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Hey Everyone :) I'm Kate and a level 2 mod on here. I've had this account since July 2004, so I've been on here since I was 13! Wow ... crazy for me to think how long ago that was. I will admit I don't check in as often as I once did, but being away at college, being in a sorority, and having a job when I'm not at school is very time consuming. I still try to help out as much as possible, and if you send me a question I WILL answer it. This site helped me a LOT when I was in high school and had a lot of questions, and I'm here to help anyone who needs it :) Feel free to write in my forum or send me a question any time!
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There is this guy I like I told him I liked him, he freaked (He has a girlfriend). We would "talk" but he would not look. Then a week later we start "talking" again. In class I overheard him say "I'll just be nice to her" to one of his female friends. That hurt,but then later in the week I overhear him saying "I'd screw her" to the same group of friends. What is his problem?
Usually, I would say that it's a great thing... you sharing your feelings with him. HOWEVER, he is in a committed relationship. Unfortunately, you did freak him out - he doesn't want to think there is someone else out there. He cares about his girlfriend, that's why he freaked out! He doesn't hate you... he just doesn't want anyone to think he's going to cheat.
When someone likes a person in a relationship, it can be very mysterious for them to hang out & be friends because it looks like cheating, even if it isn't. That's probably why he said he'd tolerate you.
About "screwing" you... that's just guy talk. Not that it's morally okay or appropriate, but that's all it is. He shouldn't be saying that if he has a girlfriend, but he's just trying to show that it doesn't bother him or weird him out.
It's always great to tell someone when you have a crush on them because you never know whether or not it will work if you don't try; however, if the person is in a relationship, it's best to just let them be and try getting over the crush.
(Rating: 5) thanks, I never looked at it that way until now, now I can put it to rest; thanks.