Ok, I know this sounds lame, but I think boys don't like me. I haven't had a boyfriend for a bit longer than a year. I even tried asking some guys out and they said no. It just makes me feel like they don't like me. I'm nice, athletic, funny, cool, and all that stuff. I tried being patient, but it's not working. Even the guys I like treat me just like one of their friends. What am I supposed to do? I'll rate HIGH!!!!!!!!!
i think that any girl should be able to get someone, if they say no then ther just jerks and you shouldnt waste time with jerks like that go with guys who have good insides
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Hey, um, I used to go out with this dude and like we loved each other a lot. When we broke up it hurt like shit loads and like I still love him. But I hide it from all my friends and everything. I still have dreams about him and I can't stop thinking about him. Like long story short, I still love him like a lot. I've told many people that I have gotten over him and that I love someone else and whatever. But truth is I haven't. How can like how can I forget about him and just move yet like just be friends with him. Because everytime I try to get over him, but like the next time I see him I fall for him again. How can I just look at him as a friend rather than as a boyfriend or as a crush? How can I move on?
Signed, Troubled Child
hi jenny lol
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there is this boy and we went out over the summer, but a day before shcool started abck we broke up. We havent talked in almost 6 months and i still like him. He has a girlfriend, but he stares at me and all sometimes. I want to write him a note and tell him that i still like him, but i dont know what all to say. Anyone got any ideas? i rate high!!
ok just tell him that you still have great feelings about him and that he made you happy in so many ways, tell him that you can give him happiness as well if you guys get back together, tell him you like him, there is no limit on expressing your feelings, just tell him you need him so bad and well i know that probably wasnt very helpfull so sorry if it wasnt laters good luck.
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well last saturday i went to my cousins daughters birthday party and i was downstairs with my grandmothers neighbors grandson and we were hanging out, and we were watching TV and i had my head resting on his shoulder and my legs were on his lap and he had his arm around me.. and then my brother came down and was like.. ahh u like her!! to him and he pushed me off and stood up and he was like, no i dont, we were just watching TV. and then he went upstairs and i have NO IDEA what he's thinking now, because he sent mixed signals. and now i like this other kid and he's REALLY funny and pretty cute, and i pretty much cant get my mind off him.. but i dont know what do do... i have mised feelings.
ok, this grandparents neighbors grandson is the one you should pick, he most likley likes you because i say this alot i am a guy and i know the signs, he sounds like he likes you alot and him leaving was us guys way of life all guys are shy, and embarrased, and also some peoples families dont let them date but they do anyways, just pick him believe me. good luck laters.
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so today i asked a guy i really like to be my b/f and he said yes after keeping me in suspence for a few hours during the school day. hes really shy all the time so i asked him out. im afraid this relationship isnt gonna work out cuz he wont call or talk to me... should i give it some time to get comfy (if yes, how should i help him) or just tell him to forget it?
ok, look this guy is a good guy, because all guys are shy i know because i am one and guys who are not acting like they are tough and not shy are shallow and worthless on the inside dont brake up with him because then he will get more shy and you will ruin his oppurtunities with other women, just give him time and joke around with him alot take things slow and tell him to call you and stuff just dont brake up with him. good luck laters.
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okay well i used to like this kid matt, and he found out but we didnt make a big deal out of it. it was around christmas. now its like 3 months later and im starting to like him again. he doesnt know.. but it seems like he wants to be with me alot more. he is always volunteering me for things in school, like today in math we did this thing with judges ((dont ask)) and he was like.. she would be good at it!! and i was like.. but i dont like to talk.. and he was like.. shut up you love to talk you talk to me all the time.. and then at lunch he kept looking at me and whenever our eyes met he would smile at me. im not sure if i should tell him or not.
ok i am a guy and i will tell you right now that is like a big siren lol he so likes you and you should tell him if what you said is true, then he will ask you out with time because guys are reely shy, well good luck and most guys including me are like that so this guy MIGHT be the same but it sounds like he is good luck laters
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Ok now well i have been with this kid whom we'll call john and my ex we'll call jack.Ok me and john have been together for about 3-4 weeks and i was with my ex for 5 months then we broke up in january but lately i have begun to get old feelings back for jack but we are BOTH in a relationship so i wrote him a letter after john left for florida basically asking him out and i am waiting for right now but the prob is if it doesn't work out should i tell john when he comes back about what i was secretley doing?? plz help i only have a couple of days left!!!
~~ME~~
well i know this is not the correct moral thing to do but i wouldnt, but if you tell john about this which is the best thing to do, then you wont have the fear of him finding out later and getting mad, and if he gets mad, hes not worth it, but im not saying that he shouldnt be a little angry because it was kind of bad what you did sorry to say just tell him that it wont happen again and meen it.good luck laters
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ok me and this guy have been going out for about 4 months, im 14, female, and i luv him soo much! We have made-out and been to each others houses, also hes looked down my shirt and lil things nuthing totally taking clothes off or anything, i definately dont want to have sex because im a christian and ive made that promise so what should we do if i want more than just making out?
well dont ever tell him that you want more than just making out, lol because he'll take it a different way all guys are like this he will try to have sex with you, just whenever you think of this again just just think of your religion and believe that its better to just keep it in your mind, what ever it takes to keep from having sex, i know that didnt sound very helpfull, but i cant really think of anything more than making out than having sex lol sorry good luck laters.
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ok well i dont know what else to tell you sorry but just good luck sorry add me if you have msn arsenic_4_@hotmail.com and im 13 not sum creepy guy lol laters.
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Me and this guy use to go out. He broke up with me and I didnt see him for a long time. I was in love with him, we started talking again and we hug and flirt and talk but theres this other girl he does some of that stuff with too. I still have feelings for him, everytime I see him I always think god he's hot, and think about how much I care for him. But wut do I do? I need him back, he's like all I ever think about.
i would say just ask him out again tell him how much you still care about him, if you tell him how you feel, he will see that you are serious about this, but do it fast because if the other girl asks him out, then youll be out of luck lol good luck.
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hi, remember me? I talked to you guys about this guy I like and I wasnt sure if he liked me back.
Anyway. I went to a party last night and I was shocked. I felt like I was shot twice : he smoked and he dirty-danced with a girl, you know with her butt all over him. I really thought he was different, that's why I liked him in the first place.She's not his gf cause she danced with other guys.
I really need some help...Should I ignore all this and try to get to know his personality better? Or should I move on and forget all about him?
Please don't delete this question, the answers are very important to me.
ok 4get this guy hes not worth it and ur good to be shocked because its not right hes messed up ur worth more than that get a guy who is clean and has better morals good luck take cares
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ok well i have this ex b/f i will call him z and i went out with im on and off for almost a year i alos got quite heavy with him. i still like him and have done since we broke up. he has mooved on and been with loads of other girls so why cant i move on???
the reason you cant move on is because he probably gave you care and love no other guy has and you miss the attention and care he has given you but its ok laters
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hey...i was wondering what can i do to get this guy i like to notice me and to let him know i like him?I'm 15 years old and female if that helps any. i know him (the guy i like) because i'm really good friends with his twin sister and i ride his bus alot with my best friend. we have alot of mutual friends but i havent talked to him personally i've gotten to kno him by being around him alot with some friends but i've never actually talked to him and up until recently i didnt realize i was attracted to him so now i'm wondering what i should do whether to just not tell him or go for it...usually i would know the answer myself but i've been screwed over to many times by going with my gut feeling Thanx to any one that helps!!!
ok i know this really is not a good answer or explanation but go for it, make him notice when your not doing friendship type things like long hugs, kisses mabey and staring at each other for a long time he'll get the picture lol laters
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ok i just moved to this new skool in another country. it has about 250 total kids. and i've heard that like all the girls at my new skool like me. and i dont know if i like any of them, and i'm only goin to be here until the end of the skool year. and i dont know wat to do about this... should i like just ignore them or sumthin?
get to know them and youll know wchich one is best for you and pick that one then if you guys are still in love at the end of the skool yeer than she wont mind because true love can go anywhere laters
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Ok, well, I really like this one kid, but the major problem is he likes one of my best friends. I needa find a way for him not to pay attention on her and pay attention on me. I need to know what turns on a guy. Like what do you want in a girl, honestly. Thanks for your help
ok,lets see i tell most people with problems like this to give signs, sign like long hugs and stare at him long times and just tell him personal stuff that you dont tell other people as if you were married lol just be funny, and act "sexy" lol around him that should get any guy good luck laters
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me and my boyfriend..lets call him MOO.. well me and MOO started goin out 2 days ago... and before him i went out wit this kid lets call him COCOA, everyone still thinks me and COCOA are going out but we arnt! And well MOO found out that everyone still thinks that and they think its true, which it isnt! He believes everyone wen they say it to him, but he doesnt believe me wen i tell him that we arnt!! WHICH ME AND COCOA ARNT!! And when i tried callin him like 4 times he never answered his phone, not even to say... i cant talk sry.
you should just flat out tell him that ur not going out with him and if he doesnt beleive you, hes not worth it srry so meen but i know better to treat girls and believe and trust them but o well good luck srry it wasnt much help.
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this friend of mine, Lizzy*, is in a serious relationship with my other friend, Seth*. Lizzy adores Seth, but I know that he has stopped liking her...even though I am not supposed to know, and Lizzy does not know. The problem is, I adore Seth, and he might like me, but I don't know what to do. If I ask Seth if he likes me at all and he says no it would be really akward, but I can't imagine being happy as just his friend much longer...help?!
ok, if *seth says no he doesnt like you then just say ok and play it off just pretend like it was a question, not a special question. talk to him normally as you would any day because if you sound awkward, he will feel awkward and you will drift apart, if they break up, then dont seem to change like emotionally, sooner or later if he does like you and he was just lying because us guys are shy, then hell tell his freinds and it will get back to you, but if you cant wait that long just give him signs or look for signs like him staring at you for a long time and he wants to talk to you alot and just dont make a big deal about it if he doesnt like you, everything happens for a reason for every 2 guys who dont like you, 1 guy does and he is the one just try and find him dont be narrow minded. good luck
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Hi, im starting to like this kid in my class. Theo only problem is i know this other "almost popular" girl who likes him and is having her friends try to get him to go out with her. Whenever they try to ask him he leaves. Hes not really the popular type in all but im starting to like him. The other girl is really nice and funny, but i dont want to let a lot of people know incase she gets mad. Its just that sometimes he talks to me and like asks me the same questions and it feels like he likes me. But even if he asked me out i couldnt go out with him cuz i know about the other girls plan. Should i continue liking him, or just forget it?
* Screwed up lover *
ok i was going good with your question untill you said should i move on wrong choice that should't even be a choice. your funny, but i am a guy and i say just follow what your heart says if you like him take the initiative if he likes you and you give up, so will he and you will lose the fight without even raising a fist, if she gets mad at you who cares, shes not your friend if she gets mad, and then you have a guy with you that you like and he likes you he will stick up for you, its just sad becuase i dont want people walking all over you just do it ask him out people walk all over me and i regret it good luck bye.
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well i am a male and i am 15 i have a problem with my love life.... I am a tennis player and this 1 girl i was playing with i sorta like. I never talked too her... she seems nice... and she is pretty.. im sort of a shy guy though when it comes to me talking to a girl. I dont know y though. I am afraid of rejection. that is a maid reason i am afraid to talk to her. How do I get over my fear and work up the courage to talk to her?
ok rejection is horrible, but what is worse getting rejected and making a good friend or never make a move and never get the chance, i know how you feel i am a guy and its the worst to get rejected but just dont start up with "i want to go out with you" just get to know her and most of all DONT GET NERVOUS if u get nervous you will trip and sound retarted one way is to think about the joke your going to say before you say it because if she doesnt think its funny you will revert to our manly instinct and begin to try to explain it in a wierd way that doesnt make sense and that will quickly make you "annoying" sorry if that wasnt to helpful. good luck
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ok well there was this guy, he was like a nerdy inda guy. i dont like him, at all. and at a party there were these guys having a kissing contest and were trying to see how many kisses they could get foom girls. and the nerdy guy wanted to too and he asked me for a kiss. i asked him to wait a second and i left and never came back, he look so sad. i feel bad cuz i never thought id break someones heart. i dee him at school sometimes. i feel really really bad. what should i say if he asks me about it? thanks, appriciate it
ok, i am a guy and i am going to tell you what i would want to hear. i would want a girl to tell me that she didnt mean to leeve so suddenly and that the kiss question just came as a shock and that it was nothing personal mabey tell him you sort of like someone else. basiclly dont come on to hard about it just sort of ease your way through it make it seem like its just a freindly joke laugh sometimes when your telling him so he doesnt think your mad and even through in a lie if u have 2 because a guy would rather hear a lie, than to be crushed and die. good luck
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ok well i like this guy. i dont know if he has a girl friend. he always says hi to me and gives me hugs. and were both like involved with singing adn stuff at school so we like sing songs together and stuff. and he kissed me on the cheek once when he was leaving somewhere. and he asked for my cell phone number. and once he tried to hook up with me. stupidly i didnt know and didnt even open my mouth! ha ha. anyway i wanna know if he likes me. and if he does then what should i do? should i ask him out, or wait for him to ask me out, or ask a friend to ask him to go out with me? i am really confused and i really like him. please help!
ok, lets see i am a guy as well and i'm going to tell you unfortunately, SOMTIMES guys flirt a little with other girls while in a relationship because they like the feeling of having two girls, but this sounds better, like other times they do it to release their emotions without reely letting them out to the public because guys are reely shy and its embarrasing when everyone is talking about who they like and giving them a hard time about it. i personally think he likes you and lets see if he gets out of his relationship soon wait about a week for him to ask you out, but if he doesnt and gives you signs like staring at you for a long time or not wanting to hang up on the phone and stuff not normal for a freind relationship, then i wud say ask him out. but this is only my opinion, not all guys are the same, good luck take care
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