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Boyfriend and kissing other girls ?!
Okay so I'm dating this guy and we have been for about 4 months. This New Years Eve we couldnt hangout beacuse we we're both busy, I had some girls over and he went to one of the guys houses... we're all friends. So anyway , we havnt kissed (its not that we're prude or anything.. like we just wanted it to be speacil) so anyway, this guy's house that he went to has an older sister who is a junior and she had all of her friends over on NYE too ! Now my boyfriend lets call him edward, he thinks thinks his friends sister is amazing liek he thinks shes funny and cool and it used to make me jealous but i got over it... so to the point, SHE KISSED HIM . On the cheek but still it makes me mad and i dont know what to do. I explained to edward how upset I was and he just thought i was over-exaterating. Is this silly? I just dont know what to do. I want him to know im mad but not break up with him, i really like him. BTW, we're 14
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it's extremely silly.
ito my understanding, you're not very old. 13, or 14.
it seems as if you two aren't very serious anyway. That is overreacting.
Youo CAN be upset, that's perfectly fine. You told him, that was your choice. Now he think your an insane, over protective girlfriend because someone he seems to really like gave him a kiss.
If you feel strongly about it, that's fine. But realize that boys don't like girls who over exsasperate every little thing. I guess it's clingy. Chill.
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Babe, I've had a similar problem with my boyfriend too. It's not that your over jealous. I mean I felt the same way, just sit your man down and talk about it. It's actually really simple. If you trust him then leave it alone, but make sure he knows that you are disapointed about it. But if you don't trust him, then I'd dump him.
Your only 14 and you say your in love, but its probably just puppy love. You'll fall in love again someday, and the next guy might be better to/ for you. Hope i helped.
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It was New Years. And it was just on the cheek. Everyone wants a kiss on New Years.
Relax.
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happend to me. it hurts alot. and trust me once you let him get away with that it will end up worse. you shouldnt worry about him anymore that shows he just doesnt care as much as you do. once you let him go with it once, he will keep doing it thinking you will stay with him still. then he will be cheating on you alot. and it sucks. so i would definitely find someone new. im sure there is someone better than him for you. i know i found someone way better than that guy! and he is amazing! you can find an amazing guy to. just let him come to you. dont go out looking for a guy. that will lead into going out with the wrong guys you think u like at the moment but u realize you just dont really like him like that.
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hey, well it was only a kiss on the cheek and she did it to him. i wouldnt be too worried. you are over-reacting a little bit tho. i would do the same and so wouldnt most girls. its just a thing that we do. if you trust him then just tell him that it upset you and that you wish that he wont go out and get kissed on the cheek, lips, or anywhere again.
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Okay. So this girl may be amazing. She may be funny and she may be cool. Who does he call girlfriend? That would be you, my dear.
You aren't over being jealous, hate to inform you. If you were, you wouldn't be so upset right now.
Look at it this way, it wasn't even a kiss. A kiss is on the lips. Obviously, a kiss is something special to him, he wants to have that something special with you.
It was a peck on the cheek. I highly doubt he asked for it. SHE kissed HIS cheek, not vise versa.
Yah, I agree with him on the fact you are over reacting a tad bit. Is it silly? Nah. We all do it.
A show of jealousy is flattering, but don't push it too far, because being overly jealous is insulting.
It basically comes down to trust. Do you trust him? If you do, get over it. Don't break up with him, and don't freak out and push him to break up with you.
If you trust him, drop it. It isn't worth fighting over.
If you don't trust him, it isn't a healthy relationship and not worth keeping.
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That is soo rude of him. How dare he like another girl and flirts with her!? That player... I had a boyfriend like that and it is NOT good. Dump him before you get YOUR heart broken.
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