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I almost had sex with my girlfriend friend we wer both naked I was trying to penetrate her but it wasnt going in...I tried for 5minutes then quitted....no sperm but my penis was just a little watery not that watery...not sure if its precum or her vaginal gland secretion then she had to rub my dick for like ten minutes while standing and she was fully clothed....she told me she had her last period by September ending not specific....we almost had sex oct9...she had her period 6 days later oct15 which lasted minimum of 3 to 5 days...then she had her next period which was not late by nov10 she said it was heavy nd a bit painful it and it lasted for 5 days...it ended nov16...when I approximately calculate her her cycle I notice it was 27 days cycle nd it shows for her to have had period on oct15...her last period most have ended sept 24 nd her fertile period ended oct3 wic is d day after she ovulated...now in Dec she hasnt gotten her period its gettin due according to my calculation... She feels no pregnancy symptoms nd it has been two months since d day we almost had sex...i havent ejaculated for 3 months before the day we almost had sex...der was no friction...but sperm do come out during excretion but it stopped a month before we almost had sex so is she pregnant or not?
When a women gets her period after having sex it is a fairly good sign she is not pregnant. A woman's period is her body cleaning her womb and making it ready to accept a fertilized egg during her next menstrual cycle. If a fertilized egg does not attach to the lining of her woman during that cycle then she gets her period which includes the unused lining is discarded during her period and a new lining is made ready.
Your girlfriend has had 2 full periods since you had sex or attempted sex. There is no way she could be pregnant with the possible exception of an ectopic pregnancy. In an ectopic pregnancy the egg attaches outside the womb. If this was the case she would have most all the signs of pregnancy by now.
If she were to miss this next period it is most likely because she is stressing over being pregnant. Stress is the biggest killer of periods more so than pregnancy. The best way to put her mind at easy even though I am 99.999% sure she is not pregnant is to have her take a home pregnancy test.
If she is over 14 and worried her mother will find the test kit she can go to any family planning clinic for A test and examination. There is a Federal Law called HIPPA. This law provides for anyone over the age of 14 being allowed to see a doctor for anything to do with their reproductive system without parental knowledge. Furthermore parent can never know of what a child is seen for or treat for as all visits are totally confidential. For a parent to see medical records of these visits the child must give their permission in writing to the doctor or clinic.
If you don't have the money to see a private doctor many of the family planning clinics will see a patient for little or no cost.
My advice then is that first I am almost 100% positive your GF is not pregnant. TO put her mind at easy either have her take a home pregnancy test or if she is over 14 take her to a family planning clinic for an examination.
I really believe you two should just relax and enjoy the upcoming holidays and the next time you try to have sex use a condom and plenty of lubrication. IF you are over 14 the family planning clinic will provide them or you cannot be stopped from purchasing them at your local grocery or pharmacy.
(Rating: 5) Thanks you are right...she is already on her period again and she does a lot of house chores...still no pregnancy symptoms