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there is this guy, I'm fifteen, and he is about the same age, he wants to lose our virginity together, and i think I'm going to. But i refuse to without a condom, and i don't believe in sex after marriage, and i do love him, even if it wasn't for forever, and i just want to know if there is any other precautions, other than STDs and condoms and what not, and i have no idea how to get a condom and i don't want to use plastic wrap because that's not safe really.. this is kind of embarrassing so please don't judge me..thanks for the help !! (link)
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Condoms can be bought almost anywhere. Walmart, Kmart, drug stores even some grocery stores these days. Buy latex condoms. They are most common so that shouldn't be a problem. Lambskin condoms do nothing to prevent HIV.
It is very important that you use a condom. I understand that you know this already...don't let yourself be talked out of using one. Do not allow him to put his penis in your vagina even 'for a minute, just to see what it feels like'. If you think there is even a remote chance he won't bring one, bring one yourself.
Do not, under any circumstances try to use plastic wrap as a substitute for a condom. Plastic wrap can be used for oral sex to cover
female genitals, but it is never to be used as a condom substitute for regular sex. NEVER. It is not safe at all.
Buy lubricated condoms. You also should use some lubricant if it is your first time. Use a WATER BASED lubricant. Using lotion, baby oil or anything else may destroy the condom. You don't want that. They sell these lubricants in most places right there beside the condoms. Generic ones will work fine. I understand it is an added expense, but it will help you have a better experience & prevent torn condoms if he has trouble the first time.
On my message board I have info on how to put a condom on AND how to take a condom off. There is also other info there. I won't repeat it here as it is very long.
Please go there to check it out. It can be found under the subject condom info. All the info is from reliable websites. All links to those websites are listed. I did this a while back to help teens who do desperately need the information, but are afraid the websites will show up in their computer history announcing where they have been looking.
I hope you find some helpful information here. :)
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutmetopic.php?t=1057&userboard_id=15647ard_id=15647
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