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will i get ditched soon?
16/f
my best friend and i got in a couple really huge fights a few months ago. it really took a toll on our friendship. one of the fights, was something that she did that is sooooo close to unforgivable. (not going to go into details) anyway, lately ever since like beginning of summer shes been like calling me nonstop and like asking me to hang out everyday, & i was like thinking oh wow this is good, maybe everything is better between us again. well, she told me the other day her other really really good friend was on vacation. :/ she doesn't really have any other friends besides me and her. so does that mean shes only talking to me so much right now because her other friend is on vacation? will she ditch me as soon as she gets back? (not ditch, but not talk to me as much.)
i mean for her sisters birthday she was allowed to invite one friend & she picked me and not the other girl, and like she has me as her best friend on myspace and stuff. but i don't know.
i'm not jealous or anything, & its not like shes my only friend, i have many other good friends besides her. but i was just curious if any of you thinks this is just like her actually wanting to talk to me.. or because her other friend is gone.
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I think she may be starting to realise that you are a good friend and she doesnt want to loose you after coming close to it?and perhaps regrets doing what she did and is trying to make sure things are okay again between you too.
she could be genuine?maybe she feels lonely aswell too like as you said she doesnt have many other friends so shes staying close as possible to the ones she has..
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There is what you are suggesting that she is only using you until the other friend gets back but im not sure i dont know your friend but it seems to me as if shes not does she find time to hang with you and stuff while the other friend is around?or is she somewhat distant and doesnt talk as much
you need to ask her straight out and talk to her yourself to find out for sure,
good luck =]
hope I helped
much <3
Jess [15/f]
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okay. first you need to talk to her settle it and fiqure out what is going on
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