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If my cherry didn't pop the first time I had sex, am I still considered a virgin?

no. cause it probably popped doing someother thing u are not considerd a virgin unless you were raped

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Well I like this guy... Lets call him Tyler. I've been talking to him about 2 months ago every day and then it kinda stopped.. and well, he isn't really a good conversation starter. He usually responds like "lol, yeah. haha. " You know what I mean? Then a month ago we were talking about some "dirty things" but it was all a joke. Then it stopped. And when we did talk, we would talk for soo long. Around 2-4 hours? Haha. Then yesterday we had this deep conversation and it was kind of random topics but he was saying how he doesn't want to have a relationship until 2 years later. And some stuff about his life and things like that. But about the relationship thing... He said he doesn't like them because people always spread it everywhere and stuff and it gets pretty annoying. Well, I did agree with him. But see, the problem is that I don't want to have like those "going out dates" kind of relationship. I just like this, "yeah we like eachother" and just talk and stuff. But recently, there was this rumour that spread a bit that I liked him (I dont know whether or not they spread it as a joke or did they really know) and then we were discussing about who might have started it and stuff. But he never actually asked me if the rumour was true or not. And since school ended, it may be a bit easier to talk to him through msn? The problem is that those little "msn talks" are kind of annoying since you can't really talk in real life. Well that isn't a big problem for now... But I just don't know if I should tell him that I like him. And if I do tell him, how should I actually tell him? Im just pretty confuesed. :P Thanks ! (:

first of all you cant do it over msn you have to do it face to face heres what you do is first you ask him if u can hang out sometime then you need to find a place to hang then you need to sit him down and say it gently say something like "okay i have something to tell you well i have liked you for awhile" and hun by the way he has been talking to you i suspect he secretly likes you to dont dred it the worst thing he is going to say is somethin like we musst have a misunderstanding i dont like you that way but i hop we can still b friens but i really think he likes you

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my best friend and i got in a couple really huge fights a few months ago. it really took a toll on our friendship. one of the fights, was something that she did that is sooooo close to unforgivable. (not going to go into details) anyway, lately ever since like beginning of summer shes been like calling me nonstop and like asking me to hang out everyday, & i was like thinking oh wow this is good, maybe everything is better between us again. well, she told me the other day her other really really good friend was on vacation. :/ she doesn't really have any other friends besides me and her. so does that mean shes only talking to me so much right now because her other friend is on vacation? will she ditch me as soon as she gets back? (not ditch, but not talk to me as much.)

i mean for her sisters birthday she was allowed to invite one friend & she picked me and not the other girl, and like she has me as her best friend on myspace and stuff. but i don't know.

i'm not jealous or anything, & its not like shes my only friend, i have many other good friends besides her. but i was just curious if any of you thinks this is just like her actually wanting to talk to me.. or because her other friend is gone.

okay. first you need to talk to her settle it and fiqure out what is going on

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