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This will be a bit long but please bare with me
My whole life I've been quiet, shy and anti social. I have only one friend and I've known her for 14 years we share a lot in common and I can be myself around her without her judging me. I always seem to do what I have to do, I don't even acknowledge the fact that I don't talk to anyone...in fact sometimes it doesn't cross my mind. Clearly, Outside of my family, my boyfriend and my friend a social life doesn't exist for me. I will not go up to someone I used to know and start a conversation instead I prefer to just do what I need to do and continue on with my day. Sometimes I feel awkward almost like an outsider in this world and no matter what or who I seem to explain myself they don't seem to get a clear understanding on where I come from. Instead they call me a loner, Anti social but it's so much more than that. I choose to be like this, but on the other hand I have my days where I am very lonely. I am young in my 20's and I don't have friends, I spend a lot of time alone. I know it's not normal other folks my age have a social life, friends and things to look forward too.
What is wrong with me? Am I the only one like this? ..What do you call someone like that? (link)
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To answer your question "Am I the only one like this?" The answer is no. I am just like this. I was talking to my husband the other day and he was surprised to learn that i would not go into a restaurant alone. Maybe run in quick and get a to go order, but I'd never go sit alone at a table and eat. LOL.
Personally, I've never had a problem with it. I'm not a social person & I get by fine. My husband knows all the neighbors, I don't know them. I'm not rude if we run into them I will say hi and all. I'm just not knocking on their door or having them over for coffee.
I have worked in a few jobs, all required communicating with others. I did fine. I just
didn't party with people etc. I did my job and then went home.
If you want to change you might see a doctor for suggestions. If you don't have a problem with how you are, then stop worrying about it. You are not alone. :)
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Yes I will no go in a restaraunt alone either lol :) thanks
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