Hello. My name is Sarah Makredij Boghsaian. I'm 16 years old. I'm from Australia but I live in Egypt. Like: Chocolates, Hot guys, Socks, William Shakespeare, Charles Darwin, Moulin Rouge, Random people, Horror movies, Boxing, Shoes, Rock n Roll, Piercings, Tattoos, Dying my hair, Losing weight, Screaming, Violence, Fighting, Weed, Alcohol, PS, Cars, Different, Craziness, Dancing, Painting, Drawing, Writing, Imagination, Drums, Drum-Sticks, Making the world a fair place, Ideas, Friends, Talking to myself, Marilyn Manson, Music, Fashion, Jumping on my bed, Partying, Vampires, Monsters, Jeff Dunham, Soccur, Anne Rice, Shisha, SMOKING, Reading, Science-Fiction, Clubbing, New York, Gossip Girl, Brother, T.V, Sleeping, Saw, Mohawks, Politics, Wachen Festival, Germany, Mercedes,God, Winter, Black, Monkeys, Hot-topic, Big Mac, Wine, Pepsi, Boxers, Sweet. Dislike: Paris Hilton, Miley Cyrus, Serouise Situations, Quietness, Blondes, Jonas brothers, Girly Girls, Smelly guys, Small Places, Apologizing, Prison, Police, George Bush, BMW, Jerks, Nerds, Weak, Angels, Salt, Morning, Time
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Hey guys.
I write blogss as you know! and for those who didnt know..well,you do now! Im a girl, so i write about things that other girls would probably relate to. But I want to write a blog that will interest guys too, not just girls.
I want to have mixed readers! So, if you can give me ideas on Guy stuff to write about, or what guys would want to read, and stuff. Thanksss (link)
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Well that's all I can think of right now so I suggest the following:
Cars, mostly about the new ones and the fastest. Whats on top gear! Classics!
Sex tips and tricks.
Playboys new 3D edition.
Commiment issues.
Animals, all great facts around the world.
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15/F
okay , so I really need a job and I'm all out of idea's.
i've applied at McDonalds twice :
once in August of last year.
and the second just 3 days ago .
i never got a call from the first time ?
i know i'm a little young,
but i'll be 16 in July..
my family doesnt have much spare money to hand out lately,
so i want a job so i can have some extra cash for whatever & also so i can begin saving up for a car.
if you know anyother places that hire my age,
or any good money making ideas are would be greatly appreciated :)
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Besides fast food chains or supermarkets.
You can do something yourself. Like, washing cars. Put up flyers and wash cars for people. Or cleaning houses for your neighboors like doing their garden. Or you can definitely babysit. Put up flyers and you can lie about your age.
I did that once, babysitting for three weeks, 4 hours a day except fridays and I lied about my age.
Good Luck =]=]
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hey i am a 18/f & tomorrow i start volunteering at this church where i will get to work with babies, kids who're 2 and up etc. well i've never taken care of a baby. i've held one, but i've never fed, changed a baby's diaper (i don't know how to do that). i am really nervous to even work with two year olds because i know its hard. please help me!! thanks (link)
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Wow... It's alright you'll be fine, just pretend your taking care of a drunk person.
Make sure they don't fall so they don't cry.
Play with them any random game that involved making faces, they like that a lot and you can even make up a game just so you can make faces.
Give them anything that when you shake it makes noise , like car keys.
Good Luck =]
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Recently, my friend has been talking about how "hot" he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room having excuses just to walk by her, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and "jerk off" at any pictures of her in them. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to molest him he'd be all for it. This sounds extremely creepy and unhealthy to me? I always thought a teacher is someone you respect, not look at in that way. Is this normal? Should I do something about it. (link)
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Haha! I think it's normal just he has a weird way of expressing he would totally fuck his teacher.
I myself have a big crush on my english teacher, I never attend classes but english to a point that my principal talked to me about it haha he is a male and most teenagers like teachers, plus like they are more mature and have more mature stuff ;) so that's why.
It's normal but if it creeps you out or if it's making you uncomfortable, just tell your friend to use another choice of words haha.
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HI 14/f
Ok, me and one of my very close guy friends likes me. His names Joey.We are very close because we use to date, last year we did. Well, we had a bad break up and he went out with my friend, i warned him she's not right for him and she will cheat on him, and she did. He felt bad for not believing me. Well that's when he started liking me.At that time i didn't we went to the movies together, as friends, and we are very close. I just found out a month ago from his best friend and MINE that he secretly liked me. I don't know why he didn't tell me himself. Finally i asked himself myself if he did, and he said yes he did, but he doesn't want to date anyone right now. Well, i think that's because he just broke up with his recent girl friend (she dumped him :/) , but he's actually happy about it because he didn't really like her, so his best friend said. What i want to know is when will we date? I REALLY truly like him, and want to be his girl friend, and he really like's me to because every time we look at each other and lock eyes, it stays like that for ever it seemsā„ Boy, he's amazing.
Thanks for the help. (link)
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I think you should give him space but at the same time let him know you're there for him but don't call him 24 hours a day, because that will pressure him, don't do stuff couples do, just be a friend and act normal.
If you pressure him, that will drive him away, and that is not a good thing.
Eventually if he truly does like you, he will ask you out and you'll get what you want but you have to be patience and not pressure him.
It will only take time =]
Good Luck =]=]
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is 6inches long for a penis (link)
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It's average... !
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at my school and cheerleading team it seems to me like everyone is so immature. im a junior in high school and im really quiet mainly because im shy but also because i just never know what to talk about or how to respond to people at my school.
i went to a summer program for high school students this summer and i made a ton of friends there and was pretty talkative because we would all have actual real conversations... but coming back here im really quiet and i can't make friends easily because everyone is always hyper and crazy and i just can't relate to them and i never know what to say and it has gotten me depressed lately...
is every high school student like this or is it just mine? and is college going to be different or is it just me that has issues? and how do i start having better social skills and stop being depressed? what do i do about not being able to communicate with them? (link)
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Well everyone wants to be crazy, hyper, and rational. It's normal.
But you don't have to change for anyone, and if people won't like you for who you are than they are not worth your time.
Would college be different?
Everything is different, in college people get crazier but more of a grown up.
Look just chill and take it easy. You might have anxiety disorder. But that's a really low chance because you actually made tons of friends in the summer program.
Time changes people, and you might change later. But there is no such thing as social skills but there is a key word and that is 'be yourself', and be confident. If you lack confidence than that's a tiny problem you need to solve.
Just be yourself, if your not comfortable talking to crazy and hyper people, then don't. But if you are just do, and chili, take a deep breath and say what you want or like.
Good Luck =]=]
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ok so here's the problem. my "best friend" and i did everything together. LITERALLY. but anyways, over time i started to like him a little more than a friend. then it became serious. but then i figured out that he was actually using me for secrets. all he want to know was all of my secrets. but i didnt really talk to him about it. but then when i didnt really have anymore secrets to tell him, he left me (as a friend) for two of my other best friends. of course he was using them also. but they didnt believe that. after he left me for them, he never EVER talked to me. but at the end of the day he would always ask the two girls to text or call him. or he would tell them that he would call them. HE NEVER EVER call me EVER. not even wen we were friends. he broke my heart so much. i would cry everyday. LITERALLY.
so its summer now and i am so happy that i have a bf. someone who actually loves me for me; not my secrets. so im basically trying to forget about my friend. but i cant get him out of my head. i keep thinking about him. and i found out that the two girls arent his friends anymore. and two days after i found that out, he text and emailed me saying "hey wats up? havent talked to you in awhile. call me so we can catch up."
ARE YOU EFFIN' KIDDING? he wants me back since the two girls left him. but im afraid that im going to either break my bf's heart because i still have feelings for my friend. or i will end up falling for my friend AGAIN next year.
"Now, your at the point where you want to forget about the past....all the rude things he said, all the girlfrends he went through, all the secrets you shared, all the tears you shed, all the laughs you shared, and all the time you spent together...but you know you cant...only because you couldnt just forget a person that you spend every second thinking about."
***sorry that was a part from my journal!
please...someone help me get through this. anything will help :)
ps. im a 13 year old girl. going to 8th grade.
and sorry its so long. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO READ IT ALL.
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Look this guy is a jerk, I understand you still have feelings for him because you're hurt but you have to understand you can't be with this guy or even be friends with him because he is a jerk.
Why would you break your boyfriend's heart? You obviously like your boyfriend because like you mentioned you are happy and it's obviously because of your boyfriend.
You don't need this jerk in any way, so reply to his text 'Sorry I'm busy and You're not even worth my time' and when you do that put a big happy smile on your face , move on, and have fun with your boyfriend.
Good Luck =]=]
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Ever have those friends so close they feel like siblings? I have a really close brother-friend, and i mean we're ex bf/gf, but that just brings us closer. aaaanyway. he's turning 18, and i want to do something super special for him to let him know how amazing he is and how much he means to me! Any ideas?
just for info
-he's really into creating music in his virtual studio.
-he plays the piano
-he lives and breathes for teching and audio engineering.
-he's a pretty quirky guy, kind of lives for those "i'm insane, and your reaction was hilarious." moments. (link)
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Well ... If you want to throw a birthday party for him, first thing you need is a theme for the party.
Like if he is one of those boys who is obsessed with comic books and superhero, then get everyone to wear a superhero costume, and decorate everything with superhero and his cake and stuff.
And if he likes gambling and a big fan of poker than Casino theme and get everyone to wear fancy cloth and get poker tables and decorate the location, and the cake too.
If he likes the 70s then the 70s theme.
Check this website, it has details of everything :
http://www.dgreetings.com/birthday/70s-birthday-party-theme.html
Good Luck =]=]
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So there's this guy. From grade five up until grade eight we had always been really close friends. Actually he always liked me more than a friend and he told me that. I never liked him back though. However, at the end of grade eight he stopped talking to me completely. Rumor was that he stopped talking b/c I was too obsessed over this guy I liked and I talked too much about him. That just doesn't seem like what he would get mad over though. He never has before, so I doubt he would this time. I've tried talking to him online,on the phone, at school, just about everywhere... but it's like he never knew me. However he knows me better than anyone I've ever met. It's been 7 months now and things just keep getting worse and worse. It's like I don't exist to him, he honestly doesn't notice me at all ever. I miss having him as a friend so much, he was the only one I ever really trusted and he kept me happy. To make it even worse, I have this small crush on him that keeps growing by the day... I don't know what to do or how to solve this. I have no clue whatsoever why he's mad. No one does. Some good advice would be great. Thx so much!
xox~Becky (link)
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Well once I had this friend who I liked and told him that I have feelings towards him but he never said it back or anything, same situation but the thing is I always had hope that one day he is going to like me until I came to my sense and understood that he will never like me so I got really pissed and decided that distances is going to make me forget him so I stopped talking to him, but he tried every kind of connection to talk to me, but i refused because i was kind of mad at him and myself.
So he gave up and gave me space, and I start thinking about it, I'm strong enough to stop liking him and I felt sorry for him that I suddenly stopped talking to him.
So give him space and confront him face to face, tell him about this little crush you have, be honest about your feelings and how confused you are. Get his address and give him a visit, trust me that's exactly what he needs and want.
Good Luck =]=]
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heyy. well, im really really in love with this one kid. and we flirt like crazy alot...but...the thing is...were good friends. should i just not like him or something? im not sure how to just get it out to him? maybe a friend or something? please help!
signed,
-helpless (link)
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Look life is short and without risks it isn't worth living, and if you didn't tell him how you feel now, it will be harder tomorrow.
You can't be friends with someone you have feelings with because you'll never treat him the way you should treat friends and that is wrong and somehow lying to him in a way.
So you have to tell him how you feel, and who knows he might feel the same way, and just a shy guy and can't tell you or maybe not generally a shy guy but he's a guy who is scared of rejection and before he has a chance with telling you, there might comes another girl and take him away from you.
So do it now, better than later.
Good Luck=]=]
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Hello advicenators,
F, just turned 17.
Okay so now im working in CVS, but im being sponserd by the govetrnment, becuase I got into a program meaning that CVS doesn't personally pay me but the program does. Well anyway so im new and this is my first job. Im a very respectful young girl, I smile a lot and am very kind. So anyway I feel like they don't want me there. (Coworkers) and I feel so left out by even the manager! Becuase everyone else can be there doing stuff and like when im done with my stuff I don't know what to do. And I can't ask the manager anything becuase he scares me becuase he talks so rude to me once I told him I wanted to sign out and he was like so? Look for someone else ? Why are you telling me this? Basically he is so rude. And like I started to tear becuase I feel so leftout and lonely in that job. Other than that I like it. But that's a big prob for me. I feel like everyone looks down on me becuase im the new girl and im young without expirence. What do I do? Please help?.
-lonely girl at work (link)
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Yeah, my sister had the same problem for a very long time, because she was new and unexperienced... Trust me, when you're extremely experienced you'll be just like them, you need to look down on people when you're experienced because that will make them prove themselves.
So basically you need to prove yourself in this company, and by time, by gaining experience, you will eventually prove yourself.
Good Luck =]=]
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15/F
i've like this guy for a while, since we just started being friends. Since then, we've become much closer friends. Although he is my guy best frien, i've developed strong feelings for him. A few of my other friends say he most likely has feelings for me to, but i don't know whether to believe it or not.Part of me thinks he likes me, but the other part questions that if he liked me, wouldn't he have said or done something about it by now? Should i tell him how i feel in chance that we may have a relationshio together, or should i remain silent, hoping my feelings will blow over and keep our valued friendship? Please help. Thank You :)
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Now, you like him, he might like you or not.
So that's a maybe ...
Some guys would be too shy to actually ask or tell, and some are just scared of rejection, and others are just scared of losing that person.
It's either you keep silent and suffer for a while without him knowing how you feel, and you never know how he feels, you don't want to die without telling him (you can die anywhere, anytime, and anyday)
OR
Tell him and with high rank chances you might gain a relationship but also there is disadvantage, that he might break your heart and with all the awkwardness you might loose the friendship but i don't think that matters because for you it's more than friendship.
Make you decision wisely ...
Good Luck =]=]
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my boyfriend and i are starting to grow apart, weve been together for a veryy long time and were planning on getting married. but now we fight alot because i im having medical problems and get hospitalized alot and hes mentally unstable but when were together it seems like our problems pretty much disappear. he says we dont need to makeout anymore because we already love eachother but i want to still.. is there anything i can do to become as inseprable as we used to be? or anything sweet i could do or say? (link)
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I've always believed that everything has a solution, it's true but not how you actually ready it ... Not how I understood it before.
You might be confused now so I'll give you an example,
If you're so poor, and you want to be rich. There is a solution. But it's not getting a job and then get promoted and beautiful husband and happily ever after, no that's never the solution because it doesn't exist. The only solution is to make a plan, rob a bank and get rich, probably end up in jail, now we need another solution. Wait until you get out of jail or maybe you'll die there and that's the end of your journey.
So now it's up to you to whether solve the problem with a solution or just let it go and say "A relationship turned bad why not try a new one"
Exactly like "I'm poor now, why do I need the expensive stuff"
You and your boyfriend have a problem and it's obviously not agreeing (growing apart) "Time changes people and they would never realize that", you and your boyfriend changed, you don't need each other.
So it's either you solve the problem and get convinced that Fate can also be a bitch for a little while only.
A new guy .. A new relatiionship .. A happier life ..
Is not going to harm you, I assure you.
Make your deicision wisely ...
Good Luck =]=]
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http://littlebutterfy09.weebly.com/index.html Please let me know what you think and there are things i like put about me what kind of thing was get people interess more?
thanks (link)
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Yes, It's awesome, I loved it a lot ...
Love the Art and Hand Modeling, it's amazing ...!
But I just think you should add stuff on "Lil about me", because it seemed so empty and I didn't get to know anything ... !!
But other than that I loved it =]
Good Luck =]=]
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How the hell do i get myself to parties?!?! i have been to parties before but i want to go to different parties with different people.like(as cheesey as the sounds) "cool" people. I know i fit in. its just, because i act completely different in school than i act outside of school. I have always been like that. I get good grades and am nice to teachers and am sooo not rebelious in school but when im outside of school....
What do I do? (link)
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You have to be yourself, if you think you can fit in the "cool" group, then be yourself and they are going to accept you but not being yourself and trying to be what they want you to be then that's bullshit.
And who cares if you get good grades and nice to teachers ... Well I get good grade because I'm extremely smart, but not extremely nice to teachers ( I hate teachers) but being stupid and not being nice to teachers isn't cool or rebellious at all.
You got the wrong meaning of the word.
But if your are "cool" then you can throw a party and invite all the students in your school and go W-I-L-D...!!!!
Good Luck=]=]
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so i'm barely 16 (girl), and really old guys try to hit on me all the time, its really creepy. i don't need any warnings about "stay away," blah blah blah, because that's obvious, and the oldest guy i'd date or even think about hooking up with is 18, maybe 19. but like so many guys give you that "i want you in bed" stare (hahaha;) & theyre like 30s or even in their 40s! its disgusting. like im short so im obviously no older than 17, i mean some days i could pass for legal but probably not. like i know when a guy is interested in you, he turns his torso to face you. i know this could be coincidental at times but i had a teacher last year that always sat on desks and (not to be gross) spread his legs to slump down with his elbows on his knees, and i know that when a guy points his you-know-what at you, hes interested in you. (its a natural mating instinct, don't believe me if you dont want to.) this teacher was like 30 and he always faced me. like i made a point to move to avoid him and move to different seats across the entire room and he still always faced me, every single day. like i know its just one incident but so many old guys give me creepy stares. i just want other peoples experiences to make sure im not the only one hahaha and maybe some advice to keep the creepers away ;)
thankss (link)
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Haha ... !! Yeah it happens sometimes ..
I'm 16 but I look 19, and I've dated 25 years old guys ... lol
It's gross sometimes when a nasty looking old guy starts hitting on you in the most disgusting way, but if you think about it a lot then you're not going to let it go, so try taking it as a good laugh, like when someone looks at me, I laugh at their stupidness, so do the same, don't think about it a lot because it's going to bother you.
Good Luck =]=]
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im ALWAYS comparing myself to my boyfriends ex girlfriends.. its bugs me so much cause one of the girls has huge boobs and she lets em all hang out and i have like none.. why do i do this? how do i stop helpp =[ (link)
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You can just remind yourself ...
A) Jealousy is a key of ruining a relationship
B) He isn't with them anymore and happy so that means he doesn't want more of them, and by you trying to be them means you don't have a personality. So be yourself and that's exactly what will make you special to him..
C) He's dating you not any of them. So that means he choice you over that girl with HUGE BOOBS.
Good Luck=]
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Well I like this guy... Lets call him Tyler. I've been talking to him about 2 months ago every day and then it kinda stopped.. and well, he isn't really a good conversation starter. He usually responds like "lol, yeah. haha. " You know what I mean? Then a month ago we were talking about some "dirty things" but it was all a joke. Then it stopped. And when we did talk, we would talk for soo long. Around 2-4 hours? Haha. Then yesterday we had this deep conversation and it was kind of random topics but he was saying how he doesn't want to have a relationship until 2 years later. And some stuff about his life and things like that. But about the relationship thing... He said he doesn't like them because people always spread it everywhere and stuff and it gets pretty annoying. Well, I did agree with him. But see, the problem is that I don't want to have like those "going out dates" kind of relationship. I just like this, "yeah we like eachother" and just talk and stuff. But recently, there was this rumour that spread a bit that I liked him (I dont know whether or not they spread it as a joke or did they really know) and then we were discussing about who might have started it and stuff. But he never actually asked me if the rumour was true or not. And since school ended, it may be a bit easier to talk to him through msn? The problem is that those little "msn talks" are kind of annoying since you can't really talk in real life. Well that isn't a big problem for now... But I just don't know if I should tell him that I like him. And if I do tell him, how should I actually tell him? Im just pretty confuesed. :P Thanks ! (: (link)
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Well ... I know one thing, it's just an extra tip i want you to know about, if this guy takes time by replying to you on MSN then he is not interested.
Moving on ...
There is one sign here, he didn't ask if the rumor is true it could be because ...
1. He doesn't like you and he is sure you don't like him either
OR...
2. He likes you and scared you'd say you don't actually like him
And how will you know if he likes you or not? SIMPLE
Yes confront him and tell him, be honest, you won't loose anything, actually you might gain a boyfriend
Life is not worth it without risks ;)
Good Luck =]=]
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ok What is the different between Guys being shy or guys just showing you they want be your friend? (link)
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Intersting question !!
Well you see, a shy guy would always be nervous around you which includes, running his hand in his hair, sluttering sometimes and etc... Only when he is asking you "what are you doing today?" and etc...
A normal guy, would act all cool and normally like any other friend would ask and maybe add something like "Sup? What are you doing today?"
It's always about being nervous, but if he isn't shy and likes you, i don't think there would be any nervous-ness in his words or actions, and expressions too.
Good Luck=]
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