ok well i like this guy. i dont know if he has a girl friend. he always says hi to me and gives me hugs. and were both like involved with singing adn stuff at school so we like sing songs together and stuff. and he kissed me on the cheek once when he was leaving somewhere. and he asked for my cell phone number. and once he tried to hook up with me. stupidly i didnt know and didnt even open my mouth! ha ha. anyway i wanna know if he likes me. and if he does then what should i do? should i ask him out, or wait for him to ask me out, or ask a friend to ask him to go out with me? i am really confused and i really like him. please help!
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Thursday March 17 2005, 7:18 am: Well,it sounds to me like this boy has done just about everything short of painting a big neon sign on his forehead!! Ha! I think the odds that he likes you are pretty good.Why don't you just start hanging out more after school? Like,while you're in class or in the halls,casually ask him "Hey you wanna catch a movie or get a bite to eat this weekend?". If you'd rather get it over with and just find out flat out does he like you--ask him!!!If you're too shy or embarassed(which you shouldn't be)to ask him in person,slip him a note in class.You say you're both into music,so maybe burn a CD with a song on it that reminds you of him,a song about liking someone and wondering if they like you too.Then slip the CD to him in class!It's a cutesy little spin on it!No matter what method you choose,I think you're guaranteed an answer!!Just be sure not to let this guy,and this opportunity to slip thru your hands!Best of luck sweetie! ;) [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
SPnSR answered Thursday March 17 2005, 6:42 am: flirt with him, ask him if he wants to do stuff over weekends, invite him to things, and eventually he will ask u out..
but whutever u do.. DO NOT have your friend ask him out for you because if you can't even handle going up to him and doing it yourself.. then theres no way a relationship is going to work out [ SPnSR's advice column | Ask SPnSR A Question ]
4Gotten answered Thursday March 17 2005, 3:37 am: ok, lets see i am a guy as well and i'm going to tell you unfortunately, SOMTIMES guys flirt a little with other girls while in a relationship because they like the feeling of having two girls, but this sounds better, like other times they do it to release their emotions without reely letting them out to the public because guys are reely shy and its embarrasing when everyone is talking about who they like and giving them a hard time about it. i personally think he likes you and lets see if he gets out of his relationship soon wait about a week for him to ask you out, but if he doesnt and gives you signs like staring at you for a long time or not wanting to hang up on the phone and stuff not normal for a freind relationship, then i wud say ask him out. but this is only my opinion, not all guys are the same, good luck take care [ 4Gotten's advice column | Ask 4Gotten A Question ]
SaraEliKirk answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 11:47 pm: Ok he obviously has a little more on his mine than chorus buddies! You say you like him, did you give him your number? Does he call you? It sounds to me like he likes you, you could always ask a fried to talk to him for you, make sure its someone you trust though..maybe while your talkin to him just ask him what hes doin this weekend, ask him if he wants to go to the movies or something bc your dying to get out of the house..
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coolpool0509 answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 10:53 pm: ok i think he definitely likes you, unless he acts like that around everyone (he might just be a flirt which can kind of suck sometimes because you can get mixed signals) but i'm kind of old fashioned when it comes to the asking out thing i think the guy should ask the girl out, he may need a couple of hints... it's not bad if you ask him out i just think it's better if he asks you, o and dont have a friend ask him out for you because that just shows that you are not brave enough to do it yourself... good luck!
shake answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 10:33 pm: You're a fucking idiot. If he tried to hook up with you of course he likes you stupid idiot!!!! Jesus christ what are you 11? Damn this questoin pisses me off. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
xxASKAWAYxx answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 10:25 pm: Duh he likes you lol :) Flirt with him ... one day when you are leaving give him a hug and a little kiss. That will tell him hehe
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