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I have gone from younggrandma to just yg. Now,
I am using my real name.
I don't think anyone who knows me will have trouble figuring out who that is!


I have been gone a while dealing with things in my own life. I am back now to help once again. Do not expect answers from me that just tell you what you want to hear. Life is to short for nonsense. :)
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17/f

gahhhh i'm about to rip this guys head off because he's soooo confusing!!!!!!

so me and this guy had a thing for a while (a few months) while i was dating my boyfriend. ( i know i know.. that was a mistake and its wrong, dont need the lecture) and all of a sudden he stops talking to me... everytime i try to text, he wont answer. he wont pick up my calls. sometimes he even picks up and then hangs up right away. i tried inboxing him on facebook but he wont respond. i checked his wall and he's on sometimes and he talks to his friends. one time i even saw him post this on a girls wall "hey we haven't talked for a while, you should text me sometime" WTH!!! then today i just checked his page and it wont come up on search pages... meaning he deleted his facebook account. i searched his other friends and checked to see if they were still friends with him, and they aren't.

I have NO clue what's going on... its so sudden. I have a slight idea that maybe he's busy with college classes and work and family.. but why would that be an excuse as to treating me this way??

what do i do?? i still really really really REALLY like him... like i can't stop thinking about him and checking my phone to see if he responded. gahhhh he's soooo confusing!!! HELPPPP. thanks (link)
I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but he's dumped you. Not in a very good way, as a matter of fact in a very cowardly way. Wish I could agree
that he's just mad at you so you'll feel better, but I'm old and deal in reality.

It will be a little hard for you to get your mind around since the jerk didn't bother to tell you how he felt or why. You are going to have to move on though.

Look at what you wrote. Put it all together. He won't talk to you. He won't answer your texts. He has even gone so far as to delete his facebook account so you can't find him. He is not any more busy than he ever was, he just wants you out of his life and is to chicken to face you. There is no excuse for the way he is treating you, some guys are just asses.

What do you do? You move on. Forget him. Do not attempt to contact him anymore. Find a guy who will treat you right.



Rating: 5
Thank you sooo much :) you've helped me realize he's just not the guy for me :)




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