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Hi, I'm 13 and my bf is 12. Him and I were fooling around one day and I let him put his had down in that area like in side my underwear, but the thing is him and I don't know if he had a Little bit of cum on his finger/hand. And if he did he had VERY little like barly anything, I didn't let him finger me that day I only let him just rub down their. My period is about 3 days late and I'm kinda worried. Could I be pregnant?!
I seriously doubt your pregnant. Most likely the reason your period is late is one of two reasons.
First: You are stressing out over the possibility of being pregnant. Stress more than pregnancy is the biggest reasons for teenage girls missing a period. More so than actually being pregnant.
Second: For girls your age being in puberty it is not uncommon for periods to be irregular or to become irregular.
The best way to relieve your stress is to take a home pregnancy test. Now if you can pass for 14 you will have no trouble making the purchase.
As a general rule I do not instruct teenagers how to lie or hide things from their parents. In this one instance I make an acceptation.
Purchase the test kit. Put it in your purse and put the purse in your room before going to bed. In the morning take your purse to the bathroom with you when you take your shower. Carefully open the kit and take the test as the instructions tell you too. After the results are shown, which I'm 99.99% positive will be negative, repackage the kit and place it back in your purse so you can dispose of it at the mall or some other place away from home.
Should taking your purse into the bathroom not be part of your regular routine and mom is home and see this. Should she say something just say you got up feeling you might need a tampon or napkin and you were not sure there were any in the bathroom.
This is the only time I will ever encourage anyone to lie to a parent. In the future you and your boyfriend need to keep your hands on the outside of your clothing. You two are way to young for this kind of sex play. IF you want, and here again I think it's wrong because it leads to other things. IF you want to let him feel your breasts that's fine. But no further.
You are both too young for any type of mutual masturbation play which would be him fingering you or you giving him hand jobs. Of course any type of oral sex is totally out the question.
The mystique in the relationship between a boy and a girl, man and women is the mystery of the women. The less you give away the more the mystery. Make him earn the right to unlock the doors to solve the mystery. Right now boys his age see love and lust as one in the same. Make sure he actually loves you before you unlock any doors.
(Rating: 3) Thank you so much, still haven't gotten my period yet tho it's about 5 or 6 days Late know. I usually know when I'm gonna get it I get acne the week before and get a bit of tender breasts and I did get both (last week) and a I had a bit of tender breasts this week too. so I thought oh I should be getting my period soon but it didn't come yet. Still kinda worried but not that much. Could it maybe be because we're going into a new year?? Like it feels like I got my period but like Thiers no blood.