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boy problems
ok here is the deal..i like this boy John. we have been friends for a while and he started daten this girl about 9 months ago. well while he was daten her me and him started to like each other. well they borke up about a month ago..and the other night he started calling me...keep in mind every time we start talking something bad happens to us. well i thought this time it would be different. but i keep having this feelin that something bad was about to happen..i told him that i was feeling that way and he told me that he promises nothing bad will happen this time and things are going to go the way we want them to...well it did. someone (i have no idea who) iMed me last night and started calling me a slut and telling me all these really mean things. now what lead me to think it's someone he knows is that they mentioned his exgirlfriend and him. i thought i was his sister for a lil while and i still kind of think it is. also. he lives in another part to where i live at, at lest an hour away. but he is suppose to be moving back to where i live soon.
i just want you guys to tell me what i should do. i've thought about telling him that i don't wanna talk with him anymore. but i can't do that. bC i care for him WAY to much. he is the only guy that i've ever actually wanted to be with without cheating on him..i drop EVERYTHING and i mean EVERYTHING to be with this boy.
so if you don't mind please give me some ideas of how i can get through this without telling him we have to stop talking and being friends?
and if you think it is for the best to stop talking then tell me so and tell me why if you don't mind.
THANKS<3
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As all may say, whoever this chick is she is off the top jealous of you. The problems(bad things happen) that you and this guy may have is nothin to worry about I mean seriously, I get this all the time. That other someone being really mean, has to deal. No one can bring you down for something your not. No matter what,if you like this guy so much and you don't want to break it than why do it? No one can tell you who you can be with or not! Your man your choice.
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okay first off.. who ever it is, is jealous of you. Talk to him about it if it is bothering you that much. If it's something that you can live with brush it off, and forget about it! If you talk to him.. don't come straight out and say it.. just talk to him normal and hint around it. and then let him tell you what's going on. i hope i kinda help.. let me know how it goes!!
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ok heres what you HAVE to do. you have to tell him that someone said that to you but u dont know who it is. if he doesnt care and says your not then dont worry about it!
hope ihelped
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I think that going with your instincts is the best way to go. I think that if you really like the guy and want to be with no matter what then you should do whatever you can to be with him. Going with your instincts will help you from getting hurt and stop you from having regret. If you dont do something then you will just wonder what would have happened if i would have done something.
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getting into situations like that are weird. i mean, being friends is okay i guess, but he does have a gf & you do like him. maybe you shouldn't talk to him, because you know that if you do like him, it'll become more difficult for you to stop & you might even like him more. you definately don't want that. what you can do is juss try ignoring him. you don't have to talk to him online er on the phone. if he's in person maybe say 'hi whats up' & kind've walk away slowly. those kind've relationships go away kinda fast anyway. you don't even have to be friends, juss be aquiantances.
-hope that helped!♥
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