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Depressed? I'm not happy, sad, mad, or anything. I just feel nothing right now.


Question Posted Thursday December 27 2012, 6:45 pm

I'm a 13 year old girl. I'm in a long distance relationship with a 16 year old guy. I love him, but i really don't feel like talking to him, and i don't really have any emotions at the time. I'm not happy, sad, mad, or anything. I just feel nothing right now. I want to cry right now, but i can't, and like i said i'm not sad. I don't know what to do. Am i depressed?

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Additional info, added Thursday December 27 2012, 6:47 pm:
I don't know if this relationship is effecting my emotions or what..

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lightoftruth answered Friday December 28 2012, 3:17 am:
I wouldn't say you're depressed. Although, don't self diagnose yourself. A lot of people do that and they're usually wrong and there might be something totally different going on.
First, if you think it might be the relationship, fix that whole thing. You might feel trapped, you might be bored with the relationship and want something else. Who knows, I don't know your relationship with this guy.
If it's not that, check other areas in your life.
If you're still feeling this way after all that, go see a doctor.

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karenR answered Thursday December 27 2012, 10:40 pm:
I don't know that you are depressed. Depressed people are usually overwhelmingly sad feeling.

Long distance relationships really aren't a great idea for teens. At your age you need to be out there dating and having fun. Its part of growing up and learning about relationships. When you get into a long distance relationship you don't feel you are able to do that. THAT is probably a lot of the problem you are having.

I would suggest that you talk with your guy. Tell him you want to remain friends and talk online but that you need to have a life where you are. Keep in touch & if it is meant to be you will get together again when you can both be in the same place. Its just the smart thing to do.

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aturtle1 answered Thursday December 27 2012, 8:36 pm:
i would guess it is.your not old enough to be in a relationship with this gu.at this age 3yrs makes a lot of diffrence.ur feelings r telling u something isnt right. break it off

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