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Lack In Trust
okay me and my girl been together about a few months but ive known her for about a few years,i know she slept around but not with anyone i know,she cheated on her boyfriend with me and well she cheated on him with others before me,i ask her all the time if im just another Sergio(the guy she was dating)but she says she cheated cuz he cheated,bt i still have a real hard time trusting her,but i love her with all my heart,what should i do?or what should i say?-yazeed:D
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You have every right not to trust her. Man if my boyfriend did that to me, I wouldent be able to trust him no matter how much I love him. You need to sit her down and talk to her. Tell her that you love her, but you cant trust her. She needs to earn your trust back. You guys need a break from each other.. however long that is. You cant be in relationship with someone you cant trust. good luck. :)
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To be honest with you, I think you have every right to feel the way you do. Cheating because he cheated isn't even close to a good excuse. Just means she is also vindictive. My instincts tell me she may be a good friend, but isn't one to give your heart to.
Sounds like that advice comes a little late though!
You can try to be boyfriend/girlfriend. She is going to have to earn your trust though, and its something you need to talk to her about. You are going to spend a lot of time being jealous. She needs to know this and understand why. The only way you will trust her is time & her good behavior.
Just know you certainly have reasons to feel she is not trust worthy. I hope she proves to be worth your trouble. Good luck.
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