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how do i get it out to him?
heyy. well, im really really in love with this one kid. and we flirt like crazy alot...but...the thing is...were good friends. should i just not like him or something? im not sure how to just get it out to him? maybe a friend or something? please help!
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-helpless
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Look life is short and without risks it isn't worth living, and if you didn't tell him how you feel now, it will be harder tomorrow.
You can't be friends with someone you have feelings with because you'll never treat him the way you should treat friends and that is wrong and somehow lying to him in a way.
So you have to tell him how you feel, and who knows he might feel the same way, and just a shy guy and can't tell you or maybe not generally a shy guy but he's a guy who is scared of rejection and before he has a chance with telling you, there might comes another girl and take him away from you.
So do it now, better than later.
Good Luck=]=]
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I am a 22 year old guy and let me tell ya, I am still shy at trying to tell girls I like them. It sucks at times, but it happens. I can also say that it's true, we guys don't get the idea sometimes that a girl likes us. We get thoughts, but we don't exactly get the whole idea. If you are afraid of ruining your friendship with the one kid, then I suggest you think things over. It is quite possible that it would be a good idea to try to be with him, because to be honest, a best relationship can be with a person who can be your greatest friend. It's also possible it can be too weird for you or him later on in the future. What you need to do is just go and talk to him and figure things out together. You'll never know any outcome unless you initiate it. Who knows...tomorrow may already be too late.
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Just because your good friends doesn't mean you can't be in love with him! You can try talking to him about it. Guys can't read minds..they won't know whether or not you like them unless you make a move, or bring it up. Same thing goes for him too, though. But it's possible he's shy. You can use a friend for this if that makes it easier for you..nothing wrong with that. But, if you'd rather ask him yourself, you can just tell him you want to talk one day..and tell him how you feel about him. Maybe he feels the same way? It's worth a try! You never know until you ask.
Good luck :)
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