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ok well i like this guy. i dont know if he has a girl friend. he always says hi to me and gives me hugs. and were both like involved with singing adn stuff at school so we like sing songs together and stuff. and he kissed me on the cheek once when he was leaving somewhere. and he asked for my cell phone number. and once he tried to hook up with me. stupidly i didnt know and didnt even open my mouth! ha ha. anyway i wanna know if he likes me. and if he does then what should i do? should i ask him out, or wait for him to ask me out, or ask a friend to ask him to go out with me? i am really confused and i really like him. please help!

flirt with him, ask him if he wants to do stuff over weekends, invite him to things, and eventually he will ask u out..
but whutever u do.. DO NOT have your friend ask him out for you because if you can't even handle going up to him and doing it yourself.. then theres no way a relationship is going to work out

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The guy who I've really liked for over a year said that he kind of likes me. What does it mean if he kind of likes me? My friend who is friends with him thinks that since he's shy, he said that he kind of likes me because he was too shy to say yes. This other guy who I talked to who doesn't even know the guy I like said that he thinks it means that the guy I like thinks I'm hot and has a little crush on me, but isn't really like in love with me. What do you think it means if he kind of likes me?

in my book it usually means that he has his eye on more than just you.. guys like to have options

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Ok... how do you feel when a girl asks you out, or how do you think you would react to it?
And how do you feel when a girl you like talkes to you?
I really wanna know. I'm also thinking of asking my guy friend out maybe later this week. Do you have any good advice?
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go for it. i love to know when girls like me or think that i am hott. i feel rly good when im talkin to girls & sadly but true, we always think of going out with the girls that we talk to so its definetly a good chance that he will say yes. especially if he is shy.

-spnsr

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