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I'm 19/f
I'm on birth control for almost a year now but everytime me and my boyfriend have sex I'm still afraid that I'll get pregnant. I've been thinking about asking him to still use a condom so I can relax more about this stuff. I also dont really like the feeling when he cums inside me because it often burns. The problem is that I know he prefers having sex without a condom cause it gives him more pleasure.
So what should I say to him and how do I explain this to him? I'm really scared that I wont be able to pleasure him anymore.. (link)
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If his wearing a condom helps you to feel safer,
then he needs to respect you enough to wear one.
Being on the pill IS the most reliable form of birth control. The chances of you getting pregnant are slim. HOWEVER, if you are more comfortable with him wearing one, THAT is what
he should do.
I must also correct the myth that
you will become immune to birth control pills
over time. You won't. Taking them for a long
period of time may make it take a while to get pregnant when you want to. But taken "as directed"
consistently, they will work fine. Thats not to say that some won't be in that 1% who will get pregnant while taking them correctly. I just don't want you or others reading this to think
they aren't safe taking them.
If you are having burning without one, you do need to get that checked out. That shouldn't be happening at all. So please see a doctor about
the cause of that. Then, discuss your fears with
your doctor too. He/she will be more than happy to talk with you about it. After all that you
should be able to talk to your boyfriend about
it better.
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