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I'm Johanna. I'll Come and Go. What can I say? I try.One thing I LOVE to do is to analyze dreams. Just tell me about a dream you had, and I'll help you understand what it means. :)
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My best friend is pregnant. This is really hard to believe for me because of the fact that we are 13 and that we promised eachother we wouldn't do it until we were at least 20. She says she was drunk but what the hell!? She's told me so many versions of the same story and i don't know which to believe! I don't even know how she found out. She is coming over Saturday and she is going to take the pregnancy test in my bathroom again just to make sure. I'm the ONLY one who knows. I want to be her friend but if its true I don't think I can stay friends with her. She is such a bad influence on me.
I know everyone is saying that you "need to be there for her, and blah blah." But honestly, if it was me, I would not want anything to do with her, even if she was my friend. Sorry that I sound like a mean person, but here's my point: You should continue to support her as long as she doesn't pressure YOU to do anything. You should stick by her side, but if she starts saying, "Oh, you should have a baby too." or "Oh why don't you have sex too?" thats when you need to dump her as a friend. You don't have to help her with the pregnancy test, you don't have to help her with anything if you really don't want to. She's not your daughter- let her parents help her if she needs it, because they've actually had children and understand it more. (Obviously she would have to tell her parents first...) But like I said...
A Bad Decision but Good Friend= Yes, she got pregnant but shes not pressuring you to do anything that you don't want to. (sex, drugs, drinking.)
A Bad Influence: She tries to convince you to have a baby with her, to do everything for her, or to engage in other risky behaviors.
(Rating: 5) That is probably the realist advice I've gotten all day. It really really helps me.
Your a saint!!!