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Should I tell him?
Well I like this guy... Lets call him Tyler. I've been talking to him about 2 months ago every day and then it kinda stopped.. and well, he isn't really a good conversation starter. He usually responds like "lol, yeah. haha. " You know what I mean? Then a month ago we were talking about some "dirty things" but it was all a joke. Then it stopped. And when we did talk, we would talk for soo long. Around 2-4 hours? Haha. Then yesterday we had this deep conversation and it was kind of random topics but he was saying how he doesn't want to have a relationship until 2 years later. And some stuff about his life and things like that. But about the relationship thing... He said he doesn't like them because people always spread it everywhere and stuff and it gets pretty annoying. Well, I did agree with him. But see, the problem is that I don't want to have like those "going out dates" kind of relationship. I just like this, "yeah we like eachother" and just talk and stuff. But recently, there was this rumour that spread a bit that I liked him (I dont know whether or not they spread it as a joke or did they really know) and then we were discussing about who might have started it and stuff. But he never actually asked me if the rumour was true or not. And since school ended, it may be a bit easier to talk to him through msn? The problem is that those little "msn talks" are kind of annoying since you can't really talk in real life. Well that isn't a big problem for now... But I just don't know if I should tell him that I like him. And if I do tell him, how should I actually tell him? Im just pretty confuesed. :P Thanks ! (:
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first of all you cant do it over msn you have to do it face to face heres what you do is first you ask him if u can hang out sometime then you need to find a place to hang then you need to sit him down and say it gently say something like "okay i have something to tell you well i have liked you for awhile" and hun by the way he has been talking to you i suspect he secretly likes you to dont dred it the worst thing he is going to say is somethin like we musst have a misunderstanding i dont like you that way but i hop we can still b friens but i really think he likes you
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Well ... I know one thing, it's just an extra tip i want you to know about, if this guy takes time by replying to you on MSN then he is not interested.
Moving on ...
There is one sign here, he didn't ask if the rumor is true it could be because ...
1. He doesn't like you and he is sure you don't like him either
OR...
2. He likes you and scared you'd say you don't actually like him
And how will you know if he likes you or not? SIMPLE
Yes confront him and tell him, be honest, you won't loose anything, actually you might gain a boyfriend
Life is not worth it without risks ;)
Good Luck =]=]
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i think you should tell him bt not quit yet. Wait to see if there are any signs he likes you back. Also, when you do tell hm make sure you arent too pushy because he already told you he doesnt want to be in a relationship yet
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I deffinatley think you should tell him. I mean if you don't tell him how will he ever know, and how will YOU ever know if he feels the same back. There is no good in holding things in, all it does it bother, and stress you out. Well as I can see, you & him are pretty close, seems like you're pretty open when you talk about serious things, as you have in the past.
I, personally think it's easier to talk to someone on MSN, when you're talking about serious stuff, but it's so much better when you say it in person. It really won't change anything, whether it's in person or not. It pretty much depends on the person you are.
The best way to tell him is if you guys are talking about relationships & stuff. You should bring up something about who he likes, and then if you get a chance, let him know what you feel. Maybe you should right him a note, or even email him, that way you don't feel that akward. Which ever way you choose, I wish you the best of luck. & I hope it goes well for you ! :]
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Look, a closed mouth doesn't get fed. You feel me? Yes, you should tell him that you like him and have an interest in him. Don't focus on the rumor because it's not relevant. If you ever want to say something to someone, say it don't let others do it for you (rumor form), because they don't know the realness of your crush, but you do. Just call him up and ask him to meet you somewhere, like a park or something.. when you get there, come straight up with him.. just say this: I like you. I have been liking you since (however long), and I know you said you don't like relationships, so we can take it slow.I don't mean that we have to rush anything but I would like to work towards having a relationship NOT a friendship with benefits thing.. see what he says and take it from there girl!
Good Luck... and keep it real.
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