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I'm Johanna. I'll Come and Go. What can I say? I try.

One thing I LOVE to do is to analyze dreams. Just tell me about a dream you had, and I'll help you understand what it means. :)

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ok so i've known this kid keith for like a year or something, we never really thought of each other as more than friends but thats all changed now. ever since i met him i've heard about him hooking up with a bunch of my friends. after me & keith started talking more he started to tell me he liked me and stuff, and i always gave him a hard time saying that i was only gunna b another girl he made out with , so i didnt talk to him for months, i just started talking to him again and he tells me he changed and hes not like that anymoree...and explains a bunch of reasons why he has changed and why he wanted too. i believe him. i really do. and then me & him went to the movies and made out and all that good stuff.. NOTHING ELSE. well a couple days later one of my friends..we'll call her kim..well kim i guess had a 'thing' with keith as she explained. and as her friend...lets call her kenzee explained. well i called keith and he tells me that kim totally bitched him out and i told him she bitched me out too. and i ask him if he had a 'thing' with kim and he told me sorta, well he admits to me that he likes her but he tells me he likes me too. keith and kim both got into a fight because of me and kim tells me that i ruined everything and that i go around bragging about kissing 'gorgeous' keith in her words. which i didnt. so, about two days later after that (me&keith are still talking) keith leaves me a message while im at cheerleading practice saying in exact words..this: "hey *****, whats up..well i just called to say hi...and whats up..well ill talk to you later oh and me and kim are 'really' cool now. well talk to you later bye hun love you." so i totally freaked out with jealously of course..well who wouldnt? and i called him and i guess he just got off the phone with kim..well yeah im soo jealous its unbelievable im scared hes just using me as like a back up or something like that or he just wants two girls..i dont know well can someone give me advice on what i can do? please thankss...i'll rate.

Wow, he sounds exactly like this kid I went out with who was a year older than me. Boys like that just can't be tamed. They are never satisfied and they are always moving from one girl to the next. The kinds of girls who would go out with these kind of guys are girls with little self respect and well, sometimes they are just the sluttiest girls in school. They move along quickly from guy to guy and its just like this big screwed up rotation thing.

You don't want to become one of these girls who goes out with a boy when they already know he has like four other girlfriends. I've tried, it and its not worth it. You sound like a respectable girl so I would just say goodbye to this keith kid. If he hurts you emotionally like that, what good is it to be with him? You need to move on and just ignore him if he calls again. Don't call him back, don't instant message him. He doesn't desserve you, but there are alot more decent guys out there.

~Johanna

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(Rating: 5) thanks so muchh you really helped.!

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