Ok, me and one of my very close guy friends likes me. His names Joey.We are very close because we use to date, last year we did. Well, we had a bad break up and he went out with my friend, i warned him she's not right for him and she will cheat on him, and she did. He felt bad for not believing me. Well that's when he started liking me.At that time i didn't we went to the movies together, as friends, and we are very close. I just found out a month ago from his best friend and MINE that he secretly liked me. I don't know why he didn't tell me himself. Finally i asked himself myself if he did, and he said yes he did, but he doesn't want to date anyone right now. Well, i think that's because he just broke up with his recent girl friend (she dumped him :/) , but he's actually happy about it because he didn't really like her, so his best friend said. What i want to know is when will we date? I REALLY truly like him, and want to be his girl friend, and he really like's me to because every time we look at each other and lock eyes, it stays like that for ever it seems♥ Boy, he's amazing.
sousou1234567 answered Wednesday September 2 2009, 7:29 am: I think you should give him space but at the same time let him know you're there for him but don't call him 24 hours a day, because that will pressure him, don't do stuff couples do, just be a friend and act normal.
If you pressure him, that will drive him away, and that is not a good thing.
Eventually if he truly does like you, he will ask you out and you'll get what you want but you have to be patience and not pressure him.
LagunaBabe answered Tuesday September 1 2009, 11:58 pm: Just be there for him and let him know that you will not push anything, and when he is ready, you will be too. Everything will work out. =) [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
gr8fruit answered Tuesday September 1 2009, 9:55 pm: Hey there,
You will only date when both of you are ready. And for him to be ready, you have to give him all your support, be positive around him, tell him "when you are ready, im ready." Be patient, give him his space when he needs it, and show him that you are there for him if he needs anyone.
It is so cute that you can have that connection with one another :) I am sure it will work out. When the time is right he should come to you. If he doesn't, you can slowly and gently go to him. But give him time.
Good luck <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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