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I have gone from younggrandma to just yg. Now,
I am using my real name.
I don't think anyone who knows me will have trouble figuring out who that is!


I have been gone a while dealing with things in my own life. I am back now to help once again. Do not expect answers from me that just tell you what you want to hear. Life is to short for nonsense. :)
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okay me and my girl been together about a few months but ive known her for about a few years,i know she slept around but not with anyone i know,she cheated on her boyfriend with me and well she cheated on him with others before me,i ask her all the time if im just another Sergio(the guy she was dating)but she says she cheated cuz he cheated,bt i still have a real hard time trusting her,but i love her with all my heart,what should i do?or what should i say?-yazeed:D (link)
To be honest with you, I think you have every right to feel the way you do. Cheating because he cheated isn't even close to a good excuse. Just means she is also vindictive. My instincts tell me she may be a good friend, but isn't one to give your heart to.
Sounds like that advice comes a little late though!

You can try to be boyfriend/girlfriend. She is going to have to earn your trust though, and its something you need to talk to her about. You are going to spend a lot of time being jealous. She needs to know this and understand why. The only way you will trust her is time & her good behavior.

Just know you certainly have reasons to feel she is not trust worthy. I hope she proves to be worth your trouble. Good luck.


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Thank you so much i appreciate the advice..i needed it :D....




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