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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =]

That is way too young! Everyone I know that lost their virginity that young, 100% regretted it. I've talked to my friends and they've told me that they now hate the guy they lost it to and that it was a really bad decision. Also, many of my friends have been close to becoming pregnant, because they A.) didn't have access to a condom and didn't use one. or B.) didn't know how to use a condom the correct way. There are many consequences of having sex that young, but there are no consequences in waiting. Personally, I think 18 is the best age to start having sex, but that's only if you are in a stable relationship and 100% want to.

When you're 13/14/15, chances are, the relationship is not stable. It may only last for a few weeks or a few months. Many guys at that age can be immature too, and they may dump you after they've had sex with you a few times, so they can get someone else to do it with them. The best thing to do, is wait until at least 17 and be in a stable relationship for at least 4-5 months. That's how it happened for me.

OH GEE, THANKS FOR CHANGING MY RATING TO A 2, THAT REALLY HELPS SO MUCH! TOTALLY LOVE THE WAY THE "CUSTOMER" IS ALWAYS RIGHT ON ADVICENATORS, AND THE PEROSN WHOS ASKING THE QUESTION CAN BE A TOTAL BITCH, BUT IF THE ADVICE COLUMNISTS ARE MEAN AT ALL, THEY GET BANNED!

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(Rating: 2) Rating Changed by a lvl 2 mod.

well what if you been in a relationship for two years, thats the better choice. honestly, 4-5 months sounds like a bad choice to have sex. It doesn't really matter at your age, You should when you're ready and have spent enough time together. Honestly thats my opinion so yeah.

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