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this boy is soo confusing!!!
17/f
gahhhh i'm about to rip this guys head off because he's soooo confusing!!!!!!
so me and this guy had a thing for a while (a few months) while i was dating my boyfriend. ( i know i know.. that was a mistake and its wrong, dont need the lecture) and all of a sudden he stops talking to me... everytime i try to text, he wont answer. he wont pick up my calls. sometimes he even picks up and then hangs up right away. i tried inboxing him on facebook but he wont respond. i checked his wall and he's on sometimes and he talks to his friends. one time i even saw him post this on a girls wall "hey we haven't talked for a while, you should text me sometime" WTH!!! then today i just checked his page and it wont come up on search pages... meaning he deleted his facebook account. i searched his other friends and checked to see if they were still friends with him, and they aren't.
I have NO clue what's going on... its so sudden. I have a slight idea that maybe he's busy with college classes and work and family.. but why would that be an excuse as to treating me this way??
what do i do?? i still really really really REALLY like him... like i can't stop thinking about him and checking my phone to see if he responded. gahhhh he's soooo confusing!!! HELPPPP. thanks
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we all hate to admit it, but he's dumped you. in a very rude way, which no "man" in college should be doing, hes being very immature. immature to the point where he deletes his facebook so you cant be in contact with him, not very manly if you ask me. it'll be hard getting over the fact that he wont talk to you anymore, i know the feeling. but, you eventually realize he wasnt worth it. there are plenty of other fish in the sea. did you think he might of dumped you because he found out that you had a thing with him while you were in a relationship with someone else? maybe he realized what you were doing was wrong, and he was adding to the problem? its not worth getting him back if he wont talk to you, or even has the courtesy to tell you its over. you'll find a real man, who will treat you right. just be patient.
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I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but he's dumped you. Not in a very good way, as a matter of fact in a very cowardly way. Wish I could agree
that he's just mad at you so you'll feel better, but I'm old and deal in reality.
It will be a little hard for you to get your mind around since the jerk didn't bother to tell you how he felt or why. You are going to have to move on though.
Look at what you wrote. Put it all together. He won't talk to you. He won't answer your texts. He has even gone so far as to delete his facebook account so you can't find him. He is not any more busy than he ever was, he just wants you out of his life and is to chicken to face you. There is no excuse for the way he is treating you, some guys are just asses.
What do you do? You move on. Forget him. Do not attempt to contact him anymore. Find a guy who will treat you right.
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so i feel like you left something big out that you don't want to tell us. did you do something that would make him mad? say anything that you didn't mean too?
maybe he feels betrayed. he probably liked you more than you thought or knows how you treat boyfriends and dropped you because of it. i don't know, but feel free to inbox me so i could try to help you out.
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sorry i have just been trying to fugure out how to private message you...as for moving on i split up with my ex of 4 and a half years 6 weeks ago...i dealt with it by blocking him out of my head keeping myself busy..and thinkng positive about it...i mean why would you want to be ith a guy who is IGNORANT and doesnt care about your feelings..just think positive because their will be a guy out their who likes you and wont do this....if you need anything else you can message me! x
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