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I have gone from younggrandma to just yg. Now,
I am using my real name.
I don't think anyone who knows me will have trouble figuring out who that is!


I have been gone a while dealing with things in my own life. I am back now to help once again. Do not expect answers from me that just tell you what you want to hear. Life is to short for nonsense. :)
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mmkay... so theres this guy that Ive been talking to a lot lately, and he says that Im cute and really nice to talk to. He said that nothing would probably happen anytime soon, considering our age difference, and considering he lives in another state. I know what you're thinking, nothing would ever happen, and this girl should date/like someone her own age. I've tried. I just cant stop thinking about him. Just talking to him puts a smile on my face. He said that in the future, we'll never know what might happen. We might be together. I told him that he didnt have to say that stuff just because I like him. I told him to say exactly what he was thinking. Then he said that he thinks I'm amazing. He's a really sweet guy, and he says that he's gonna wait till he gets married to have sex. (dont ask how that came up) But... I dont know what to do. Obviously, nothing's going to happen anytime soon, but is there any hope for me at all? (link)
He may be nice and he may be sweet. What you need to understand is that most males who prey on young girls always are nice and sweet. If they weren't,
they wouldn't be able to play them so well.

At the very LEAST, this guy is extremely immature for his age. Most 19 year old males are out actively
dating girls their own age. They are not online picking up 14 year olds.

He is going to say ANYTHING that makes this whole online relationship sound legit to you.

My advice is that you really need to look for a guy your own age who can take you out on real dates. Do not waste your youth waiting for a suspicious online relationship to someday happen.



Rating: 5
Thank you, this was a lot better than the lecture I got from the other "advice"




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