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i felt so bad
ok well there was this guy, he was like a nerdy inda guy. i dont like him, at all. and at a party there were these guys having a kissing contest and were trying to see how many kisses they could get foom girls. and the nerdy guy wanted to too and he asked me for a kiss. i asked him to wait a second and i left and never came back, he look so sad. i feel bad cuz i never thought id break someones heart. i dee him at school sometimes. i feel really really bad. what should i say if he asks me about it? thanks, appriciate it
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ok, i am a guy and i am going to tell you what i would want to hear. i would want a girl to tell me that she didnt mean to leeve so suddenly and that the kiss question just came as a shock and that it was nothing personal mabey tell him you sort of like someone else. basiclly dont come on to hard about it just sort of ease your way through it make it seem like its just a freindly joke laugh sometimes when your telling him so he doesnt think your mad and even through in a lie if u have 2 because a guy would rather hear a lie, than to be crushed and die. good luck
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What you should really do is, the next time you see this guy, go up to him, and ask him if you guys can talk, and if he says yes, then tell him that you're sorry, and you just didn't want to kiss, say, "I am flattered that you'd want to kiss me, but I really don't feel the same, and I shouldn't have ran away like that, and I apologize." If he says no, try to say you're sorry, like, "I just wanted to say that I was sorry." If he walks away, let him walk, hes just angry and sad. I can understand that you wouldn't want to kiss someone, and I think what you did by not kissing him was better than actually kissing him, because then you're just leading them on, so, I think you just owe him an apology, but other than that, you should be ok, and feel better about letting him know.
-TheTeenGirl
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You don't like him at all. Then try saying no. If the guy is stupid enough to ask you out when you clearly don't like him, thats his problem. Don't go making his broken dreams your problem, they are his problem. Do not be unnecessarily harsh or rude about it. Just say no, you don't like him that way, but thanks for asking. Also, don't run away to all your friends saying "Eww....he just asked me out...blah blah" because that is just childish bullshit. If you break his heart that is his problem. If you tell everyone else and break his soul, that is your fault. Say no, leave it at that and stop worrying about it.
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Well, kisses are very intimate and personal and if you didn't want to kiss him you then you shouldn't have but the way you turned him down was a little harsh. i'm sure he won't talk to you but if you could befriend him and just not mention it that'd make his day. you shouldn't pre judge him for being known as a geek. i bet he has some good qualities you'll like to be his friend. good luck.
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aww :-( He'd probably be too sad to talk about it so he'll probably get nervous or somehting around you..
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Since you can't go back in time and tell him "sorry, no," you should tell him "sorry, I just didn't want to, it wouldn't have felt right and I didn't know what to do," to him if he tries to talk to you about it.
If you want to ignore the problem and put it in your past, than maybe you could just give him a card that says sorry or tell a friend to say it for you.
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He wont. Hes feels to sad to talk to you most likely. Hes probably heart broken big time if you turned him down on that.
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