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I'm Johanna. I'll Come and Go. What can I say? I try.

One thing I LOVE to do is to analyze dreams. Just tell me about a dream you had, and I'll help you understand what it means. :)

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okay so my best friend [ashley] and this other girl from her school [that i know] got in a "fight" & now they telling me to talk to the other person with their words. i always have to be this kind of person with ashley. im always stuck in the middle of these kind of situations with her. and sometimes i agree with the opposite person. but i dont want to make her feel that *I* dont want to be her friend.
omg
HELP
should i tell whats the truth even though it might mess up our four years of being best friends and should i try to stay out of the situation even though it might give the impression that i dont want to help?

This has happened to me before too. Don't feel like you have to get involved with it. It's not your fight, it's not your responsibility. You don't have to play referee here. Just let them work it out by themselves. If Ashley gets mad at you for not helping her out, just say, "I can't really help you with this, I'm sorry. I don't really know what's going on and I feel like if I got involved, it would make things worse." Let her know that you're her friend, and be there for her to talk to, but you shouldn't be bending over backwards for her, if you know what I mean. If she expects you to fight all of her battles and do every little thing for her, you should re-evaluate your friendship with her and figure out if it's the best thing for you or not. :]

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(Rating: 5) thank you. yeah
i kinda am bad at figureing these things out.
i think you "set me straight"[haha].
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