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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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not sure if this is the right category but yah..

say this guy has a girlfriend and he lets another girl like give him a hand job but it wasn't really a hand job because he still has his pants on and the girl is just rubbing his dick from the outside of the guys pants,

and then the guy rubs the girls vagina but outside the pants..

is that considered cheating on the other girl?

I would say yes.

The sexual act isn't really a sexual act since it's with your clothes on, but you're still stimulating someone's vagina, and it isn't your girlfriend's.

because it would be wayyy easier then this ; and i already have like 5 other myspaces ; so i think i should just make a myspace advise colum ?should i ?

I think you already have too many MySpaces to keep track of.

Keep a column here, and just deal with the MySpaces you already have.

I'm in my 20s. She said she was 20 and is actually 18 and a senior in high school.

Those are the very basic facts.

Now, I'm the kind of person who lying is a big deal to me. Trust overall is a big deal. And people who violate that... lets just say that I may not bring it up, but I will remember this.

I like her. I like spending time with her. But I dont know if I should heed the giant warning sign that is finding out she's still a high school chick (and lying about it) and walk now.

Shes not the only woman I'm seeing at the moment. And no, she doesnt know that.

Risk getting deeper or run away now? What do you think?

I see two huge problems in this question.

She lied to you about her age. She's 18, and you're in your mid 20's. There goes problem one.

And here is problem two: You're seeing other women.

You're both lying to each other. Whether or not she's asked doesn't mean anything. You're still lying to her. And she's still lying to you.

I think that it's wrong of you to date someone that young. That'd be like me dating my 22 year old brother, and I'm 16. I honestly don't think you should keep seeing her. She lied to you about her age & trust is a big thing. I can agree with you on that. Liars will make it nowhere in life unless they become lawyers.

Ditch her.

what does 'BAMF' mean?

alot of people say it on MySpace, and i have no idea what it means?
thanks!

Bad Ass Mother Fucker.

does anyone know the name of the song on the new ipod commerical? something like "music is my boyfriend" thank youuu

That helps for next time, but it's by:

Cansei De Ser Sexy // Music Is My Hot Hot Sex.

The lyrics are here:

http://www.songmeanings.net/lyric.php?lid=3530822107858613365

my lip split in half. how do i repair a chapped lip fast?

I always just use chapstick.

Lately my school has been talking to us about abortion. They think it's wrong and I'm not sure about it. I'm NOT pregnant, but there are girls in my school who are and each of them has said they wish they would have had an abortion. I think it's wrong, but it could also be for the best if one was to have an abortion.

Please voice your opinions on abortion. I would love to hear everything you have to say about it.

My opinion on abortion fluctuates. I used to be completely against it, then I thought it was okay if someone had been raped, but I'm back to being completely against it & I think my opinion will stay with this way.

Anyways, if a girl is dumb enough to have unprotected sex [knowing the consequences or not], she should keep the baby. It is her fault she is pregnant, and now the baby is her problem. Therefore, she should take responsibility for her actions. If everyone gets an abortion, what less are they learning? Oh wait, they aren't.

If a girl is raped, she should still keep it. Of course, the question of "Who is my daddy?" and "How did I get here?" will come up, BUT shit happens and just because someone forces their way onto you doesn't mean you should kill something. It's not the baby's fault that you were raped. Keep it. There are always other options such as adoption. Abortion should never be your plan B when you get pregnant.

If incest has occured, there is always adoption. I realize it'd be weird to have your dad or your brother's baby, BUT again, this isn't the baby's fault. You shouldn't kill something that had no say in the process that occured to make it. So, whenever you have unprotected sex, keep the baby. You know the consequences, & you acted anyways, so it should be kept.

No child is a mistake; just an expected miracle. Abortion is wrong, and anyone who gets one [no matter the reason] should rot in hell. Those kids they're killing can be geniuses or doctors & they're ruining it.

when my boyfriend and I are doing the deed, he ejactulates after like 1 minute! sometimes like 30 seconds... how could he last longer?

Make him whack off before hand, so that way he has to work for it & he'll last longer.

okay so im a L1 moderator
and i went to the moderator FAQ page to find out how to move up to a L2 moderator, but it didnt say.
so my question is how do you become a L2 moderator

(sorry, i know this isnt an advice question)

It is in the FAQ.

http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=69

Sometimes i get so mad i want to crush something, curse, cry. How do i control all those things?
Ive tried everything:
Deep breaths
screaming into my pillow
Nothing seems to satisfy me more than like destroying something etcc...

Crying always helps. Never be ahsamed to do so.

I dont know why, but i keep having these weird dreams about Dylan and Cole Sprouse!! Why??!!
Are they single?
Answers to both please

Cause they're cute.

And yes.

what is marilyn monroe famous for dont send to a site pls too lazy oh and was she the frst model i playboy? if not who was?thanks so much!!

She's an actress/model. She was on the cover of the very first playboy ever released in I believe 1958? Hugh Hefner was talking about it on Keeping Up With The Kardashians when Kim was gonna pose.

But yeah, she was the first playboy bunny ever, you can say & she's famous for her acting & modelling.

I really want to move out of state and get a fresh start But im pretty sure my parents wont listen to me. My sister just recently moved out and I know they wouldnt want to leave state. because of her. The thing is i have made alot of mistakes here and they know i have changed but I want to start fresh and I feel I cant start fresh with me living around the people that know all my mistakes. How can i talk to my parents to show them that this really means alot to me and that i really want to move out of state. What can i say!?

There is nothing you can say.

How old are you? Are you 18? Are you old enough to move out? If not, I suggest you stay where you are. Your parents can't just pick up & leave because you want to. I realize you want a fresh start, but that's not really a valid reason to move. That's running away from things.

What happens if you do get to move & you mess up again? Are you gonna wanna move again? You can't do that. You can't let your mistakes make you. Everyone makes them, but everyone learns & grows to. If you've really changed, you wouldn't let your mistakes define you & make you want to leave. Don't run from this.

So, you can't really say much to your parents. They have jobs where you are. They can't quit their jobs, & move because of you. Moving takes lots of time, effort & money. It isn't something you can do overnight. So to tell you the truth, stay where you are. You're better off.

Does anyone know of a place online where I could get white canvas flats? Just plain, white flats. I've tried keds but they don't have a pair that is just white.

Thanks you :)

I know that you can get them at Rainbow.

i want to give my boyfriend reallly good oral sex. does anyone have any tips or tecneiqcs? answers asap!!

thank you =]

Ok, 13/f

I'm getting my belly button peirced next thursday with my friend for her birthday. I was wondering what the price range is..

Also.. What did it feel like from those who got it done because I'm kind of nervous. And it it true that they make you get a hoop when you get it done?

Thanks! :)

It honestly all depends on where you go. Prices range different from the shops. Some shops will charge $60, some will charge $30. It depends on who does it. My friend got her's done a few months ago, and she only paid like $40, but had to pay for the cleaning stuff too, so it came out to about $55 altogether.

Pain is different for everyone. What could tickle to you, could hurt to me & vice versa. So basically, I'm not sure if it'll hurt you. Do you react to pain well? If not, it'll probably hurt. But mostly, some people barely even feel it. It'll probably be the case with you, but don't get your hopes up because it might not be.

And again, it depends on the place. Some let you pick the jewelery you get put in, and some don't. It all depends where you go.

Good luck!

About how many times do you go shopping a week and actually buy something?

About how many times a week do you stay home and just chill? (as in, not really hang out with anyone, more like just watch tv, talk to your family, or whatever.)

And lastly, how many pairs of socks do you think you need (or have)?

Just random things on my mind...

[1] I don't really go shopping. I've been shopping for the first time in like 3 months yesterday night. I babysat my nephew so my sister gave me 20 bucks, and I bought some mittens & some stillettos. I honestly don't go shopping that much because my family doesn't have lots of money. So, honestly, never.

[2] The only time I'm ever home is at night. On a school-night [even though I don't go to school], I come home at around 12-1am. I've never had curfew, so I'm usually always out & I come home whenever I want to/feel like it. I'm usually only home at night or in the morning because that's when I'm sleeping. When I'm awake, I'm not home.

[3] I think you should have a lot of socks. I mean, not everyone likes them or likes to wear them, but they're cute, they keep your feet warm & it's not good to wear your shoes with barefeet unless they're meant for barefeet. So honestly, about 50-100 pairs. Maybe that's too much, but I think that'd be enough.

I was wondering if there's anyone else who hates sports. I feel like I'm the only one. I haaaate going to any sports events but all of my friends love it. Gah! I mean I know it's to socialize, but I can do that elsewhere..

Well anyway, if you hate sports too, why? :)

I don't exactly hate sports. I dislike watching them - it's just so boring. Even though I have asthma and I'm not good at sports, I like to play anyways because it's more fun that sitting on your ass.

I really need a good book to read!!!

Im 15/f so i dont want anythign short... something i can really get into

Maybe somethign about teens with problems (drugs, alcohol, self destruction)

Im really open for any kind of book

Please help!

Some books you might like are:

- Cut.
- Speak.
- Perks Of Being A Wallflower.
- Keeping You A Secret.
- Breathing Underwater.

If I were to say something to my counselor or a nurse about my depression could they talk to my parents without my permission? I've been wanting to see someone about it but I refuse to if my parents have to get involved. If that is the case, who else could I see about it?

No, they can't. They have to keep everything completely confidential & the only way they're allowed to tell is if you're a danger to society and/or yourself.

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