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I have gone from younggrandma to just yg. Now,
I am using my real name.
I don't think anyone who knows me will have trouble figuring out who that is!


I have been gone a while dealing with things in my own life. I am back now to help once again. Do not expect answers from me that just tell you what you want to hear. Life is to short for nonsense. :)
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I'm a 13 year old girl. I'm in a long distance relationship with a 16 year old guy. I love him, but i really don't feel like talking to him, and i don't really have any emotions at the time. I'm not happy, sad, mad, or anything. I just feel nothing right now. I want to cry right now, but i can't, and like i said i'm not sad. I don't know what to do. Am i depressed? (link)
I don't know that you are depressed. Depressed people are usually overwhelmingly sad feeling.

Long distance relationships really aren't a great idea for teens. At your age you need to be out there dating and having fun. Its part of growing up and learning about relationships. When you get into a long distance relationship you don't feel you are able to do that. THAT is probably a lot of the problem you are having.

I would suggest that you talk with your guy. Tell him you want to remain friends and talk online but that you need to have a life where you are. Keep in touch & if it is meant to be you will get together again when you can both be in the same place. Its just the smart thing to do.


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thanks sooo much :)




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