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ok so me and my boyfriend have been through alot this year and i was telling my friend about it all today and we reached the fact that im better off w/out him and that i can handle but see if it werent for me he wouldnt still be alive(long story) so i feel like he needs me and i dunno what to do like i know im better off w/out him but i still care about him and i dont wanna lose him but i really cant be with him i just cant so i was wondering what yall think i should do to help get over him thanks!

you guys can break up & still be good friends. you don't want to be with someone you truly don't want to be with. you guys can be friends & you can still be there for him. talk to him about it & you guys can sort everything out.

-hope that helped!♥

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ok here is the deal..i like this boy John. we have been friends for a while and he started daten this girl about 9 months ago. well while he was daten her me and him started to like each other. well they borke up about a month ago..and the other night he started calling me...keep in mind every time we start talking something bad happens to us. well i thought this time it would be different. but i keep having this feelin that something bad was about to happen..i told him that i was feeling that way and he told me that he promises nothing bad will happen this time and things are going to go the way we want them to...well it did. someone (i have no idea who) iMed me last night and started calling me a slut and telling me all these really mean things. now what lead me to think it's someone he knows is that they mentioned his exgirlfriend and him. i thought i was his sister for a lil while and i still kind of think it is. also. he lives in another part to where i live at, at lest an hour away. but he is suppose to be moving back to where i live soon.
i just want you guys to tell me what i should do. i've thought about telling him that i don't wanna talk with him anymore. but i can't do that. bC i care for him WAY to much. he is the only guy that i've ever actually wanted to be with without cheating on him..i drop EVERYTHING and i mean EVERYTHING to be with this boy.
so if you don't mind please give me some ideas of how i can get through this without telling him we have to stop talking and being friends?
and if you think it is for the best to stop talking then tell me so and tell me why if you don't mind.
THANKS

getting into situations like that are weird. i mean, being friends is okay i guess, but he does have a gf & you do like him. maybe you shouldn't talk to him, because you know that if you do like him, it'll become more difficult for you to stop & you might even like him more. you definately don't want that. what you can do is juss try ignoring him. you don't have to talk to him online er on the phone. if he's in person maybe say 'hi whats up' & kind've walk away slowly. those kind've relationships go away kinda fast anyway. you don't even have to be friends, juss be aquiantances.

-hope that helped!♥

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ok i was daten this guy for 1 1/2 years and then we borke up cuz he didnt love me that way anymore...well its been month and we started hanging out every day and we talk everynite and when we hang out we sometimes watch tv and lay there together and when we lay there he will kiss my forehead or rub my head and when are are layn there il have my eyes closed and when i open them hes looking at me. he holds my hand sometimes and hugs me. but the thing is that he is going on a date with this girl and everytime he talks to her he always tells me and i told him that i get jealous and i cant help that. i dont want him to start liken her. he tell me about all the girls he thinks is hott and when we work out together and i talk about other guys and talk to sum of the guys that workout with us and not talk to him he gets really mad. i still care about him and i dont know what to do. today is his b-day and he invited me to dinner with his family and he got my x-mas presents but he didnt for any other girl and im invited to his family x-mas party...what do i do?

i think you should talk to him about it. maybe he's going out with that girl, er says he thinks other girls are hott, because he wants to make you jealous & what not. i think if you talked to him about it & told him how you felt, it'll sort everything out & then you won't be curious.

-hope that helped!♥

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Well today me and my friend got in a fight and it was wrong on my part so i was going to apologize the next period until i found out that she had told 2 other girls who are also my friends and 1 is mad at me now and the other isnt because she thinks its stupid.....well the girl who IS mad at me said i have no reason to be mad at her and i said well yeah i do because your talking shit about me behind my back and you cant say it to my face and she said she should be mad at me because i changed "so much" so my question is should i be mad at her for talking about me or should i apologize to the girls talking shit about me....i know i have changed but not the way they think i have and they dont belive me when i try to explain that to them...so please give me advice and if anyone read all of this thanks soo much..ill rate 5's to anyone

idk i wouldn't appologize. that bugs me a lot, because they obviously don't have the guts to tell it to your face & that's so annoying. i'm not saying you should do that, that's juss my opinion. if you wanna be friends with them, then of course appologize. if you're not totally sure about it, then wait & see what happens. i think they should be appologizing to you though, but if you want to fix things up then go for it.

-hope that helped!♥

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ok im sorry if this is long but it has a lot of info....ok i *was* dating this kid we will call him ...Bob...s0o0o yeah ...he broke up with me the other day but i wasnt aware of the break up...ok i wasnt in school one day because i had ot babysit..but Bob told my brother to tell me that it was over between us....he never told me...s0o0 i came to school the next day thinking we were still together....and my "friend" came running up to me with a HUGE smile and she said" are you and bob are broken up?" i simply said no..she told me that he was telling people he was single....so0o i asked him if we were still going out he told me "no".....i almost cried....but when i was about to go to my bestfriend to talk to ..my "friend" came up and she told me" 0o0o and my the way yesterday i ask Bob to the dance"...i wanted to punch her....and now she acts like nothing happened....she acts like i am the happiest person in the world...i just have no idea what to do..........like i have moved on and s0o0o has he...and im not really mad that he broke up with me...im mad how he did it....idk what to do i need some help about what i should do....HELP!!
~broken hearted~

PS..im s0o0o sorry it was s0o0 long

WTF oh man i would've flipped all over the place haha =) don't even care at this point. if hes THAT low of a man, no i mean boy!! he wouldn't of ever told your brother to break you guys up for him. that's pathetic & he has no balls whatsoever. you can definately find someone better than that, so juss ignore him. now you're friend, that's totally ridiculous & you should really talk to her about it. if she was your true friend, she'd never would've done that. juss talk to her & explain how you feel. talk to both i guess, but i think you should leave him alone. he's obviously a jerkface.

-hope that helped!♥

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today my dad and i had another fight and im loseing it. i cant seem to bear life in my house any more. i hate my dad and i cant live with him any more but i have 3 more years left to go. how do i keep from breaking down for good?

sorry to hear that. i think you juss have to stick it out & respect your dad as much as possible. you probably don't want to right now, but you don't want things to be rocky in the future. let him blow up at you if he wants to. he'll look like a complete fool if he's being mean & yelling at you & you're juss standing there taking it. he'll eventually stop. you can't break down from it. if you flip out back, er first, he's winning in the argument. keep your cool, stay calm. if you really can't take it, politely walk away & blow up in your room. he'll realize what he's doing. you can't have a continous argument going with your father, i mean yes maybe he's a complete jerk idk, but he is your father. juss try to relax & do other things to stay out've his way if you can. maybe stay at friends houses on weekends & go out if he lets you.

-hope that helped!♥

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what are some good exercises for my arms, legs, booty, back, stomache? Do I have to hold a muscel when doing sit-ups? cuz i heard you build out if you dont. Is there anyway to make my booty look bigger or something cuz i used to have a nice big booty and now its kinda smaller...

there are plenty of exercises you can do. are you trying to lose weight er are you trying to stay fit?? maybe both?? well, if you're looking to lose weight leave one in my inbox, but here are a few websites to stay fit er toned-

http://www.leehayward.com/arms.htm
for your arms

http://www.intense-workout.com/leg_exercises.html
for your legs

http://exercise.about.com/cs/exerciseworkouts/tp/butt.htm
for your butt

http://www.nismat.org/orthocor/programs/lowback.html
for your back

http://www.weightlossforgood.co.uk/home_exercise/abdominal.htm
for your stomach

here are a few other good exercise websites-
http://walking.about.com/cs/fitnesswalking/a/exupperbody.htm
http://www.clearleadinc.com/site/exercise_lower_body.html
http://www.netfit.co.uk/home_circuit_exercises/home_exercises_lower.htm
http://www.aerobicspot.com/thebest.htm

-hope that helped!♥

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okay i like this kid and hes in all my classes i have a feeling he likes me and he always ims me as soon as he gets on the problem is i have plenty of things to talk to him about at school but nothing online so does any one know stuff i can say to him and no hey whats up ? and hows school . just dont cut it thanks a bunch ..

how about sports?? maybe christmas, uhh friends, tv, music, anything i guess haha =) juss something entertaining. i guess friends would be easiest er sports er find something you're both interested in.

-hope that helped!♥

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whats 4th base please answer asap!! will rate

4th base is sex..like SEX SEX.

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I have gym and I am 13 and dont know who to ask, anyway gym class you know how girls go through theire monthly surprise and I dont know what to do! and i cant miss a class or I have to make it up and do like 40 laps alone!

gym class might actually be better for you. if you run, it helps reduce cramps so they won't hurt as much. if you really really don't want to, then ask the other girls because obviously you're not the only girl who gets it. how about tampons?? they might be helpful.

-hope that helped!♥

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how old do you have to be to go clubbin? well i live in massachusetts

uhh yeah it depends on your area. i live in PA & there's underaged clubs w/ nonalcoholic beverages haha =) you have to be 13-17 to go there, like not all places is 18 er 21 er whatever. you have to do some research with your town & what not & it also depends on what clubs you go to.

-hope that helped!♥

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First of all, that's my dog. It's a red dacshund and I need some good names for HIM

i have two dachunds!! theyre soo cute =) haha. peanut would be really cuteeee.

here's a website-
http://www.petrix.com/dognames/

-hope that helped!♥

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I'm planning on buying movies next weekend because I have none! I love scary movies and chick flicks and comedy's. What do you recommand.

p.s. no rated R's

i like watching movies soo ima list some-

-napoleon dynamite
-hitch
-longest yard
-wedding singer
-mr deeds
-the ring
-the ring 2
-secret window
-monster in law
-a christmas story
-guess who
-bewitched
-the skeleton key
-boogey man
-shrek 2
-shark tale
-mean girls
-spongebob movie
-white chicks
-butterfly effect
-without a paddle

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heya its my birthday next week and for my party i want some like clubbing music like r n b and that i dont normally listen to that kinda music but i want some, can anyone give me any artists or song names i can look up. i love save the last dance! so like if you watched it and know the songs and artists then could you give me the names please! thank you so much! x x x

my favorite music is R&B & rap. it has such good beats & what not so i have some examples for you. if you wanna look any of it up check out www.launch.com & type it in the search bar. you can look through music videos too.

here's the save the last dance soundtrack-
http://www.stlyrics.com/s/savethelastdance.htm

here's a list of some good songs-

dont forget about us-mariah carey
shake it off-mariah carey
there it go-juelz santana(the whistle song)
whats your flavor-craig david
oh la la-cheri denis(making the band 3 song)
gotta stay fly-3 6 mafia
jesus walks-kanye west
workout plan-kanye west
gold digger-kanye west
straight up-chante moore
who's that girl-eve
run it-chris brown
dont cha-pussycatdolls
stickwitu-pussycatdolls
wats luv-fat joe
naughty girl-beyonce
baby boy-beyonce
check on it-beyonce
sugar-trick daddy
pon de replay-rhianna
if its lovin that you want-rihanna
my humps-blackeyedpeas
we be burnin-sean paul
shake-ying yang twins
lose control-missy elliot
goodies-ciara
hotline-ciara
1 2 step-ciara

-hope that helped!♥

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ok, im 13 and he is 13 or 14 and he kind of good looking but not really but he is really funny and smartand kind ect. anyway he goes to my religion class and we used to have it every monday but it is over until the winter or spring. he told me to chosse winter and we could be in the same class so I said "ok I will" on the last day he asked me my sn but I dont have one yet so he gave me his and wrote (4 when u do ) and a smile face, my step brother told me that he likes me so he asked him on line and he said no I like this girl named Liz. But when I left to go somewhere he said he wanted to talk to me and tell me something but I havent been on line yet so I wasr wondering if he does like me, and if I should ask him myself if he wants to go Ice skating with me? should I or not?

juss because he says he likes some girl doesn't really mean anything. he could be covering it about because he's shy. ask him to go with you. you guys could still be good friends. plus you guys can hang out, skate, maybe get something to eat, & ask him how he feels & what not. maybe he juss wanted to tell you in person.

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hi well since i was about 10 ive wanted to be a child carer but for a while now ive been thinking of becoming an advice collumnist you no like an agony aunt where you give advice to people in magazines and stuff well i looked it up on the net and i found this site so for quite a while i have been giving advice to teens on here if you would be happy to read my advice collumn then please go ahead my problem is that i dont no if im that good or good enough and pluss i dont no where to start so will someone please give me some guidelines as to how i can become this because its something i would really love to do and i can take critisism so dont be afraid to tell me the truth i will take on board what you say and try to become more better or try to change what im doing wrong please check out my advice collumn and tell me what you think many thanks jess xxxx

that seems like an awesome career!! you should try going to local newspaper first. maybe not a huge news line, but small things. see if you can go to their offices & get interviews. advicenator will give you great practice. don't give up on it & follow your dream. you can do anything you put your mine to & go for it. there should be a local newspaper office in your town somewhere & i think you should ask them if they can help you out. start from the bottom & work your way up. if you can relate to people you'll go far in the career. stay strong!!

-hope that helped!♥

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What do you all think I should get my boyfriend for Christmas? We will have been going out for about 6 months by that time.

you should buy him whatever he likes. like..none of us know him probably so if he likes sports teams, maybe a jersey for that team er if he has a favorite movie get him that etc. it's up to you because you know him the best. juss do some reseach & ask around.

good luck!♥

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what is better for music for an ipod :
ares or limewire.. and why

i'd say limewire is way easier for an ipod. it has less virus's & everything, even though ares is done too. i guess its in your opinion, but for my computer limewire music is easier to store & easier to find the real versions of songs you need.

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Hey everybody! For Christmas I'm looking at cell phones that I want to get. I want a flip phone that has the best reception. It really doesn't matter if it can take photo's or not, perferably not. I just want a plain flip phone tha has the best reception. Do you know any websites I can visit that have the cell phones I'm looking for at a reasonable rate. Also, does anybody know a cell phone model that's similar to the one i want. Thanks!

try these websites-

www.cingular.com
www.verizon.com

i can't find models for you, because idk your zip code & what not, but if you look at their phones, there's definately ones you can find. for me, cingular has way better reception, but maybe its juss my area.

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I've had my period since July, and it's already starting to become regular. Is this a good time to start using tampons? I want to begin using them before the volleyball season comes up because I heard you can see pads through your spandex shorts. Any tips on using them, like how to know when it's in, how exactly to use the applicater, and how to get it in ? Thanks guys :)

you can probably use tampons. a lot of girls do, especially during sports. a heads up, if you start running a lot in volleyball, it probably will become unregular soo juss be prepared for that. idk why but it does. when you get the tampon, it'll have instructions how to put it in & all that.

-hope that helped!♥

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