye contact
Touching your hair at any time
Licking of the lips
Heaps of smiles while you speak
Puckering of the lips in a way that you would simulate a kiss
The touching of the lips or teeth with the tongue in any way
Body Movement
While holding gaze, she thrusts her chest or breasts outwards or leaning towards to you
Mirroring your posture
Moving to the rhythm of music while holding your gaze
With her legs crossed towards your way
Open legged posture facing you
The display of flesh of arm or thigh
Touching
With some sort of excuse she will touch you and will reach out to do so
Offering to place food in your mouth as if feeding you
Playing with her hands and then with yours
The Way they speak
Mirroring the conversation by copying your tone and speed
Asking plenty of questions with lots of laughter
Remember flirting is a fun thing and a way to know each other. So make the best out of the moment and enjoy.
Hope I Helped! =)
- Samantha Lynn ♥
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If a guy tells you to have children when you're young; and then winks at you, does that mean anything? This happened to me with a guy friend of mine. First he started asking me if I wanted children. I said that I was still young (I'm 24) and had lots of time for that. Then he said to have them when I'm still young because I wouldnt want to be 60 when their 18. He has never had children himself (he's 41). This is when he winked at me. Do you think (because this is my theory), that this was his way of hinting he wanted to have children with me? Because obviously he wants them, and was telling me to have them young because if I waited until I was 40 to have his kids he would be in his 70's by the time our kids were in their teens. (link)
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I think that he's either telling you to get busy and find someone to settle down with before its to late, or he wants tothave children with you.
Hope I Helped! =)
- Samantha Lynn ♥
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Ok, Bob and I met through a mutual friend at the beginning of this school year. He and I hit it off pretty good and we were just friends. Then one day, I was hugging my other friend Jacob, when, I saw Bob. And I was like "Bob, gimme some love." and he came over and hugged me and he was like "I'll gove you some love". Adn then he like humped my leg, but it was really funny and everyone was standing there. Now, I like him and now it seems liek he never talks to me anymore. I don't know what to do. He's a senior and I'm a sophomore. Please give advice. We are really good friends.
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well i think a really good thing to do is to ask him out or ask him how he feels about you. It might be hard, but it's the only way that you can get the real answer. If you are too shy to ask him then maybe talk to one of his friends, or have one of your friends ask Bob how he feels about you.
Hope I Helped! =)
- Samantha Lynn ♥
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alright, so heres the thing. i was dating a guy (we'll call him K) & i fell for his friend (he's referred to as him). me & him are/were basically best friends because even when K & i went out, we talked a lot online & on the phone.. and we could talk to each other about anything.. we had a close connection. but i never realized that i actually liked him more than a friend until i seen him that weekend he spent the night at K's house on his birthday when i was there.. because there was just something about him when i seen him.. and when i was around him.. i just wanted to like hug him and get really close to him.. and i kept finding myself staring at him.. or trying to touch his hand. why is that? lol is it like that ive liked him all along and i didnt realize it until then? or like we are meant to be together? and like after that weekend, i came home & all i could think about was him.. there was like a connection.. (link)
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well ... it looks like your in love here! I think you should ask him how he feels about you...you shouldnt pass this oppritunity up cause it looks like this could be a great relathionship!
Hope I Helped! =)
- Samantha Lynn ♥
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hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering are looks an important part in a relationship? all my friends say it is but i think its a lil shallow.
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I really agree with you. If he really loves you then he wont care what you look like! A lot of guys are shallow though...looks don't really matter but they might atract the guys... Hope I Helped!
- Samantha Lynn
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Posted Tuesday December 20 2005, 3:29 am
Okay im 17. I've liked this girl since the 8th grade, and im now a senior she is now a JR. Winter formal is coming up and i have been talking to her about it for almost two months. She has only been talking about how she wants to go with this one guy. I really wanted to ask her but i didn't want to make her sad or anything. Now she was told a different guy was going to ask her and shes really happy. So after she found out that he was going to ask her, but before he did i told her i wanted to ask her and that i was kinda sad that it got all messed up. Then the next day she said he asked her, and i said, "well you said no right". And she said, "i did", but then about 5 min later she said, "she was just kind she really said yes." We are pretty good friend i talk to her almost every day, and she will always say hi to me and stuff. but im confused on why she would say something then do something else or any of that. I think she flirts with me once in awhile, and stuff like we bet how many points she gunna score in basketball, and i alway make it a low number so she wins and stuff but if you could help me out that would be great thanks. (link)
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aww...i know how you feel i had almost the same problem but with a guy instead...it seems like she really likes but maybe she just needs time...if not that then maybe she just wants to be friends. I think that you should ask her exactly what she thinks of you...if she likes you or not....What do you have to lose?
Hope I Helped! Happy Holidays!!
-Samantha Lynn x3
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Im in the 7th grade. && I like this 8th grade boy. I see him 3 times a day He doesnt even know me AT ALL. I know him beacause i looked him up in the year book, hehe. And see i cant have enough to really talk with him, beacause i only see him in the halls and we have 5 mins to get to class and all my classes are really far apart to im usally always late. How can i get this boy to notice me & like me as much i like him. (link)
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i have almost the same problem lol
try to run into him in the hall maybe...or hang out with him and his friends at school events...parties are also a great way to get to know someone (( just make sure the person invites him! ))
Hope I Helped!
Samantha Lynn ♥
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omg so sorry i know that this is like THE ONLY QUESTION PEOPLE ASK HERE but what should i get my friends and my bf for christmas. i have like NO MONEY and NO IDEAS.
thanks so much for putting up with this question yet again
ps-'go look at this question that was already answered' cant cause i have like no time. thanks so much bye (link)
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i think candy would be a pretty good gift...maybe lyke a box of chocolates or something...thats what i did last year
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I know that 13-year-olds are too young to fall in love. But does that mean you can't say "I love you" to your boyfriend? (link)
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no you can say "i love you" to anyone you want esspecilly your boyfriend...no one will care
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Well this young man, is all that I am looking for right now, I am so afraid to give him a chance because I had just jumped in a relationship last time and got hurt. So should I follow my heart or should I weight things out first? Please Help (link)
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i think you should give it a while first...flirt with him and let him know you like him without making it too obvious...if he flirts back then start to get ready to ask him out if you want...Good Luck and I hope I helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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Well there is one girl kathy that i have known for 3 years and were good friends you know were there for each other. And then there is this girl brittany. Well Brittany and me have a good bit in common. And i was talking to her and she said that tomorrow she is going to go to a birthday ball and dump the boy she is currently going out with and ask the boy she really likes out, which is me. Well the thing is it seems ALL my friends are enemies. not just say britaany and kathy. But i really dont know what to do. I dont think kathy will stop talking to me by no damn means cause of what all we been through together and the fact we have been there for each other. But i really wouldnt mind going out with brittany since we got a good bit in common. And also as far as me and kathy i have wanted to go out with her since like last october and feel like one day something could happen between me and kathy but really dont know when. So my question is should i go out with brittany since it seems we got alot in common or wait and hope something happens between me and kathy? Eithere way i really feel me and kathy will be there for each other i really do. (link)
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well there are a few things that you could do...you could go out with britany and maybe if it doesnt work out you could give it a shot with kathy or you could tell britany no and explain why and then maybe ask kathy out...its your choice here you just have to decide which one you like more ... you could try writing down all the good things about both of them and whoever has the most good qualities that you like you could go out with or you could listen to your heart...Good luck and I hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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okk my friend likes this guy. `nd i know for a fact he doesnt like her. me `nd him hung out the other night `nd she called me. `nd shes like oh hes wit u let me talk to him .. so she was talkin `nd stuff .. `nd he got off `nd he was all like "why did u make me talk to her shes so fuckin annoying", then he was goin on about that for a while.
`nd i kinda like him too .. but my friend would get mad at me but he doenst like her .. `nd shes like the kinda girl who juss gets over guys really quick .. but i dont know what to do .. b/c he doesnt like her .. `nd theres chance he might like me .. i juss dont know (link)
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try to hook her up with someone elswe...maybe tell her that you heard from someone that someone liked her((fill in that someone with a name!)) shell prolly forget all about him if this guy is decent! that will leave the other guy all to you! Good Luck and I Hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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well my ex boyfriend is always sitting next to this girl Kaitlin at lunch... and it really makes me mad! im so jealous that hes like basically in "love" with her when i cant get him to go back out with me! i guess im trying to say... how do i get him to like me again..? DONT say, talk to him or that kinda crap! im trying to win him over! ((will rate 5's)) (link)
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well maybe you can like someone else and try to get him jealous and get your mind off of him...you can also try to hook someone up with this kaitlin girl...one of those things has to work...Hope I Helped! =)
Samantha Lynn
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